"You are not here to live a mediocre to average life; you are here to live an amazing life, a miraculous life. If it weren't for your challenges, there would be no miracles. You must do that which seems impossible, for it is only in the impossible that miracles are had." - author unknown, but very respected

Sunday, October 8, 2023

SEPTEMBER 2023

 MOLLY'S 8th BIRTHDAY!

I think Molly had a good birthday this year!  She woke up to the sign Erika and I had slaved over.  Then crepes for breakfast.  She liked hearing everyone's favorite memories with her for study time.  She LOVED the pin I got that said, "It's my birthday!"  And went to school with a big smile on her face.  That was a relief.  I spent most of the morning making her mermaid cake which turned out really cute!  Nate, Sadie and I went shopping and then we got to go to the elementary school for some lunch at the birthday tables.  They did August and September together this year!  So we had Jack and Molly.  Pretty fun.  We got Panda for Jack and Carls Jr. for Molly.  Fun stuff.  I had to rush out at 12:30 for Kelly's zoom appointment, but we had a lot of fun talking with our kiddos.  Molly came home from school pretty happy about her giant pixie stick and then watched some Spirit until dance time.  She got to wear some cute bunny ears at dance for her birthday.  Then very quickly after dance, we rushed home to greet her party guests!  She chose to have her friend party at South Davis Rec for some swimming.  She invited eight friends, we took them all to the pool and swam for about an hour and a half.  They were so funny.  Very needy and wishing they could do more than they can.  But I think they still had some fun.  Nate and I stood in the middle of the room the entire time.  Nate left a few minutes eary to grab pizza and we ate pizza, opened presents, then cake and ice cream after swimming.  The girls were so cold, we had to get out lots of blankets for everyone to snuggle up in.  She has some really cute friends.  It was fun to see her interacting with them the whole time.  I felt like a saw a different side of Molly and it hit me that I am not as in touch with her age group as I've been in the past.  I need to regroup.  But I think they all had fun and celebrated Molly's birthday well. After taking all of her friends home we gave her the girts from us.  She loved them!  She got her own scriptures and a fun remote control bird/butterfly.  She loved that!  Nate knows how to gift for sure!  Kelly showed up in the evening which she loved and then Charity.  We love Molly and are so grateful for all that she brings to our family.  All the giggles and teases.  All the love and support.  9-1-23

KELLY'S TELE APPOINTMENT
This ended up being the shortest call ever.  Not even sure we needed a phone call for this conversation, but we were able to hear exactly what Kelly needs to do.  She will need two weeks of injections and then be put out for the extraction of the eggs.  That is if they can get any out of her ovaries.  We shall see.  I think it was cute that Kelly took the 50/50 chance so positively!  I'm so proud of her and the mature way she is handling all of this heavy duty stuff.  I think she has so much faith and is doing really well at hoping for the best.  Me too.  We got this.  I thin it will be fun to raise the $10,000 and interesting to see how it all goes.  9-1-23

MOLLY'S BAPTISM DAY!
This was a beautiful day!!  I was so happy for Molly and she was so excited!  I spent the morning making the treats she had requested- scotcheroos, rice krispie treats, dried skittles, banana bread, and cupcakes.  Then we spent a little time getting the house cleaned up.  Molly got to go over to the field to play with her remote control hummingbird and spent a lot of time playing with her new toys, that was fun.  We had to rush to finish getting ready and were almost late to the church.  But we made it.  We got pictures of Molly and with Nate.  Then I rushed into the chapel to play the interlude music.  The program went so well!  I was so happy with all of it.  I loved Elle's talk and then the best part was probably Luke and Charity's singing Peace In Christ- they sounded amazing!  Then I gave a talk.  It was a great program.  I loved being with Molly in the dressing room before and during and after.  I love that I get to be backstage and that Heavenly Father made it so that I am on the side where I can see her face and watch her as she is dunked :).  The feeling that comes when someone is baptized is just so incredible.  I don't know how anyone could not love that Spirit.  It's just awesome.  We had a sweet little moment in the dressing room with her white towel and being able to talk about how she felt in that moment.  I loved it!  She's so sweet!  We got her dressed and then waited for Nate to be able to get dressed as well.  He had to wait for Noah Barton and his dad to finish.  But we listened to some nice music and then got to witness Molly being confirmed.  It was a cool little bonus that we got to have Brad on Video chat with us.  Unfortunately, the picture quality wasn't that great.  But it was nice to feel like he was with us.  Molly had Noah as the chorister, Erika and Kelly as witnesses, and Jack said the closing prayer.  Such a special day!  I loved that she was so prepared and felt ready for that day.  She's going to be a great disciple of Christ.  She had so much support from so many family members!  I had no idea how many people we were going to have there.  It was a great turn out!  Grandpa Hatch and Jo, Grandma and Simon, STEVE!  Grandma Ruthie, Becky, Jen, Nancy and her family, Dan and their family, The Taylors!  It was great!!  I was so happy she had so much support.  I was also happy I had "gone overboard" with treats because there was plenty to eat.  Such a nice day!  We spent the rest of the day resting.  Kelly took Molly and Erika swimming so Molly could test out her new mermaid tail and I got to have the quiet house to myself for a good hour with everyone else gone too.  It was kind of nice.  This was the last big thing for a while.  I'm kind of relieved.  So happy for Molly though!!  This is a special time and I hope she remembers it forever.  9-2-23

This was the program:
Names of children being baptized: Noah Barton and Molly Maynes

Opening Song: "I'll Walk With You" 
Chorister: Noah Maynes (Molly's brother)
Opening Prayer: Char Barton (Noah's Grandmother)
Talk on Baptism: Elle Barton (Noah's Sister)
Musical Number: "Peace in Christ" Charity and Luke Maynes (Molly's sister and brother)

Performing Noah's baptism: Dallas Barton (Noah's father)
Witnesses: Emmi and Dillon Kobel (Noah's cousins)
Performing Molly's baptism: Nathan Maynes (Molly's father)
Witnesses: Erika and Kelly Maynes (Molly's sisters)

Talk on Confirmation: Christa Maynes (Molly's mother)
Performing Noah's confirmation: Curt Jensen (Noah's grandfather)
Performing Molly's confirmation: Nathan Maynes (Molly's father)
Closing song: When I am Baptized
Closing Prayer: Kari Jensen (Noah's grandmother) and Jack Maynes (Molly's brother)


SPIRITUAL GIFTS
I taught Sunday school today, Spiritual gifts, we did the thing where you pass around an envelope for each person and write everyone's gifts.  I think it went well.  Not sure though.  I liked that Kelly and Erika were there with us.  9-3-23

JACK TEMPLE AND FAMILY HISTORY CONSULTANT
We got to witness Jack being set apart in his new calling!  He is very excited and I think he will love working with the people he is with and love learning the things he will learn.  It's going to be great!  9-3-23

MAYNES FAMILY LABOR DAY PARTY
Even though it was pouring rain as we left, we drove up to Day Break for some Labor Day fun with the Maynes Family.  Ruth had planned a cute little get together.  She had a bunch of stuff she was raffling off and fun games at the tables.  The boys played basketball the entire time.  The girls and I all played the games at the tables.  It is fun to see how much Ruth enjoys giving her things away- we all went home with some treasures, and some toilet paper pumpkins.  HA!  We had a great time though!  Becky, Jen, Harrises, Taylors, and even the Idaho Mayneses were there!  So that was awesome!  We did have to hurry home for Noah to be able to hang out with his friends.  We stopped at Carls Jr. on the way home.  Once we got home, my body decided it was time to relax from the past few months of STUFF and I started to get sick.  I hate when I can feel it coming on.  The sore throat was first, then chills and aches.  It was no fun.  Nate let me sleep it off a little that evening.  I felt better, but still took me a few days to feel back to normal.  My normal.  9-4-23

FHE
I was out.  Nate and the kids carried on.  Noah taught the lesson and they played lightning before having Ice cream.  I wish I'd been there for all of it.  9-4-23

TALKING TO ELDER MAYNES
We got to talk to Bradley today!!  He called at 3:45 when everyone was home from school.  It was really fun to talk to him.  He looks so good!!  He needs a new watch and new suit pants cuz his thighs are too big.  I loved hearing about his week.  Apparently it was a short one.  He's starting to feel like he's in Ground Hog Day though.  He will find out Friday his stateside assignment, and so he's anxious for that.  When I said he might get his visa because I've been fasting for it, he said now that he's wrapped his head around going somewhere else first, it would be really strange to go right to Peru!  Funny kid.  9-6-23

NO SUBJECT
This week was actually the FASTEST week of the MTC so far. I still feel like P day was yesterday but it apparently was a week ago. This week wasn't thaat eventful but we definitely played more volleyball everyday. My comp sorta hates volleyball so it hasn't been as much as it was last week. The Spanish is starting to come along a little bit better each day too but also at the same time it's the most stressful thing. Like everyone said it to trust the process but I feel like the process isnt working right now and I am falling behind so i have started GRINDING on my Spanish work. It's crazy in 2 weeks I am going to be somewhere on the streets talking to random people about this man Joseph Smith they have never heard about. AND IN SPANISH. I dont get how other people can learn Chinese and I am over here struggling with Spanish. Nobody ever said it was going to be easy so I never expected it to be but its still crazy. I set some goals this week and they are to use Elder because I have realized how important it is that we have that title and if I am not using the title it's taking that special position away from them. I also wanted to finish the Book of Mormon by the end of the MTC and I was doing so good but I have realized it was taking away my spanish studies and making me lack in that so I am backing off of that and still trying to read a lot but not so that it takes over the rest of my studies. I am doing SOO good on my "no nap" goal and haven't caved in yet. I've gotten close haha. Also I would love to hear how everyone is doing!! I don't even know what's going on outside of the MTC right now so it would be wonderful.

