MOLLY'S 8th BIRTHDAY!
This ended up being the shortest call ever. Not even sure we needed a phone call for this conversation, but we were able to hear exactly what Kelly needs to do. She will need two weeks of injections and then be put out for the extraction of the eggs. That is if they can get any out of her ovaries. We shall see. I think it was cute that Kelly took the 50/50 chance so positively! I'm so proud of her and the mature way she is handling all of this heavy duty stuff. I think she has so much faith and is doing really well at hoping for the best. Me too. We got this. I thin it will be fun to raise the $10,000 and interesting to see how it all goes. 9-1-23
This was a beautiful day!! I was so happy for Molly and she was so excited! I spent the morning making the treats she had requested- scotcheroos, rice krispie treats, dried skittles, banana bread, and cupcakes. Then we spent a little time getting the house cleaned up. Molly got to go over to the field to play with her remote control hummingbird and spent a lot of time playing with her new toys, that was fun. We had to rush to finish getting ready and were almost late to the church. But we made it. We got pictures of Molly and with Nate. Then I rushed into the chapel to play the interlude music. The program went so well! I was so happy with all of it. I loved Elle's talk and then the best part was probably Luke and Charity's singing Peace In Christ- they sounded amazing! Then I gave a talk. It was a great program. I loved being with Molly in the dressing room before and during and after. I love that I get to be backstage and that Heavenly Father made it so that I am on the side where I can see her face and watch her as she is dunked :). The feeling that comes when someone is baptized is just so incredible. I don't know how anyone could not love that Spirit. It's just awesome. We had a sweet little moment in the dressing room with her white towel and being able to talk about how she felt in that moment. I loved it! She's so sweet! We got her dressed and then waited for Nate to be able to get dressed as well. He had to wait for Noah Barton and his dad to finish. But we listened to some nice music and then got to witness Molly being confirmed. It was a cool little bonus that we got to have Brad on Video chat with us. Unfortunately, the picture quality wasn't that great. But it was nice to feel like he was with us. Molly had Noah as the chorister, Erika and Kelly as witnesses, and Jack said the closing prayer. Such a special day! I loved that she was so prepared and felt ready for that day. She's going to be a great disciple of Christ. She had so much support from so many family members! I had no idea how many people we were going to have there. It was a great turn out! Grandpa Hatch and Jo, Grandma and Simon, STEVE! Grandma Ruthie, Becky, Jen, Nancy and her family, Dan and their family, The Taylors! It was great!! I was so happy she had so much support. I was also happy I had "gone overboard" with treats because there was plenty to eat. Such a nice day! We spent the rest of the day resting. Kelly took Molly and Erika swimming so Molly could test out her new mermaid tail and I got to have the quiet house to myself for a good hour with everyone else gone too. It was kind of nice. This was the last big thing for a while. I'm kind of relieved. So happy for Molly though!! This is a special time and I hope she remembers it forever. 9-2-23
Witnesses: Emmi and Dillon Kobel (Noah's cousins)
I taught Sunday school today, Spiritual gifts, we did the thing where you pass around an envelope for each person and write everyone's gifts. I think it went well. Not sure though. I liked that Kelly and Erika were there with us. 9-3-23
We got to witness Jack being set apart in his new calling! He is very excited and I think he will love working with the people he is with and love learning the things he will learn. It's going to be great! 9-3-23
Even though it was pouring rain as we left, we drove up to Day Break for some Labor Day fun with the Maynes Family. Ruth had planned a cute little get together. She had a bunch of stuff she was raffling off and fun games at the tables. The boys played basketball the entire time. The girls and I all played the games at the tables. It is fun to see how much Ruth enjoys giving her things away- we all went home with some treasures, and some toilet paper pumpkins. HA! We had a great time though! Becky, Jen, Harrises, Taylors, and even the Idaho Mayneses were there! So that was awesome! We did have to hurry home for Noah to be able to hang out with his friends. We stopped at Carls Jr. on the way home. Once we got home, my body decided it was time to relax from the past few months of STUFF and I started to get sick. I hate when I can feel it coming on. The sore throat was first, then chills and aches. It was no fun. Nate let me sleep it off a little that evening. I felt better, but still took me a few days to feel back to normal. My normal. 9-4-23
I was out. Nate and the kids carried on. Noah taught the lesson and they played lightning before having Ice cream. I wish I'd been there for all of it. 9-4-23