Wednesday- today was chill until we got back to the room at 9. 4 of the guys in my district had their room TRASHED. The mattresses were stacked in the corner and all the closets were open and ransacked. Their room was a mess and I will try to send the video of it in the email lets hope it works. We ended up staying up pretty late fixing everything. 

Thursday: We were very tired today because of cleaning the trashed room. I am sorta starting to get sick and it may have been because of the lack of sleep so lets hope I dont have what's going around because EVERYONE is sick. Not cool sick but throwing up sick. So far I am the only one in my district that hasn't gotten super sick. And now I am jinxing myself whoops. 

Friday-Saturday: It was Molly's birthday!! Happy birthday Molly! I got blessed with being able to watch it and it was the cutest thing. I hope she loved it because baptism is AMAZING. I still remember mine and it was so special to me. I am beyond excited. I get to bless the people on my mission and get them baptised. I was getting homesick today but then realized that these 2 years are a once in a lifetime opportunity and it would be selfish not to go out and serve the lord if I am able to. Also it was sad because our favorite teacher left us and we now have a new guy.

Sunday: GREAT! AGAIN! Sundays just keep getting better because I am starting to fall in love with having the spirit with me. This time it was fast sunday and personally it was easier. It was like I had no other option but to fast because they didn't feed us. SO basically I didn't have an option but it was still really special to me. Something I learned that in 3rd Nephi Jesus really corrected and proof read parts of it in order to include what he needs us to hear. Isn't that cool!?!?

Monday: LONG DAY HOLY! Today was sooo rainy I actually loved it. Our new teacher is pretty cool except he talks so fast. Im like BRUH please stop rapping. The highlight of today was I was trying to see how many tags I could snatch off of my district by the end of the night and I got to 10 haha. We all were in the elevator and one guy asked and then they all did so I pulled them out and they all started dying for a couple minutes. I was surprised how long no one noticed. Basically I am a pro pickpocketer. JOKING NOT 

Tuesday: AHHHH TODAY WAS GOOD! We had a devotional and we were all sus because they were making the stage look super nice and making it all extravagant. Turns out it was Elder Stevenson!!! It was so cool I legit took 4 pages of notes. Him and his wife had AMAZING taks and now I am a changed man. Sister Stevenson talked about how a mission is like a relay. Like the missionary coming home is handing the baton off to me and I need to explode and go as hard as I can. She said to give it your all on your mission so that on your flight home you have no regrets because you know you did everything you could. Elder Stevenson had a lot of good points but what stood out to me was the spirit is there to guide. It isn't going to take control and fill your head with things in Spanish that you've never heard before. You need to study and learn the doctrine so that when the time comes you can let the spirit nudge you into the right direction. He also said that as you strive to become a diligent missionary you will make me qualified and ready to be a servant of the lord. Finally is that we should never underestimate the power music has to invite the spirit. I have witnessed this sooo much just by how listening to some of the songs in the gospel library make me feel. I challenge everyone to go listen to "healer" and "I can do all things through christ." They are my fav right now so  i hope you enjoy.

Im going to use that last paragraph as my spiritual thought because it basically was but I wanna hear how everyone is doing. OH I ALMOST FORGOT! I get my reassignment Friday so ig you all will get to find out where I am going in a week:) Or if I am feeling generous I will make a quick lil email and tell you guys. Also shoutout to Aunt Becky because she has sent me SOO MUCH snacks and they have saved me. I love you guys!!

I dont know if these photots sent or what order but im gonna guess...
1. The trashed room
2. I found Enoch (my cousin)
3. Me and my comp after the temple

PLAYGROUP
We had playgroup again this week.  It was much more eventful this time!  There was a lady whose purse was stolen out of her car WHILE WE WERE ALL SITTING THERE- and her car was the first one in the parking lot!  And then there was also a stabbing at the Maverik across the street!!  So crazy!  In west Kaysville!  Who woulda thought!  Sadie waited til the very end to swing!!  So proud of her!  9-7-23

LUNCH WITH MOM
Sadie and I were able to go to lunch with my mom this week.  We went to the Habit.  It was a really nice time!  I appreciated her letting me talk the entire time :).  9-7-23

VOLLEYBALL
We're starting back up with YW volleyball!  I'm so glad I get to go do this with Erika.  I know my time is limited in there and I am betting we're getting close to the end, so I'm trying to savor every last minute with her.  She's so awesome and just ooozes competence!!  Sis. Fox constantly wants to use her as an example of how to do things- even with the KJH volleyball team girls right there.  Erika is better than them, no doubt about that.  She should totally try out next year.  It was fun to be back at it with Christie though and helping out with the skills clinic.  Getting excited for a good season!  Fingers crossed!  9-7-23

DATE NIGHT
Nate and I had an unusual date this week- only because we had to keep changing our minds.  We were going to go to the Sushi place in Centerville since our movie was in Centerville, but it was closed!  Such a bummer.  We tried to go to a sushi place down in Bountiful, but it was packed and wouldn't get us served in time, so we came back to Centerville and needed something quick, so we went to Tony Burgers.  It was funny that Luke's friend Tate was working while we were there.  It was pretty good food- can't say I was overly impressed, but it was yummy.  We went over to our movie after and it was the 1950's (or whatever year) version of Murder on the Orient Express!  It was super funny that that's what we were watching, but it was fun to watch.  We did have to create our own special effects.  Fun times though.  9-8-23

STATE FAIR
We were really excited for the fair this year.  I feel like we get more and more excited for this tradition every year.  It was a little bittersweet since we didn't have the older three with us, but we're learning to make do and adapt without them.  Jack and I were a little pressed for time since he wanted to get back for his family history meeting.  So we ran over to the Hands on Farm first.  That is our favorite thing at the fair :).  Everyone puts on an apron (not Noah this time) and we all go through the process of making food and selling it.  Kinda fun :).  Mainly it's just fun because we have done it every year.  It's fun to see everyone making it fun for the little ones and everyone is just happy.  Easily pleased :).  I took lots of pictures to share with the big kids.  After the farm we went over to the Fine Arts building to find Annie's art.  She hasn't entered anything in a long time so this was exciting.  This is the first year we haven't entered anything in a long time- our August was so full- so we didn't have any of our own to see, but looking for Annie's was pretty exciting.  She did the cutest one of Cole as a baby cowboy.  So cute!!  Her talent is so amazing.  We had a few more minutes for Jack to go pick out a souvenir- he got a sword letter opener.  Then he and I made our way out to the parking lot for the wild goose chase for the Prius.  It was so funny that it was so close to the van.  We got him to Barabar Noriega's for his meeting right at 6:30.  They were meeting before heading over to the Clemens' for a presentation.  This was Jack's first time.  Very exciting.  I heard he did a great job.  The rest of the family stayed at the fair and saw the animals and ate goodies.  I think some of them even went on some rides.  Sounded like they had fun.  9-11-23

ELDER BRADLEY MAYNES
We got to talk with Brad again.  This has quickly become a major highlight.  This week we decided to let everyone talk to him individually instead of all together.  I think everyone liked this way of doing the call.  I enjoyed talking to him and seeing his cute face.  We talked about his new reassignment to Portland and how that was going to go.  He's excited!  I'm glad he has been able to stay positive about it.  9-13-23

"FEAR NOT, ONLY BELIEVE"- BRADLEY'S EMAIL
Okay first of all I have come to the realization that I have been trying too hard to make the email entertaining rather than fulfilling my missionary purpose which is to invite others to come unto christ by helping them receive the restored gospel through faith in the lord jesus christ, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the holy ghost and enduring to the end.( I actually had to look that up because I only know it in spanish haha.) So I will be trying better to make my emails more directed toward that purpose.

I know I say this every week but they actually fly by. In one week I'll be traveling to Oregon which basically means a couple hours because of how fast this goes. I apologize I haven't had time to respond to people a lot but I LOVE your emails and responses

Wednesday-Saturday:
I have started consolidating what happened these days because they all start being repetitive and I don't want to do a different paragraph for each one. Our teacher Hermano Nelson has been making classes SO Interesting and involved and it has helped me grow so much. Our other teacher is not so much but I think he's really nice and genuine so I find myself taking a lot more notes during his class which is sooo beneficial for me. FRIDAY I GOT MY REASSIGNMENT! I was so stoked we had a "draft" for it where our teacher would read the state and then say they select the missionary going there. And the Portland Oregon mission selects all the way from Kaysville, utah... ELDER MAYNES. Definitely the highlight of my week. I know I was reassigned to Portland for a reason and I have witnessed many miracles and instances that have already proven this to be true. God knows me and has people that need me THE SECOND I get off that plane so I have been trying my best to prepare myself for when I get there. 

Sunday:
Go and Do this week was amazing. I re-read a topic I studied the week I got here and it helped me deepen my conversion to Christ and understand him more. We then had the blessing to have a devotional but they only played music. I LOVED IT! I can't remember her name but she is Elder Oaks' daughter so you'll probably know her haha. It was definitely amazing how much passion and spirit she and her family put into the music. "Never underestimate the power music has to invite the spirit."

Monday-Tuesday:
Mondays are actually a struggle because it's in between the two best days which are Sunday and Tuesday. Tuesday was devotional day YAY! If you are about to come to the MTC look forward to Sundays and Tuesdays because they are SO COOL! This week we had brother and sister nattress. They taught about the power of testimonies and that we need to, "Fear not, only Believe." They then showed a video of Christ's life and I had the realization that I should've had earlier but Christ dedicated his ENTIRE life to healing, serving, and helping others. 30+ years of him doing nothing but that! I have the next 2 years specifically dedicated for me to do that EXACT thing. I have no other commitments besides this and that's what I am going to do. I love Christ and I love this Gospel. I know with a surety in my heart that this is a good work and I know that the gospel of christs church is the key to a joyful life. Christ is the answer.
 Wednesday: We started SYL (I am only allowed to speak Spanish until I leave the MTC) today and I have already improved my Spanish exponentially. It is so much easier to retain and remember information when you can  ONLY speak spanish. I got to call my family and I LOVE them and every minute I get to spend talking to them. 

Spiritual thought: Who can you help this week? I stumbled across 1 John 3:17-18 recently and have been thinking a lot about it. It says "But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does god's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and truth." This one hit me hard because I feel like I underestimate how much of a head start I have been given in life; not because of anything I've done or worked for but for what I have been born with. Ex: a loving supportive family, house with water and a roof, clean clothes, never having to worry where the next meal would come from, never having to work to pay bills... etc. There are people you come across EVERY DAY with multiple of these circumstances and we turn the other way and act as if we didn't see them. I want everyone that reads this to find something they can do "in deed and truth" to help someone this week. God puts people into our lives for a reason so put yourself in a position where the spirit can guide you where you need to be. I promise that as you are willing to sacrifice something small to you will be something huge to someone else and you will witness the blessings of it throughout the entire week! I would love to hear how it goes and love you guys so much.
-Elder Maynes
(pictures will come in later today) 
1.Me and elder Platt my bestie
2.Me and elder cam Wilson who is the nicest person I've ever met
3. Don't ask-we stacked the chairs
4. Our temple trip 
5. Vogue
9-13-23

LUNCH WITH MARIANNE
We haven't done anything in so long, it was time for lunch.  We were going to go to Everbowl but they were out of acai so we went over to Blaze Pizza instead.  It was just as yummy as last time.  Sadie and Addie did pretty good!  I really enjoy talking with Marianne.  She's fun to get to know.  9-14-23

YOUNG WOMEN VOLLEYBALL
We had our first games tonight.  It went pretty well, had a good turn out, but we lost both games.  Kind of a bummer.  But everyone had fun.  9-14-23

FUN RUN COLUMBIA
We had our annual Fun Run Friday.  I was surprised at how excited/nervous Jack and Molly were.  Not quite like the older kids used to do, but close.  Nate, Sadie and I all went to watch and cheer the kids on.  I had signed up to pass out churros but there were about a million parents doing that, so I cut off tops of otter pops and squirted kids as they went through the "jungle cruise" instead.  Erika had begged and begged enough that I let her check out and come over to run with the kids.  That was pretty cool of her.  I think they like having company.  Jack and Molly both ran the entire route!  Three miles for Jack, One and a half for Molly.  So cool.  They did a Disney theme so there was lots of fun costumes everywhere.  Fun stuff.  We were glad we got to go this year after missing last year for the Florida trip.  Good stuff though.  9-15-23

DATE NIGHT
Nate and I were able to get sushi this week.  After being let down last week, we needed it!  We went to Sushi Monster and then saw the Mission Impossible movie again- Dead Reckoning.  I was so beyond tired I even dozed off a couple times, which was a huge bummer, but it was fun to get out- we still need this little respite each week it keeps us alive.  9-15-23

SATURDAY
Saturday was full of three soccer games, Primary Program Practice, and Noah's cross country race.  Everything went really well.  The kids all scored at least once, the practice was fun even though Molly didn't feel like it was necessary since she already knows all the songs.  Noah did well at his race, even though he says he was super tired and just trying to help pace someone else.  It was nice to relax that evening a little.  Erika went to a "fancy" Fall Dinner Party at Lexie's, Noah got all dressed up for a girl's birthday party, and Luke was home most of the night with me and the littles.  Erika left the party early to go to the Regional dance.  It was a full day.  I was grumpy and tired by the end of the night.  9-16-23

PRIMARY PROGRAM
We had our program today!  The kids all did so good!!  Jack had a bunch of parts, kept getting up and killing it with his parts.  He and Molly got to play the bells in a special song.  They did a great job!  Molly said her part perfectly and was SO GOOD at singing every word to every song.  The sign language song was really cool too- it was I'll Walk With You and Molly and Sadie knew every single sign!  So well!!  Sadie was adorable the whole time, sang a lot of the words, looked so cute/bored sitting on the stand the whole time, she waved a lot, smiled a lot, did her cute little wave with Richelle a few times, she said her part perfectly even though we couldn't even see her :).  Nate had found us the perfect seats so that we could see everyone at once.  It was fun to be able to see Jack in his last one and get excited afor at least a few more years of this!  9-17-23

FHE
We decided to go to Barnes Park this week for FHE.  We fed the ducks our frozen peas and then played on the playground the rest of the time.  It was a lot of fun and felt like a good condensed family activity.  We came home to ice cream and cookies courtesy of Nate and Sadie I think.  9-18-23

GOFUNDME
Kelly's friend Maddie created a Gofundme for Kelly's egg retrieval costs.  We humbled but teared up a few times as well watching the total climb!  She was up to $3,000.00 in just a couple days.  I'm glad Kelly has this- I think it eases her mind.  It is very generous of everyone to donate and we do really appreciate the help.  Hopefully we can get some good viable eggs!!  9-19-23

ELDER MAYNES CALL
Brad called a few times this morning, tried once while he was in line at breakfast, but the cafeteria was so loud we could barely hear him.  Then he called again as we were getting the elementary kids off.  I loved talking to him about his last few days in the MTC and hearing about Lucia and Seth emailing him about visiting him in Portland and then their "P.S. You're still our favorite athlete".  That would be really cool if they could meet up with him somehow.  He sounded nervous, but also excited to go to Portland in a couple days.  I got to show him Sadie on her new scooter and she talked to him for a few seconds.  Noah and Erika took turns talking to him while I took the kids to school and later and then Bradley called a little later so that he could talk to Nate, Charity and Kelly.  Things were hectic so he might call again tomorrow on his self appointed extra p-day.  9-20-23

HEATHER SCOTT
I had a nice long talk with Heather about Kelly's situation and got some really good feedback from her.  Apparently we have the best doctors in the state.  Kelly's a very rare case.  The chances of all of this working- the egg retrieval, storage and IVF working are slim.  Miracles happen.  We can pray for miracles and we can expect them.  It was nice to get her opinion on all of it.  9-20-23

BRAD'S MISSION PRESIDENT
Elder Benjamin N Botchway, Brad's new MP in the Portland mission called today.  Called me first, but I was on the phone with Heather, so he called Nate.  He wanted to know a little about Brad and let us know he'd be in good hands.  I'm really excited to hear about this MP- he sounds really cool.  I'm glad that they will be picking him up and giving him a tour of the mission and that he will be taken care of.  9-20-23

ERIKA'S WARTS
Another visit to do away with the warts.  They sliced one of the big ones off at the last one and it looked like it worked okay so they did the other one this time.  Then froze off a million other little ones.  We're hoping this works.  It's a little crazy how long this has taken and how weird this PA has been. We really like her- she's nice and fun, but we're losing faith in her with each visit.  But anyway- hopefully this worked.  9-20-23

DATE WITH LUKE
I was really happy we finally made this happen!  Luke and I went to Monster Sushi for our favorite Vegas Roll and two others- Surf n Turf (deep fried) and the Mango Tango.  It was so yummy!!  I love that Luke just talked the entire time.  Mostly about his friends and their situations, but I just love hearing him.  He's such a good kid.  I'm so proud of him.  I hope he is doing alright.  Seems just a little off for some reason, but hopefully that's just my mom-ness worrying.  9-20-23

CALL FROM ELDER MAYNES
Brad called again while I was on my way to Olive Garden.  It was so fun to talk to him.  He is so close to leaving- it's getting really real.  He had packed his bags and knew they were pretty close to the 50 lb limit.  Hopefully that goes okay for him.  It was fun to talk with him alone as I drove.  We can talk about anything these days- it's so nice.  He had just heard from Brandon about getting robbed at gunpoint so I think he has that on the brain and knowing that Porland has some sketchy areas he seemed a little anxious that something like that could happen to him there.  He wouldn't mind having a story when he gets home though.  Grandpa got to say hi.  Then he called everyone else while I was at volleyball.  I hate missing his calls.  I've been praying so hard for him to get to Portland okay!  9-21-23

LUNCH WITH PAPPY
We had our monthly lunch :).  On the day we said we were going to have it if you can believe that.  Nate worked the mid so he was home to watch Sadie so it was just me and my dad finally!  That was fun.  We talked extra long about family search.  He's headed to Ireland tomorrow and wanted to be more familiar with his irish ancestry.  Hopefully he got the app to work and found his ancestors.  9-21-23

"FAN THE FLAME OF YOUR FAITH" -BRAD'S EMAIL
I am writing this on Thursday because I definitely didn't have enough time yesterday because my entire district is heading off to the field! This week was actually one of the slowest because I have been hyping up getting to Portland and anticipating it the entire time. I also dont have my journal this time while writing my email because its packed away soo I am trying my best to remember what happened this week. 

This week was definitely another repeat of last week almost exactly minus that I had the opportunity to participate in SYL. SYL is Speak your language week where I am only allowed to speak Spanish until I leave. It was crazy how good I got and how smooth I was able to speak to other missionaries in Spanish. We eventually got worse and worse at it because we wanted to have our last few days and good convos in English before we left. Sad day. I think this week alone actually made my Spanish increase so much and I am excited to head into the field and teach the people of Portland in Spanish in less than 24 hours. Actually terrified but I fear nothing and so I am going to try everything and work as hard as I can. We took the Spanish language assessment this week which is also known as the EI. They have been hyping this test up all year and I have actually been terrified because they expect the Missionaries to be at a 4 which is intermediate and can survive in the field. Welll I dont know how but I got a 4.5 which was pretty amazing because I came into the MTC with zero Spanish knowledge whatever. Which I know there is SOO much to improve on this because I still feel like I dont know very much at all but I am excited to learn and progress with it in the next 2 years. 

Also just gotta put this out here but me and elder Nichols are undefeated in Spikeball and we actually destroyed. It was 25% me and 75% elder Nichols because for some reason he's cracked at the most random sports.