We got to talk to Bradley today!! He called at 3:45 when everyone was home from school. It was really fun to talk to him. He looks so good!! He needs a new watch and new suit pants cuz his thighs are too big. I loved hearing about his week. Apparently it was a short one. He's starting to feel like he's in Ground Hog Day though. He will find out Friday his stateside assignment, and so he's anxious for that. When I said he might get his visa because I've been fasting for it, he said now that he's wrapped his head around going somewhere else first, it would be really strange to go right to Peru! Funny kid. 9-6-23
This week was actually the FASTEST week of the MTC so far. I still feel like P day was yesterday but it apparently was a week ago. This week wasn't thaat eventful but we definitely played more volleyball everyday. My comp sorta hates volleyball so it hasn't been as much as it was last week. The Spanish is starting to come along a little bit better each day too but also at the same time it's the most stressful thing. Like everyone said it to trust the process but I feel like the process isnt working right now and I am falling behind so i have started GRINDING on my Spanish work. It's crazy in 2 weeks I am going to be somewhere on the streets talking to random people about this man Joseph Smith they have never heard about. AND IN SPANISH. I dont get how other people can learn Chinese and I am over here struggling with Spanish. Nobody ever said it was going to be easy so I never expected it to be but its still crazy. I set some goals this week and they are to use Elder because I have realized how important it is that we have that title and if I am not using the title it's taking that special position away from them. I also wanted to finish the Book of Mormon by the end of the MTC and I was doing so good but I have realized it was taking away my spanish studies and making me lack in that so I am backing off of that and still trying to read a lot but not so that it takes over the rest of my studies. I am doing SOO good on my "no nap" goal and haven't caved in yet. I've gotten close haha. Also I would love to hear how everyone is doing!! I don't even know what's going on outside of the MTC right now so it would be wonderful.
We had playgroup again this week. It was much more eventful this time! There was a lady whose purse was stolen out of her car WHILE WE WERE ALL SITTING THERE- and her car was the first one in the parking lot! And then there was also a stabbing at the Maverik across the street!! So crazy! In west Kaysville! Who woulda thought! Sadie waited til the very end to swing!! So proud of her! 9-7-23
Sadie and I were able to go to lunch with my mom this week. We went to the Habit. It was a really nice time! I appreciated her letting me talk the entire time :). 9-7-23
We're starting back up with YW volleyball! I'm so glad I get to go do this with Erika. I know my time is limited in there and I am betting we're getting close to the end, so I'm trying to savor every last minute with her. She's so awesome and just ooozes competence!! Sis. Fox constantly wants to use her as an example of how to do things- even with the KJH volleyball team girls right there. Erika is better than them, no doubt about that. She should totally try out next year. It was fun to be back at it with Christie though and helping out with the skills clinic. Getting excited for a good season! Fingers crossed! 9-7-23
Nate and I had an unusual date this week- only because we had to keep changing our minds. We were going to go to the Sushi place in Centerville since our movie was in Centerville, but it was closed! Such a bummer. We tried to go to a sushi place down in Bountiful, but it was packed and wouldn't get us served in time, so we came back to Centerville and needed something quick, so we went to Tony Burgers. It was funny that Luke's friend Tate was working while we were there. It was pretty good food- can't say I was overly impressed, but it was yummy. We went over to our movie after and it was the 1950's (or whatever year) version of Murder on the Orient Express! It was super funny that that's what we were watching, but it was fun to watch. We did have to create our own special effects. Fun times though. 9-8-23
We were really excited for the fair this year. I feel like we get more and more excited for this tradition every year. It was a little bittersweet since we didn't have the older three with us, but we're learning to make do and adapt without them. Jack and I were a little pressed for time since he wanted to get back for his family history meeting. So we ran over to the Hands on Farm first. That is our favorite thing at the fair :). Everyone puts on an apron (not Noah this time) and we all go through the process of making food and selling it. Kinda fun :). Mainly it's just fun because we have done it every year. It's fun to see everyone making it fun for the little ones and everyone is just happy. Easily pleased :). I took lots of pictures to share with the big kids. After the farm we went over to the Fine Arts building to find Annie's art. She hasn't entered anything in a long time so this was exciting. This is the first year we haven't entered anything in a long time- our August was so full- so we didn't have any of our own to see, but looking for Annie's was pretty exciting. She did the cutest one of Cole as a baby cowboy. So cute!! Her talent is so amazing. We had a few more minutes for Jack to go pick out a souvenir- he got a sword letter opener. Then he and I made our way out to the parking lot for the wild goose chase for the Prius. It was so funny that it was so close to the van. We got him to Barabar Noriega's for his meeting right at 6:30. They were meeting before heading over to the Clemens' for a presentation. This was Jack's first time. Very exciting. I heard he did a great job. The rest of the family stayed at the fair and saw the animals and ate goodies. I think some of them even went on some rides. Sounded like they had fun. 9-11-23