The MTC is actually crazy because I've literally grown so close to so many elders here and I can picture a lot of me and my district becoming really close after the mission but then we all just go to complete different parts of the world and teach the gospel of Jesus Christ. I am actually gonna miss a lot of these elders but I am beyond excited for the memories and growth I will receive and most importantly the lives I have the opportunity to change. 

Today is packing day and last night my entire district left besides me and 3 other elders. They all left at different times in the middle of the might so I got woken up probably every hour of the night so I am running off of a few hours of sleep right now. They also all decided me and Elder Erickson got to clean the room so they left all their food and junk for us to get rid of. But I also got blessed with getting an extra day to pack so thats a perkkk. I actually wanna thank everyone for the packages and letters so far because they actually make it feel like Christmas every time. 

Sunday: Last sunday and last day of Go and Do. Definitely am going to miss it because it seriously has given me so much time each Sunday to ponder and study and strengthen parts I lack in my testimony. 

Spiritual thought: OK I wanna first put this out here that the church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is a perfect church. Although it is a perfect church it is ran by imperfect people. If you are struggling with the gospel because of people or policies the church DID have; do not let those doubts or questions diminish the faith you do have and have spent who knows how long to build. Before my mission I randomly came across questions or comments directed towards members of the church to make them question their own Faith. It actually filled my head with doubts and questions and made me doubt my own faith for a while. I ended up coming across the talk "Lord, I believe." Jeffery R holland emphasizes the importance of standing true to the faith you have grown in times of doubt or fear. "be true to faith you do have... Sometimes we act as if an honest declaration of doubt is a higher manifestation of moral courage than is an honest declaration of faith. It is not! So let us all remember the clear message of this scriptural account: Be as candid about your questions as you need to be; life is full of them on one subject or another. But if you want to be healed, comforted, strengthened, have hope, peace, lifted up... Don't let those questions stand in the way of faith working its miracle." This really saved me and helps me when doubts and questions appear because it is okay to have questions! That's how we grow and learn in this life! I know the Church of Jesus Christ is the true church on this earth and I testify that our savior loves us. He supports us and he died for us. I love you all and I promise that next week I'll have some better stories to tell about Portland and be hype. 
1. Me and Elder Jex before he left he next morning. Sad day
2. us at the last devotional
3. elder platt with his bug friend
4. somehow my hair got long enough for me to need a haircut
5. first day pic I just found
6. the district sorta
7. Me, Elder Cloward, Elder Platt, and Elder Erickson
9-21-23

VOLLEYBALL
We had an awesome turnout- 10 girls last night!  And we won both games!!  The girls are getting really good!  It's fun to watch them!!  So proud!  9-21-23

ELDER MAYNES' DEPARTURE DATE
I got up this morning to wake up Erika for Open gym and had to text Brad a little good luck text for his big adventures today!!  As if flying to another state wasn't exciting enough, they make the whole trip to the airport a big adventure as well!!  He has like four transfers to get there.  I hope they all go well and he makes it in time.  He will have 28 other elders with him so it shouldn't be too hard.  I hope they are safe and protected.  Heavenly Father is in charge.  What happens happens for a reason.  It's taking some faith today.  But I'm excited for him to get out in the field.  I really think he will thrive out there.  I'm so proud of him!!  9-22-23

DATE NIGHT
We got to go out again this week- I'm counting all these as blessings because life gets pretty hectic, but at least we still have our date nights.  We went to Zupas and then decided to go home for games with the kids because Kelly was in town!!  I ran into Kathy Tonge at Zupas which was kinda fun.  She said she's going through a divorce because her husband is leaving her for his high school girlfriend.  So strange.  I felt bad for her, but it was good to see her and think about the things she reminds me of.  9-22-23

SOCCER GAMES
Molly and Noha's games overlapped and so I didn't get to see Molly play this week, but she did score!  So proud of her!  Noah's game was great but then it took a turn for the worse as the ref started yelling at him for things he didn't do.  "If there's a call to be made it's going to be on you!"  So rude.  Noah handled it so well.  I was really proud of him.  Then Erika's was really good too.  They basically killed the other team.  So proud of that girl!  She also scored a few times.  9-23-23

HOMECOMING NOAH AND LUKE
I had the privilege of being part of Noah's Homecoming night.  We took the food to Will's house, came back home to get Noah's stuff.  Went back up to Will's to get the boys and then drove around picking up the girls.  Then we went and took pictures in the Timothy's backyard.  This was a lot of fun.  I was happy Kelly was with me and made all the big decisions.  She's got a good eye.  I think they turned out pretty good.  Then we drove them back to Will's for dinner and then picked them up to go to the dance after.  I had a lot of fun listening to them talk in the car and hearing all the nerves but also all the sweet boys and how they wanted to take care of those girls.  REALLY cool!!  I think Noah has some awesome friends.  I got to take Luke to go get his corsage in Bountiful and then I got to hear about the night after- sounded really great.  I think he was happy with how it went.  Noah took Kallista Wright and Luke took Sarah Norton.  I was really proud of my boys!!  So much fun.  9-23-23

EMOJIS
Today was the first time Brad responded with emojis and it happened to be the first communication we had received from him since he shipped off to Oregon.  He had hearted my text that I sent right before he left of "We love you!".  So I texted back, "Yay!  You're alive!" and then he gave me the fingers showing an inch- like "Barely".  So then I was worried and asked a few more questions about how he was doing.  I got some shrugs and some tearing up eyes.  It was so hard to hear and not really hear!!  I sent him a little motivational thing that I had seen on facebook a few minutes before, and he loved that.  But it was another two days before we were able to hear about that day.  I ended up really struggling all day Sunday wishing I knew how he was and why he wasn't great.  It was kind of hard.  I started to think that this whole being able to communicate thing is a little tricky!  Because ultimately, he was able to pull through it and felt good the next day and if I hadn't responded or asked him anything, I wouldn't have even known he was having a hard time.  He would have gotten through it and it would have been one sentence in his email.  So I think I need to step back a little and recognize this.  It's going to be hard, but I think it is better.  9-24-23

LUNCH WITH EMILY
We FINALLY made it to lunch!  It was fun to be able to talk a little.  Even with Sadie there.  Then we got to go to the lifetime photo shoot that evening and talked a little there too.  Kinda nice.  It's been too long.  9-25-23

DOLORES
Sadie and I went and helped Dolores a little with unpacking her sewing room.  We're the thread girls.  We organize the threads.  It has been kind of fun and even Sadie has been pretty good for the most part.  The second day we went she whined a little and then ended up falling asleep in my arms while I chatted with Dolores.  It's so fun to talk to her!!  She has a lot of cool stories and I love to get to know her.  We didn't get a ton done, I'm hoping to go back over, but it's been a fun time for me.  9-25-23

ERIKA AND KATE LIFETIME PHOTO SHOOT
Erika and Kate got asked to do a basketball photoshoot.  This was fun.  Only took about a half hour.  They each get $50!!  Pretty awesome!  Emily and I just sat there talking the whole time.  Pretty chill.  9-25-23

ELDER MAYNES
We got to talk with Brad for the first time in Oregon today.  That was pretty exciting and much anticipated.  He wasn't sure how much time he would have, so we weren't either.  We decided to do a whole family call again.  Nobody likes it this way, I don't know why we do it but we wanted all the details.  May have been a selfish decision on mine and Nate's part.  Although, I did get to text him quite a bit all day and that was nice.  So he's doing okay!  A little green and had some rough days in the beginning there, but it sounds like he might get the hang of it.  The area he is in is interesting.  We'll see how that goes.  I'm happy for him to be out in the field and teaching!  Even his companion said he is doing great!  So proud of him.  We got to hear about all the mean people who yell at him.  He likes his companion and the guys in his apartment.  He loves the trees.  I loved hearing him trying to talk Charity into dating Ty.  He looked so tired.  I hope he has enough food.  I did send him some groceries and because he gave me the wrong address, they went to a different place, but it just so happened to be another apartment with missionaries!!  So they gave them to Bradley!  Pretty awesome.  9-26-23

"YOU CAN TAKE THE HOOD OUT OF E MAYNES, BUT YOU CAN'T TAKE E MAYNES OUT OF THE HOOD"- EMAIL FROM BRADLEY
This week was crazyyyy and it hasn't even been a full week. I'm sure nobody really wants to hear how the last few days of the MTC were and I did basically nothing haha. It was just a ton of packing and getting ready for my travel to Oregon. First day we caught a bus at 5:30 and then got on the front runner and then got on another front runner and then made it to the airport. Me and elder McNeil hangout for most of it and went and ate real food for the first time ahhhh. On the flight I sat in between this 70 year old Indian lady and some other woman. We ended up talking the ENTIRE time and I taught them about what a missionary is and why my purpose is here as a missionary. We shared some cool experiences we had in our lives and I taught them a little bit about the gospel. We're besties now. Also I wanna first apologize this will be a long email✋

I met my comp and he was so cool and it was surreal to me how good he was at Spanish and how well he could find and teach people so fast. I Def have a lot to learn from him before I head to Peru. Also he's 5' 6 again rip.🥲 We are in a Spanish speaking area and there's actually soooo many Hispanics here I was not expecting. They're all mostly in apartment complexes or trailer parks so we just hop between those which sycks because they're the scariest places.

Saturday: first full day in the field and I already am soooo dead holy. We got stuck at the mission home for 6 hours because our ride left so we just studied and talk with everyone there for a FAT minute while we waited for our ride. That night we ate dinner with the Campbell's and they are this adorable little couple that made us chicken and rice. Later that night we went knocking and came across Francisco! My comp turned to me middle of his talking and I froze for like 30 second because it was my first time ever knocking and had no clue what we were even supposed to say hahaha. It all worked out because he wants to meet with us again. 

Sunday: today was hard because the Spanish group in the ward is all Venezuelan so they speak sooooo fast and I don't understand any of it. They are all very nice and friendly. We met with Francisco again and taught him! It was my first lesson in Spanish so I just taught him about the apostasy and a little about the book of Mormon. It was amazing to see how genuinely he was involved and how much he was listening. We challenged him to read a chapter in the book of Mormon and pray about it's truthfulness.  I was peeing my pants the whole time it was scary. Later we went to this apartment complex and some sketchy dude came up behind me and put his fingers in the shape of a gun and put them to my back. He repeatedly said, "give me all your money." Lowkey was terrified but somehow I just turned around and stared at him and he then went on to bash us for a little bit before we left. Kinda scary because I didn't know what his intentions were but glad we were safe and it wasn't a real gun haha!

Monday: Today started off awful and I just wanted to get to Peru already. I don't remember what happened for the first half but I was just depresso and home sick. We then had this lesson with some Venezuelans we met drinking beer outside on their porch Sunday. The lesson was with Darwin, his wife Erika and Darwins family. We started teaching them about the gospel of Jesus christ and I ended up teaching around half of it! I don't remember what I said but I do remember God was guiding me and the gift of tongues is real! The spirit was so strong and you could really tell how engaged this family was into the lesson. They told us about an experience they had crossing the Venezuelan border and how he had all the documents In his satchel and as he was crossing the fell off and were gone. ALL of their information, money, and other documents were gone. His family kneeled down and prayed although they never had before. They made it to Panama and some guy had their satchel with everything in it! It was actually amazing and I'm happy they were able to share that experience with us. We taught them a little more and invited them to watch general conference with us. They said yes! If he doesn't have to work so hopefully he won't be working haha. I truly felt the spirit and know they did too. After My comp told me he's never seen a greenie talk as much and teach so much of a lesson in their first week. He told me he's very impressed with my Spanish and I know it's because God is guiding me in what to say and how to say it. Gift of tongues is real!

Guys Portland Oregon is crazy. Im in uptown Portland so low-key in the hood and last night definitely heard some gunshots hahaha! There's graffiti everywhere you go and so many homeless people and trash everywhere. I'm pretty sure everytime I get out of the car someone wants to kill me and actually threatens us hahaha. But besides that the Hispanics are all so genuine!! They all love christ and are way more respectful than everyone else. Oh and the trees are super pretty here too so that's a plus. There is like a lot of people that just decide to walk around in their underwear which is confusing but other than that Portland is lit haha. It's not as bad as I was expecting so that's v exciting. Also the sun hasn't been out at all and it's been dumping this entire time. I doing the best with the 2 sweaters I have hahaha. Also we are actually starving lowkey so I've been eating all my snacks I brought for the plan and I'm pretty sure I've lost weight already and don't know how these guys gain so much weight here.

Spiritual thought: the power of the holy ghost is amazing and is the converting power. Nobody would listen to me if they couldn't feel the spirit because they could probably barely understand my gringo speaking haha. God is amazing and knows your circumstances so don't let anyone or anything diminish your faith and your title as a disciple of Jesus christ. Remember who you are and what you stand for!

I've actually taken like 0 photos because I didn't have a phone for half of it haha. But me and my comp got thus lasagna from a member and it was AMAZING
9-26-23

LUNCH DAY
Luke's friends, Austin, Sadie (not Caldwell), and Tate Hansen all showed up while we were eating our Chick-fil-a :).  Kinda funny.  They were fun to talk to though.  Luke was hilarious.  I love having them home during the day- so fun!  9-27-23

SADIE'S "TOE"
So during Bradley's phone call, Sadie came home (Molly had pushed her on the scooter thing and then Nate carried her in the front door) screaming.  She was really upset.  She had said she hurt her toe so I looked at it and it looked all red and puffy, so I thought she had stubbed it and with it being a little ingrown with the toenail, I thought that was it.  Didn't think much of it.  She fell asleep during the phone call.  She had a cough and the hurt toe so I let her sleep with me that night (Nate was working the mid).  Then all day Wednesday she had to be carried everywhere and wouldn't walk on her "hurt toe".  It seemed extreme but she's kinda like that so it was okay.  Then Wednesday night she woke up screaming a few times about the pain and then couldn't make it to the bathroom because she couldn't walk.  So Thursday, I decided to really investigate this toe- there's no way this is all because of an ingrown toenail.  Sure enough, the pain was not near her toenail.  It was just below her big toe.  That was the only place.  We tried walking with shoes, tried standing and she just couldn't.  She screamed like crazy every time I tried to get her to stand up on it.  So I scheduled a doctor appointment.  While we were sitting there waiting, I played around with her leg and foot again.  Found out pushing on the back of her knee makes her flinch pretty bad and she won't allow you to do it very long.  So we told the doctor about it all, he figured we better x-ray.  We went and got some pictures of her foot and knee and then found out everything was totally normal looking.  So who knows.  I love when they follow it up with "if it's still hurting in 1-2 days, bring her back in".  Ugh.  But of course, the next day, she's braving walking now.  Kind of annoying, but I'm glad she's okay and I'd rather not have a cast or boot.  9-28-23

VOLLEYBALL
Still doing great!! Won both games today!!  Less subs, but some of them like that better.  Good stuff.  9-28-23

HARVEST DANCE FOR NOAH
Noah got asked to Harvest dance already!!  His friend Molly wanted to ask him before he got snatched up by someone else!  I think it's so flattering to get asked so early on.  He seemed happy about it.  It wasn't the annoying girl he didn't want asking him.  Super cute!!  I'm excited and happy for Noah.  9-28-23

DATE NIGHT
We got to go see Nate Bargatze for our date night this week!!  We grabbed some yummy philly beef and swiss subs before heading to our awesome seats!  Nate spoiled me extra this week!  This was a very funny show!!  Even the openers were pretty good!  I LOVED that he said, "This is what they promise us..." Talking about a clean comic coming to Utah.  Pretty funny.  "This is our hollywood".  HAHAHA!!  Then he thanked us for making time to be there on our busy weekend (General conference) HA!  Funny guy.   He had a lot of funny material.  I loved him talking about reading.  I could totally relate.  He's funny.  I loved having the time with Nate and glad he could laugh about the annoying laugh next to me, with me, she had THE MOST ANNOYING LAUGH!!!  So funny.  9-29-23


Friday, September 8, 2023

AUGUST 2023

 DENTIST JACK MOLLY NOAH

The four of us went to the dentist Tuesday morning for some work on cavities.  It was hard to break the news to Molly that she wasn't going to get a $10 shopping spree even though she would not have any cavities once they were all filled.  She thought she had found a loop hole I think.  Lots of nitrous, laughing, talking with Dr. Morgan about the upcoming backpacking trip, tears and frustration later, we headed home.  Everyone needed to get packed for backpacking.  8-1-23

BACKPACKING WITH THE YOUNG MEN
Nate has worked so hard and put SO MUCH thought into this trip.  He had one more sleepless night Tuesday night after helping everyone pack their packs and be all geared up, and then they were off Wednesday morning!  I was so nervous for them because of all the rain that was in the forcast, but apparently it really only rained about a day and a half.  Some of the kids were REALLY wet and that is a bummer, but so fun that they were able to do the backpacking.  I liked hearing all their stories and hearing about all the funny things the dads did.  Makes me that much mroe grateful for the dad I picked for my kids and that he takes them to do these things and teaches them these skills.  I was so proud of them for making it the entire time and that there were a lot of good things to be said about it as well.  8-2-23--8-6-23

ME AND THE GIRLS
Jack had been invited to go with the Young Men, so it was just the girls and I at home!  We had a lot of fun just watching movies, playing games, going to the park and eating out occasionally.  I was happy I didn't try too hard to do anything too exotic.  That never really goes as planned anyway.  But it was really relaxed and we enjoyed the clean house for msot of it.  I was really happy with how it went.  8-2-23--8-6-23

DATE WITH KELLY
Kelly and I planned to go get our nails done!  We went to the place in Farmington Station and that was a lot of fun.  We laughed a lot about the ladies not speaking very good english and me having to refuse glitter.  We got to talk about Devan and how things were going with him.  I'm really proud of Kelly and that she is thinking things through these days.  She has decided to move down to Ephraim this fall and work down there.  Hopefully that ends up being a fun experience for her.  After getting our nails done we went over to Aubergine's for some yummy gluten free/vegan food.  I think Kelly liked it.  8-2-23

VICTOR'S MISSION CALL
I loved being there for Victor's call.  I loved that he asked Brad to say the opening prayer and the big hug he gave him after he read the call.  It was cute that Victor was tearing up so much as he read.  We're excited for him to go to Brazil.  I still can't believe he starts home MTC on Christmas Day!!  8-5-23

SUNDAY
It felt like a special Sunday this week.  Charity, Kelly, Bradley and Erika all bore their testimonies.  That was awesome.  Then we remembered to do a craft- the painting on the frames idea I've had sitting there forever. We got to spend a lot of time with Nate because he took work off and then because he told his mom 6:00 for the setting apart, we had some time with her and Jen before going.  We even had dessert which was rice krispie treats.  I enjoyed the feel of the day.  8-6-23

BRAD'S SETTING APART
I had not been prepared for how cool this event would be.  I loved that we got to all be there for that.  It went differently than I had imagined, since we ended up going to the Stake Center, I'd pictured it being at home.  But we all went and set up chairs in the RS room and listened to Pres. Larsen for a minute as he talked about some of the rules and how important this setting apart is.  He then gave Brad the blessing.  It was SO INCREDIBLE!!  I LOVED it.  It was a similar feel to his Patriarchal blessing.  I loved that he was blessed with patience, the ability to learn the language quickly, the ability to see his companions gifts and strengths and use them to benefit the work.  I thought it was nice that he was blessed to have ministering angels not only with him, but with us also.  I loved that Pres. Larsen had everyone share their thoughts and feelings about some of the things said in his blessing afterwards as well.  I only wish we'd had more time to say more which is why we did our own little add-on when we got home.  I am so excited for Bradley.  He is going to do so great!  I can't wait to hear all of his experiences and be able to see the growth.  I know he is doing the right thing and I feel peace that he will be safe and will be protected.  After his setting apart, Pres. Larsen had him put his name tag on and that just felt too real.  He looks so good and just glows while he's wearing it.  Makes me happy for him to be able to experience this!!  8-6-23