We got to talk with Brad again. This has quickly become a major highlight. This week we decided to let everyone talk to him individually instead of all together. I think everyone liked this way of doing the call. I enjoyed talking to him and seeing his cute face. We talked about his new reassignment to Portland and how that was going to go. He's excited! I'm glad he has been able to stay positive about it. 9-13-23
We haven't done anything in so long, it was time for lunch. We were going to go to Everbowl but they were out of acai so we went over to Blaze Pizza instead. It was just as yummy as last time. Sadie and Addie did pretty good! I really enjoy talking with Marianne. She's fun to get to know. 9-14-23
We had our first games tonight. It went pretty well, had a good turn out, but we lost both games. Kind of a bummer. But everyone had fun. 9-14-23
We had our annual Fun Run Friday. I was surprised at how excited/nervous Jack and Molly were. Not quite like the older kids used to do, but close. Nate, Sadie and I all went to watch and cheer the kids on. I had signed up to pass out churros but there were about a million parents doing that, so I cut off tops of otter pops and squirted kids as they went through the "jungle cruise" instead. Erika had begged and begged enough that I let her check out and come over to run with the kids. That was pretty cool of her. I think they like having company. Jack and Molly both ran the entire route! Three miles for Jack, One and a half for Molly. So cool. They did a Disney theme so there was lots of fun costumes everywhere. Fun stuff. We were glad we got to go this year after missing last year for the Florida trip. Good stuff though. 9-15-23
Nate and I were able to get sushi this week. After being let down last week, we needed it! We went to Sushi Monster and then saw the Mission Impossible movie again- Dead Reckoning. I was so beyond tired I even dozed off a couple times, which was a huge bummer, but it was fun to get out- we still need this little respite each week it keeps us alive. 9-15-23
Saturday was full of three soccer games, Primary Program Practice, and Noah's cross country race. Everything went really well. The kids all scored at least once, the practice was fun even though Molly didn't feel like it was necessary since she already knows all the songs. Noah did well at his race, even though he says he was super tired and just trying to help pace someone else. It was nice to relax that evening a little. Erika went to a "fancy" Fall Dinner Party at Lexie's, Noah got all dressed up for a girl's birthday party, and Luke was home most of the night with me and the littles. Erika left the party early to go to the Regional dance. It was a full day. I was grumpy and tired by the end of the night. 9-16-23
We had our program today! The kids all did so good!! Jack had a bunch of parts, kept getting up and killing it with his parts. He and Molly got to play the bells in a special song. They did a great job! Molly said her part perfectly and was SO GOOD at singing every word to every song. The sign language song was really cool too- it was I'll Walk With You and Molly and Sadie knew every single sign! So well!! Sadie was adorable the whole time, sang a lot of the words, looked so cute/bored sitting on the stand the whole time, she waved a lot, smiled a lot, did her cute little wave with Richelle a few times, she said her part perfectly even though we couldn't even see her :). Nate had found us the perfect seats so that we could see everyone at once. It was fun to be able to see Jack in his last one and get excited afor at least a few more years of this! 9-17-23
We decided to go to Barnes Park this week for FHE. We fed the ducks our frozen peas and then played on the playground the rest of the time. It was a lot of fun and felt like a good condensed family activity. We came home to ice cream and cookies courtesy of Nate and Sadie I think. 9-18-23
Kelly's friend Maddie created a Gofundme for Kelly's egg retrieval costs. We humbled but teared up a few times as well watching the total climb! She was up to $3,000.00 in just a couple days. I'm glad Kelly has this- I think it eases her mind. It is very generous of everyone to donate and we do really appreciate the help. Hopefully we can get some good viable eggs!! 9-19-23
Brad called a few times this morning, tried once while he was in line at breakfast, but the cafeteria was so loud we could barely hear him. Then he called again as we were getting the elementary kids off. I loved talking to him about his last few days in the MTC and hearing about Lucia and Seth emailing him about visiting him in Portland and then their "P.S. You're still our favorite athlete". That would be really cool if they could meet up with him somehow. He sounded nervous, but also excited to go to Portland in a couple days. I got to show him Sadie on her new scooter and she talked to him for a few seconds. Noah and Erika took turns talking to him while I took the kids to school and later and then Bradley called a little later so that he could talk to Nate, Charity and Kelly. Things were hectic so he might call again tomorrow on his self appointed extra p-day. 9-20-23