HOME MTC HERE WE COME
First day- Brad missed half of his classes and it still felt really long and kind of boring.  We were good at keeping the house quiet and peaceful though.  We went and got Brad lunch from Costa while we were out to get his finger prints, but ended up not having enough time, so I just bought an ink pad and we did it ourselves.  We did the finger print and sent that in for approval.  8-7-23
Day two- He had all of his classes and still survived :).  We missed him!  He only had a few short breaks, but we were able to squeeze in getting his signature notarized and sent in for approval and our Chilis date.  He went to play pickleball that night and ended up just hanging out with Elder Hedquist and Kenzie.  8-8-23
Day three- I loved waking up to his letter with the subject "MY MOM IS THE COOLEST"!  He's so good to me. I was happy my dad mustered up a little reply of encouragement to him.  I'm so happy we got his email list to work out. This was his P- day!  That was so perfect because we had received approval on his signature/fingerprint, so we needed to go get the apostille at the capitol building.  We had plenty of time to do so and go to Chick-fil-a after :).  I was SO RELEIVED to get his paperwork all finished (another fingerprint) in the envelope and off to the Peru Visa Team.  We also had our Sunday School class ice cream party- brad was here for the 10 minutes at the beginning that nobody was here for and then the last ten minutes as everyone was leaving, so that was a bummer.  He seems to be getting the hang of the HMTC though!  8-9-23

LETTER FROM ELDER MAYNES
Yes, yes I know this is only my third day but it is my P day so I figured I might as well make an email. But first I would like to ask that if you are going to reply make sure you click the reply to just me button, instead of the reply all. It will save everyone the trouble of having their email blown up with a ton of random emails. But I would love some emails from you guys just click reply to just me. haha


This week started out really really SLOW. Like I'm not one to complain that much but dang we have had so many zoom meetings it feels like "at home" learning all over again. Other than that it was great! I get to spend my breaks in between classes with my cutie lil fam and we just talk and hangout the whole time. My mom literally is amazing (hence the subject title) because each time I open my suitcase there's all these little notes and they make me smile everytime I open it. Along with that me and my mom have gone out to lunch or dinner in between my classes and I LOVE the time I get to spend with her. She is making my time at Home MTC so much better and made it more enjoyable. If my mom hadn't been involved as much as she was I would have STRUGGLED with getting ready for a mission. I love my mom and am grateful I get to spend one more week with her before I head over to Provo.

Monday: Monday I met my district and they are some of the coolest guys. I already love them and can't wait til I can spend my days with them in Provo. One of the guys actually ran the decathlon at UVU which is cool because that's exactly what I want to do! I then met my companion and me and him are exact OPPOSITES. Not that that is a bad thing, but he's a cool guy and I feel like we will be able to work well together. This is what I know about him so far; he LOVES legos and has a few social media channels dedicated to them. He does marching band and his school was the top in the state. He lives in Texas and has 4 older siblings who all attend BYU. He is a cat AND dog person. And he says he wants to get good at drawing but loves to draw trees because there are no exact ways to draw a tree. Awkward moment: I was talking to him and he said he felt out of place because there were so many football and basketball kids and then there's him. Soooo I say they probably just say those sports but are actually 5'6" and suck at them and rode the bench all of highschool. He goes, "bruh I'm 5'6"." IT WAS SO AWKWARD. So yeah my comp is also 5'6". Monday I also may have forgotten to add my district calendar to my schedule so I ended up missing half our classes and my comp didn't text me til after the classes were done. Monday night me and the fam went for a walk and it was a much needed walk because I was inside allll day. 

Tuesday: Me and Erika went for a run! This is important because I haven't ran more than a mile for like 8 months. So yes I'm proud of myself and  no it didn't suck it was wonderful. Except we had to go to the bathroom really badly so we had to book it home or we would have had to knock on a stranger's door to use their potty. Tuesday went a lot smoother with the classes and I feel like I am way better at paying attention which is a HUGE blessing! Our Spanish class is difficult because my teacher only speaks in Spanish so we all just sit there with blank faces when she asks questions because the only way we can tell is by the tone of her voice. We watched this really cool devotional with elder Christofferson and his wife talking in it and then had to meet as a district to talk about it. Well we didn't  have everyone's numbers or a way to contact them so we just tried to get a hold of everyone for the longest time. But then we finally did and it was actually awesome because we all just talked for an hour and got to know each other without a teacher being there watching us. I then ended the night playing "pickleball" with Tyler, Elder Headquist, and Kenzie. We tried to go play pickleball but then there was a women's tournament so we went to berry station because they gave us free frozen yogurt and then we all just talked for a little bit before I had to go to bed.

Spiritual thought: 2 things actually. The first is in our class Tuesday our teacher talked about our "conversion stories" and what made us want to go on a mission. It was really cool to see how everyone has their own personal story, but at the same time they are all very similar. She also talked about how we need to be constantly becoming more converted to christ each day and how it isn't just a "one time thing." Like we don't wake up one day and we are converted neither are we converted when we are baptised. These are all just steps towards our conversion process and it is a daily process. 
Second is, you guys know the butterfly effect? The one where Bart Simpson goes in a time machine and goes back in time and steps on a butterfly. He then goes back to his time where it changes everything drastically. Well I have been thinking of that but in our present time and with a positive aspect. You never know what tiny simple thing you can do that can change someone's life. That's as simple as you waving, saying high, or even just a smile. The little things we do can be as beneficial or more beneficial than the big thought out projects. Don't be afraid to be that person that smiles at everyone or the person that holds the door open for someone. These little things that take no effort on our part can change someone's life.  
LOVE YOU GUYS-
Elder Maynes

ICE CREAM PARTY WITH SUNDAY SHCOOL- GOODBYE SENIORS
I think this went really well!  We had a good turn out and everyone chatted so loud that we interrupted Brad's MTC zoom companion study.  I loved talking with everyone and just having that time together.  Very cool kids.  I'm gonna miss all the participation from those four- Molly, Rachel, Cameron and Brad.  But I'm excited for them to move on and do more exciting things.  8-9-23

DATE NIGHT
We had a great day Friday, lots of running around, but also got to have our date.  We went to Sushi Monster and to see Gran Turismo and had a lovely evening.  I loved that my prayers were answered today and that I didn't need to bring in reinforcements.  8-11-23

DRESS SHOPPING WITH MOLLY
It was time to buy Molly's baptism dress!  So exciting!  She and I and Erika set off to find the perfect one.  We went to the distribution center first because I had seen some there, but they only had one to choose from.  Molly liked it, but felt weird just picking the first dress she tried on, so she wanted to try somewhere else too.  Unfortunately, White Elegance was gone as well as Journey 5 where I'd seend some a couple years ago.  There were very few options in my opinion.  Probably a store in the mall, but we were not even close to the mall.  So we tried Twirl!  They actually had two to choose from and they were both really cute.  Molly found the one she wanted and is very happy with it.  I loved spending this time with her.  8-12-23

MOLLY'S BAPTISM PHOTO SHOOT
We spent some time curling Molly's hair and then sat around waiting for golden hour and then headed up to the Bountiful Temple.  Erika joined us as my assistant ;).  We had the perfect lighting and got some really great shots!  I was really happy with how many good ones we got.  There were TONS of people there that day, taking photos, even saw Dr. Morgan too, so it was tricky to get any candid ones, but we had fun and got the job done :).  Time to make the announcements!  8-12-23

HOME MTC
Sunday was a nice day with Home MTC, felt more like a regular Sunday.  Brad didn't have much class-wise.  I think he enjoyed that and kept talking about how little class time he has left before leaving, which was good.  Monday was a shorter day so he was able to go to Lucia and Seth's wedding and then Tuesday was a "travel day" so we got him all to ourselves.  Wednesday too.  So it is nice that HMTC is almost done.  He is really relieved.  8-12-23

TEACHING RELIEF SOCIETY
I was asked to teach RS this week.  I almost told Merrit no because it's a few days before we take Bradley, but I didn't.  It ended up going pretty well.  I sort of hate how I was the whole time, but whatever.  The talk was "Abide in Me and I will abide in you, walk with me" something like that, from Elder Bednar.  I think the talk was a blessing in my life right now.  So good experience.  Hopefully it wasn't too hard for everyone to be part of.  8-13-23

PERPARATION FOR LIFE
Brad texted me at choir to tell me that there were lots of parents at the Preparation for life thing so I ditched choir and met up with him and Luke at the Stake Center.  This was one about missionary work, so that was cool.  It was nice to feel like Brad is prepared and that Luke will be as well.  8-13-23

MTC DEVOTIONAL
I loved this!  We got to see the MTC, learn some of the policies and rules, and hear more about what Brad will be doing there.  It was great.  It was on zoom and we couldn't get the sound on the tv, so that was a bummer, but otherwise a great thing for all of us!  8-13-23

FAMILY MEETING
This was Brad's last family meeting.  He got lots of attention from everyone about his mission.  We had gotten there an hour late and still had an hour left of the lesson which was kind of a bummer considering we wanted to be able to visit before having to leave at 8:30, but it was good.  I loved talking with Brad on the way home.  8-13-23

KELLY MOVING HOME
Noah so generously came with me to help bring Kelly's stuff home from Logan.  Nate took the seats out and we drove up there, quickly loaded up her stuff (with the help of Cam too) in less than 10 minutes and then were headed home almost instantly!  Kinda crazy how fast it all went.  But good.  Noah and I were able to eat at Panda real quick before needing to get him home for work.  8-14-23

SCHOOL SHOPPING
We got the rest of the school shopping done!!  This was a challenge, but we did it!  I was so happy when Luke found the clearance shirts appealing and picked out one of every color :).  Fun stuff.  8-14-23

FHE
Our FHE was kinda thrown together this week.  Brad and Luke came home from Lucia and Seth's wedding in time for the treat, but we had Molly's baptism lesson where she asked us all questions and we talked about our baptisms and stuff.  Kinda cool.  So that was nice.  Then Handels for ice cream after.  There weren't any empty tables so we had to go sit on the ground outside, kinda weird and half of the kids didn't have shoes on, so that was weird, but whatever.  We're getting kinda antsy for the MTC and School to start I think.  8-14-23

TUESDAY!!  BRAD'S LAST FULL DAY HOME
Brad, Kelly and I all went up to the temple for an endowment session.  Brad's friends Pierce, Jake, and someone else met up with us there.  When we were taking a picture, there was a guy his friend had met who is going to the same mission he is, which was pretty fun and cool to hear about.  We got a picture and then headed down to Mo Bettas.  I was glad Brad got one more temple trip in and I'm glad he gets to go while he's in the MTC.  This time is so precious, I just don't want it to end.  

After the temple we came home and vegged a little with everyone.  Everyone seemed really overwhelmed with life and Sadie even threw up which was a total drag.  But Nate took the kids bowling as our last hurrah, too bad Sadie and I missed it.  Sounded fun.  

Then I took the littles to the school for Back to School night.  It was nice to meet their teachers and get to know their classrooms.  I think it will be a good year!  

After BTS we came home and got ready for Father's Blessings.  This was a fun year with Brad able to stand in with Nate.  So cool!  He said it was hard to stand that long :).  The coolest part was having Brad give Nate and I blessings also.  So cool!!  It's starting to get really real here with Brad leaving!  I'm not sure I will make it.  After blessings, the kids all gathered on the other side of the family room from Brad and Charity played the ukulele as everyone sang "Army of Helaman" to him.  Changing the word we to you!  So Sweet!!!  Nate and I were fighting back the tears.  

That night Brad and I finished packing his stuff, I was able to show him the cool way to pack.  Hopefully we has everything he needs!!  8-15-23

TAKING BRAD TO THE MTC
This was huge.  Hard.  Special.  and really hard!!  We left at 10:00, ran to the bank to get Brad a new debit card.  Then off to Provo.  When we got up there, Brad chose Chick-fil-a for lunch.  We ate.  It was pretty quiet.  The younger kids were all experiencing a lot of nausea either from the stress of taking Brad, starting school, or simply just car sick, who knows.  But that was kind of an annoying little extra.  We went over to the Provo temple to hang out on the temple grounds a little. There were tons of families there.  We took pictures, sat and talked, cried!  It was interesting.  Then we walked over to the car, and drove the few feet over to the MTC, followed all the people directing traffic, got a sticky note on our car, and then stopped, parked, got his suitcases out, hugged him and cried, and then said goodbye and drove off!!  It was then that we realized we'd failed to put luggage tags on his suitcases- oops!  But he walked off and we could see him as we drove away.  SO SAD!!!  This was really hard.  Then I made the mistake of reading the letter he wrote me (he wrote us all letters- it was so cute!)- and bawled some more.  Such a tough time!!  But we're going to be okay.  We are happy he's doing the right thing and we wouldn't want him anywhere else.  Just super hard still!!!  We got this and so does he!!  I was happy he messaged me a few times throughout the rest of the day, letting me know that the guys in his room are awesome and "athletic" and I think that was a huge relief.  He was happy he found his class safely :).  And since then he's requested snacks, random snacks and a mini fridge, he couldn't find his laundry bag, so that was suspenseful until I got word from him that he'd found it.  Fun stuff.  I think he's getting settled in.  I hope.  As we drove away I was praying to Heavenly Father to please protect him and help him to make himself at home and take care of my little boy and Heavenly Father quickly reesponded with, "He's my son too.  I will take good care of him."  That was awesome.  And a huge relief.  We will get through this!!  I hope :).  We had a few people bring chocolate, ice cream, tissues, hugs, love, so cool to show that kind of support!!  Cathie Nybo, Merrit Jacox, Kenzie and her mom.  Lots of texts from friends as well.  8-16-23

KILLING TIME
President Larsen told us to do something after the MTC, not to just drive home crying and sniffling, but and we decided to just go to the new Red Balloon toy store!  Not in Provo, but same idea.  The kids loved it!  Then we grabbed Fiiz on our way home.  There was kind of a funk in the house.  Nobody was really motivated to do much.  We watched a movie and then the big kids left for Youth Activities.  I was able to get a lot of laundry done and cleaned up the entire kitchen!!!  Go me.  8-16-23

Home MTC is OVER. I am very excited to finally make it to the provo MTC today which will be eventful for sure but I am more excited that I can stop doing home MTC because it was a STRUGGLE for me. I loved the spirit and feeling and learning associated with it BUT not the 10+ hours of staring at a screen and trying to have a real discussion over a zoom call. But other than that it was great. I am pretty sure 90% of my diet was garbage and I gained like 10 pounds but we can just call this the bulk before I get to peru and lose it all.  I already forgot most of the week because it was basically the movie groundhog day but heres how my week went


Wednesday: My first P day YAY! It really wasn't that special because my fam was all busy so I couldn't do much but I did get a couple naps in and talked with my family for quite some time. That night me and my fam talked and laughed A LOT. 

Thursday: I think it was today but me and my mom went to the capitol for visa stuff and we ran into a guy about to serve in Peru and an older guy that served in Arequipa!! God works in many ways I can't remember if it was today or friday but some of my siblings, my mom, and vic and kenzie came and played pickleball at barbara Noriegas house which was SO FUN. Much needed break from the house.

Friday: Friday was longgg because we had extra classes but I love the classes becuase the teachers all offer muy bien insight. Minus that its all in spanish and I cant understand ANYTHING. 

Saturday: I only had two classes so me and mom and luke went shopping. Its crazy going into public now because I feel like everyone's watching me but I'm sure I'll get used to it. 

Sunday: VERY NICE. It was a lot more relaxing and I was grateful to go to church without the distractions of a phone. I went to Isaac headquists farewell and got to see some of my old track buddies. We then went to a mission prep class for highscoolers and I loved what president larsen had to say. We finished the night off by going to the Family meeting and I loved having a last chance to say goodbye to everyone. 

Monday: Today was different because I had one less class! We also had to teach a "pretend investigator" because they were an actor and it went AWFUL. I didn't know what to expect and he was the quietest dude so I felt like I was forcing him to speak. On top of that, my comp lowkey didn't let me speak so I was just there nodding the entire time. Overall we need to fix things so our next one on Saturday can go smoothly. Vic picked me up and we went to Seth and Lucia's wedding which was AWESOME. I'm sad I couldn't stay very long but I am so happy for them and the next steps in their life. (they're my track coaches for those who are lost haha) We then made it home and went to handels as a family and we looked very homeless because we had like 5 people not wearing shoes and we all sat on the sidewalk outside eating it.

Tuesday: TRAVEL DAY WOOT WOOT! I had no classes so I got to spend this entire day with my fam. We partied it up because Me, my Mom, Kelly, Pierce, Jake, and Taig went to the temple and it was sooo nice. I am grateful to have that moment because I had only gone through the temple once before that. I also had to let mom see the annoying side of me as we drove there and back. I'm sure she felt it very good heheh. We then got home and I promised I wouldn't take a nap but I caved and did because it was my last nap opportunity in a while. We went bowling as a family I was COOKING at the beginning but then my Dad jynxed me and I got stuck with the curse of the 9's with him and basically missed one pin every single bowl. After that we had fathers blessings and I got to participate in it! I loved every minute but I also am confused how he stands that long because it was long. I then gave mom and dad a blessing. It was the first time I got to give them one but it was SOOO COOL AHHH! I was very scared and I'm sure they were like 20 seconds long but maybe thats all god wanted them to hear in that moment. Then we finished packing and my cutie siblings sang me "Called to serve" but changed the words from "we" to "you" and I was definitely tearing up because it was the cutest thing and I love them dearly and will miss them so much. I hope that as they watch me go on a mission it can help them realize how important this is to me and choose to go on one themselves knowing I'm right here beside them cheering them on. 

I would just like to apologize if I forgot any significant parts in my life the past few weeks, it all seems like the same day to me. 

Spiritual thought: Read James 2 14-19  This week I thought about this a lot and it talks about where faith without works is dead. Being disciples of christ we can't just say we are disciples but we have to show it. I also think its important to think about that trials can also be put into this category. If we are willing to push through our trials with trust that God will help you and that he is there every step of the way he will let you go as far as you can and encourage you the whole way and when you feel there is no hope and you can't push any further thats when he is going to pick you up and carry you the rest. I testify that God loves every one of his children. And he is yearning for all his children to come back to him and be willing to make the sacrifices in order to live with him again. The ways of the world will find EVERY single little thing they can in our church but its a perfect church just ran by imperfect people. 
1 and 2: Me and my cutie siblings partying
3. idk why I have this its funny
4. making a cute lil bracelet in between classes
5. a drawing of a stick figure on a cliff
6. pretty sunset coming back from wedding
7. My AMAZING but homeless looking fam

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL
This day came so fast.  It was a little less organized than I would have liked, but we made it work!  I was grateful for reminders to take pictures and how to do my routine... crazy that we're back to school again.  But it was a good morning.  Luke and Noah are both in the high school this year- they rode together.  I was happy they have each other.  Erika is at the Junior high alone this year.  She is going to be okay with that though :).  She wanted her hair curled and we made it look so pretty!  She was really excited for school.  Jack has Mrs. Beuhner and Mrs. Halm in a split week schedule and Molly has Mrs. Lindsey!  We were going to ride bikes to the elementary school, but the bike trailer was completely filled with muddy water so that was out.  So Jack and Molly rode their bikes and I drove and met up with them there.  Kind of weird.  But it was also weird that they didn't do the big gathering in the back thing this year.  Kind of a bummer.  So we just took Molly to her class and hugged them both goodbye!!  Back to school!  Here we go!!  Everyone seemed to enjoy their day.  Molly came home with a cookie with a fly on it.  Jack was happy and said he ate his lunch so that was great :).  The older kids seemed exhausted.  Erika was glad she knew the other person in office assistant.  I think we might survive this year! 8-17-23