I had a nice long talk with Heather about Kelly's situation and got some really good feedback from her. Apparently we have the best doctors in the state. Kelly's a very rare case. The chances of all of this working- the egg retrieval, storage and IVF working are slim. Miracles happen. We can pray for miracles and we can expect them. It was nice to get her opinion on all of it. 9-20-23
Elder Benjamin N Botchway, Brad's new MP in the Portland mission called today. Called me first, but I was on the phone with Heather, so he called Nate. He wanted to know a little about Brad and let us know he'd be in good hands. I'm really excited to hear about this MP- he sounds really cool. I'm glad that they will be picking him up and giving him a tour of the mission and that he will be taken care of. 9-20-23
Another visit to do away with the warts. They sliced one of the big ones off at the last one and it looked like it worked okay so they did the other one this time. Then froze off a million other little ones. We're hoping this works. It's a little crazy how long this has taken and how weird this PA has been. We really like her- she's nice and fun, but we're losing faith in her with each visit. But anyway- hopefully this worked. 9-20-23
I was really happy we finally made this happen! Luke and I went to Monster Sushi for our favorite Vegas Roll and two others- Surf n Turf (deep fried) and the Mango Tango. It was so yummy!! I love that Luke just talked the entire time. Mostly about his friends and their situations, but I just love hearing him. He's such a good kid. I'm so proud of him. I hope he is doing alright. Seems just a little off for some reason, but hopefully that's just my mom-ness worrying. 9-20-23
Brad called again while I was on my way to Olive Garden. It was so fun to talk to him. He is so close to leaving- it's getting really real. He had packed his bags and knew they were pretty close to the 50 lb limit. Hopefully that goes okay for him. It was fun to talk with him alone as I drove. We can talk about anything these days- it's so nice. He had just heard from Brandon about getting robbed at gunpoint so I think he has that on the brain and knowing that Porland has some sketchy areas he seemed a little anxious that something like that could happen to him there. He wouldn't mind having a story when he gets home though. Grandpa got to say hi. Then he called everyone else while I was at volleyball. I hate missing his calls. I've been praying so hard for him to get to Portland okay! 9-21-23
We had our monthly lunch :). On the day we said we were going to have it if you can believe that. Nate worked the mid so he was home to watch Sadie so it was just me and my dad finally! That was fun. We talked extra long about family search. He's headed to Ireland tomorrow and wanted to be more familiar with his irish ancestry. Hopefully he got the app to work and found his ancestors. 9-21-23
We had an awesome turnout- 10 girls last night! And we won both games!! The girls are getting really good! It's fun to watch them!! So proud! 9-21-23
I got up this morning to wake up Erika for Open gym and had to text Brad a little good luck text for his big adventures today!! As if flying to another state wasn't exciting enough, they make the whole trip to the airport a big adventure as well!! He has like four transfers to get there. I hope they all go well and he makes it in time. He will have 28 other elders with him so it shouldn't be too hard. I hope they are safe and protected. Heavenly Father is in charge. What happens happens for a reason. It's taking some faith today. But I'm excited for him to get out in the field. I really think he will thrive out there. I'm so proud of him!! 9-22-23
We got to go out again this week- I'm counting all these as blessings because life gets pretty hectic, but at least we still have our date nights. We went to Zupas and then decided to go home for games with the kids because Kelly was in town!! I ran into Kathy Tonge at Zupas which was kinda fun. She said she's going through a divorce because her husband is leaving her for his high school girlfriend. So strange. I felt bad for her, but it was good to see her and think about the things she reminds me of. 9-22-23
Molly and Noha's games overlapped and so I didn't get to see Molly play this week, but she did score! So proud of her! Noah's game was great but then it took a turn for the worse as the ref started yelling at him for things he didn't do. "If there's a call to be made it's going to be on you!" So rude. Noah handled it so well. I was really proud of him. Then Erika's was really good too. They basically killed the other team. So proud of that girl! She also scored a few times. 9-23-23
I had the privilege of being part of Noah's Homecoming night. We took the food to Will's house, came back home to get Noah's stuff. Went back up to Will's to get the boys and then drove around picking up the girls. Then we went and took pictures in the Timothy's backyard. This was a lot of fun. I was happy Kelly was with me and made all the big decisions. She's got a good eye. I think they turned out pretty good. Then we drove them back to Will's for dinner and then picked them up to go to the dance after. I had a lot of fun listening to them talk in the car and hearing all the nerves but also all the sweet boys and how they wanted to take care of those girls. REALLY cool!! I think Noah has some awesome friends. I got to take Luke to go get his corsage in Bountiful and then I got to hear about the night after- sounded really great. I think he was happy with how it went. Noah took Kallista Wright and Luke took Sarah Norton. I was really proud of my boys!! So much fun. 9-23-23
Today was the first time Brad responded with emojis and it happened to be the first communication we had received from him since he shipped off to Oregon. He had hearted my text that I sent right before he left of "We love you!". So I texted back, "Yay! You're alive!" and then he gave me the fingers showing an inch- like "Barely". So then I was worried and asked a few more questions about how he was doing. I got some shrugs and some tearing up eyes. It was so hard to hear and not really hear!! I sent him a little motivational thing that I had seen on facebook a few minutes before, and he loved that. But it was another two days before we were able to hear about that day. I ended up really struggling all day Sunday wishing I knew how he was and why he wasn't great. It was kind of hard. I started to think that this whole being able to communicate thing is a little tricky! Because ultimately, he was able to pull through it and felt good the next day and if I hadn't responded or asked him anything, I wouldn't have even known he was having a hard time. He would have gotten through it and it would have been one sentence in his email. So I think I need to step back a little and recognize this. It's going to be hard, but I think it is better. 9-24-23
We FINALLY made it to lunch! It was fun to be able to talk a little. Even with Sadie there. Then we got to go to the lifetime photo shoot that evening and talked a little there too. Kinda nice. It's been too long. 9-25-23
Sadie and I went and helped Dolores a little with unpacking her sewing room. We're the thread girls. We organize the threads. It has been kind of fun and even Sadie has been pretty good for the most part. The second day we went she whined a little and then ended up falling asleep in my arms while I chatted with Dolores. It's so fun to talk to her!! She has a lot of cool stories and I love to get to know her. We didn't get a ton done, I'm hoping to go back over, but it's been a fun time for me. 9-25-23
Erika and Kate got asked to do a basketball photoshoot. This was fun. Only took about a half hour. They each get $50!! Pretty awesome! Emily and I just sat there talking the whole time. Pretty chill. 9-25-23
We got to talk with Brad for the first time in Oregon today. That was pretty exciting and much anticipated. He wasn't sure how much time he would have, so we weren't either. We decided to do a whole family call again. Nobody likes it this way, I don't know why we do it but we wanted all the details. May have been a selfish decision on mine and Nate's part. Although, I did get to text him quite a bit all day and that was nice. So he's doing okay! A little green and had some rough days in the beginning there, but it sounds like he might get the hang of it. The area he is in is interesting. We'll see how that goes. I'm happy for him to be out in the field and teaching! Even his companion said he is doing great! So proud of him. We got to hear about all the mean people who yell at him. He likes his companion and the guys in his apartment. He loves the trees. I loved hearing him trying to talk Charity into dating Ty. He looked so tired. I hope he has enough food. I did send him some groceries and because he gave me the wrong address, they went to a different place, but it just so happened to be another apartment with missionaries!! So they gave them to Bradley! Pretty awesome. 9-26-23

We are in a Spanish speaking area and there's actually soooo many Hispanics here I was not expecting. They're all mostly in apartment complexes or trailer parks so we just hop between those which sycks because they're the scariest places.Luke's friends, Austin, Sadie (not Caldwell), and Tate Hansen all showed up while we were eating our Chick-fil-a :). Kinda funny. They were fun to talk to though. Luke was hilarious. I love having them home during the day- so fun! 9-27-23
Still doing great!! Won both games today!! Less subs, but some of them like that better. Good stuff. 9-28-23
Noah got asked to Harvest dance already!! His friend Molly wanted to ask him before he got snatched up by someone else! I think it's so flattering to get asked so early on. He seemed happy about it. It wasn't the annoying girl he didn't want asking him. Super cute!! I'm excited and happy for Noah. 9-28-23
We got to go see Nate Bargatze for our date night this week!! We grabbed some yummy philly beef and swiss subs before heading to our awesome seats! Nate spoiled me extra this week! This was a very funny show!! Even the openers were pretty good! I LOVED that he said, "This is what they promise us..." Talking about a clean comic coming to Utah. Pretty funny. "This is our hollywood". HAHAHA!! Then he thanked us for making time to be there on our busy weekend (General conference) HA! Funny guy. He had a lot of funny material. I loved him talking about reading. I could totally relate. He's funny. I loved having the time with Nate and glad he could laugh about the annoying laugh next to me, with me, she had THE MOST ANNOYING LAUGH!!! So funny. 9-29-23