FRIDAY NIGHT
Everyone was everywhere tonight.  Molly had her back to dance night where we scrambled to find her some shoes and stuff.  Luke and Noah had their lifetime photo shoot which apparently went well.  Charity was gone, Kelly was gone.  Erika went to Cherry Hill night.  It was packed!!  But we managed to squeeze in our date thankfully!!  We went to Slapfish and then to see Meg 2.  I liked the movie, but the first like half hour was REALLY slow!!  I'm not even sure what was happening cuz I kept falling asleep- probably the carbs I ate.  But it was fun.  Good times!!  The kids all pulled through with the babysitting!  8-18-23

CHARITY MOVING DAY
Didn't quite go as planned and we didn't end up leaving until about 6:00, but she and I met up at her apartment and unloaded her car into her little room while her roommate played video games :).  Her roommate is deaf and later that evening when I texted her she said that her sign language is actually a lot better than she thought and she had had some fun conversations with her roommate already.  That was a huge relief.  I think she might like it there.  I hope she makes herself at home and has a nice time getting to know some new people and making new friends.  I'm going to miss having her here and seeing her everyday, but I am proud of her and excited for her new adventures.  8-19-23

KELLY- FIT CHECK SALE
Kelly has acquired an abundance of clothing for her thrift store already and in an effort to alleviate some of it before moving, she decided to have a little sidewalk sale.  She set it up so cute and had some awesome racks from the Lasts and everything looked great but then I guess she got rained out and had only had about 4 customers.   Kind of a bummer.  I felt bad for her.  She of course had a very positive attitude and is looking forward to other ways of selling things, possibilities like a storage container... I'm really proud of her for chasing her dream.  I see her having a lot of success.  8-19-23

ENOCH'S FAREWELL
We got to go to the Taylor's ward Sunday for Enoch's farewell.  He did a great job on his talk, I loved hearing his testimony and his excitement to serve the Lord.  It was fun to recognize John Posey in the congregation after his wife "Sis. Posey" sat down from the organ.  Kinda funny.  We went to the Taylor's house afterwards for some delicious food, singing happy birthday to Meg, and then rushed off to get Nate to work (late).  It was a nice time.  9-20-23

ROOM SWAP
Monday was room swap day.  I had some major plans in my head for getting all the furniture moved around in the most efficient way.  I knew I needed help for this project, but there wasn't anyone around for the first little while.  I am still a little shocked that I was able to move Brad and Jack's bunk beds myself.  Taking them apart anyway- kind of a miracle if we compare to how hard it was for Kelly and I put them back together.  I moved their bunk bed and mattresses out into the hallway by my room, left then took the other beds apart and moved them into their old room, then moved the bunk beds into Jack's new room.  It was nuts.  Kelly helped with the hard parts- we about died putting the top bunk on and even pinned my wrist in between the two for too long.  Took about two weeks for my arm to stop hurting.  Then we moved the clothes in the closets and the shelf stuff.  It was a pretty big project that I didn't finish in one day.  The kids totally had to help at the end as well.  I wanted their stuff to be where they wanted it.  I was really happy with how Jack and Sadie's room turned out- looks great!  Luke and Noah need to finish putting some things away, but their beds fit so much better in that room.  It was a relief for me because I was getting so tired of the way Luke and Noah's room looked.  Erika and Molly will need to move some things around too, but overall- this was a success.  I think it will serve its purpose for the next year.  Then we will see what happens next.  I'm leaning towards putting Jack in with Noah and moving the toys up to Sadie's room.  Maybe with a loft bed or something.  I'm not sure.  9-21-23

ERIKA'S WARTS
Well, this week, they did the thing that they told me they don't ever do.  I had joked that Erika was ready to have them just cut the things off a few weeks ago and they shot that down like I was some kind of barbarian, and then this week decided to slice them off.  It was pretty painful looking although Erika said it didn't hurt at all with the numbing.  They literally sliced them off with a razor blade and then cauterized it as they cut.  Only on one of her hands, one spot for now, but they are going to do the rest at another visit.  Kinda crazy.  We'll see how it goes.  It didn't stop bleeding for a day or so which was concerning, but now it's just black.  9-22-23

TALKING TO ELDER MAYNES
Nate had to come home right after working the mid so he could be in on Brad's early morning call.  He called at 8:00 which worked out pretty well for all of us, minus the littles leaving for school in the middle of it.  But we had so much fun talking to him.  He was being really funny the whole call.  Very distracted.  He didn't want to answer any questions about his roommate and was pretty funny about the food and needing more to eat.  Funny kid.  We loved talking with him though- felt so good to know a little more about what he's doing and being able to see him was great.  9-23-23

I can't figure out how to make a new email on this brick phone I have for the MTC so I am just going to reply and hopefully it isn't that difficult for you guys to read or get this because I am too tired to actually try and figure it out. Anyways this week has been SOOO HYPE! I have decided that MTC is built for me. Home MTC has 3 purposes; To make you enjoy the actual MTC MUCH more, to help you become accustomed to it, and for you to spend that last week with your family before you leave. That is my personal opinion and IS NOT factual but basically is.  ALSO this whole week is a blur and I forgot all the interesting things I wanted to include in this email email I apologize if this puts u to sleep.

Monday: This day was HARD to say goodbye to everyone but know they will survive and I will aswell. I love my family though we went to get food and then hungout at the temple for a little bit while I said my goodbyes before I was snatched from my family. We had some good goodbyes and I am glad I can stay in contact with them over the next two years. I can't imagine what It would be like going 2 years without talking to my family AT ALL. We eventually dropped me off and I got situated into my room. My district is SOOOO SICKKKK! They seriously are my homies and we all get along so well. We all are already best friends and have plans to go backpacking with some of them after we get back. I read some of my letters from home monday night and lowk got so sad but I think it was just the feels hitting after leaving and realizing its real and it wasnt all sad tears I am SOOOO EXCITED for the next 2 years. Peru is LUCKYYY. JKJK. 
Tuesday-Saturday: We spend half our days at classes and the other half waiting in line for food. The lines are SOOOO LONGGG. I kid you not its crazy. It takes probablyh an hour to get through for 3 french toast sticks for breakfast so I usually take like 5 plates. But the Icecream is all you can eat too so I've definitely gained like 10 pounds since getting here its bad. But also I am treating this like bootcamp and will get jacked after my bulk because everyone here is HUGE and I am tiny. Our classes are so lit because we go on tangents that take us to talking about the illuminati or something like that. We also are getting so good at spanish. Next week we go full immersion so EVERYTHING will be in SPanish so we have to get all our questions in while we can. My comp is a cool dude but also lowkey insults me just out of nowhere. hes like a little dog because I am always looking for him because he wonders off. But i love him he has such cool insight and always has important stuff to add to teaching or class. My room is MUSTY and BEYOND humid. Our clothes are damp becuase of how humid it is and its ONLY our room. BUT if you want to make our week or even our life... Feel free to send me some snacks or food or anything from amazon to me and I will put my address thingie at the bottom if anyone feels ever so inclined. 
Sunday: TALK ABOUT A SPIRITUAL HIGH! Sunday was the coolest and most spiritual day I have had in a FAT minute. It started with sacrament meeting and this poor kid was talking but clearly you can tell he was nervous and uncomfortable and hadn't spoken much in public. He ended up going on a tangent and gave THE MOST spiritual and touching talk I have ever heard and it wasn't the thing he wrote. I genuinely almost started crying because of how amazing it was for me. Then later that night we went to choir practice and got there early so we could be front row. (Yes we are those people.) And let me tell you the choir is the COOLEST thing. Something about 1100 missionaries singing is pretty amazing. We then went to a devotional and I didnt really pay that close attention but then we sang the closing song. We sang the FSY medley and it is my FAVORITE song holy. I get chills over my ENTIRE body when the men start singing because its SOO POWERFUL. I can't describe how good I felt becuase it was the entire MTC and it was amazing. We then had a discussion afterwards about it and it was so cool because everyone opened up and was vulnerable and willing to talk about their actual feelings and it made the night AMAZING. 
Monday-Wednesday: Basically the same old same old where we go to class and food but then we played volleyball and it started dumbing buckets on us which was so hype. We have played volleyball 4 times this week and I'm basically carrying everytime. Wednesday was P DAYYYY YUHHHHH. P day is hype let me tell you. We played volleyball, got breakfast, then I called my fam and got to talk to them, then laundry which SUCKED, and then we went to the temple which was really cool because it was just all the guys at the temple together. After we played more volleyball which was lit again. In class our teacher subtly dropped that he was president Nelsons GRANDSON! LIKE WHAT HOW HAVE WE GONE A WEEK WITHOUT KNOWING THAT. We then talked about that for 2 hours which was so cool and I enjoyed it because its such a small world we live in. Like  what are the odds I get taught by the Prophets grandson. Anways this week was LIt and I LOVE you all muy much. Here's my address thing if u want to bless us with anything. Also 
Elder Bradley Nathan Maynes

09-22 | PER-ARE
2005 N 900 East, Unit #138
Provo UT 84602
United States

1. This  picture next to my classroom I am in love w
2. Elder Nichols who is my favorite
3. My companion sleeping for the 9000 time this week
4. Me and elder mcmullin matching almost exactly 
5. Elder mcmullin asleep idk why I have this 
6. Pic from walking back from the temple
7. Main character moment 
8. My district 

 JACK'S FAMILY PARTY
Jack decided to have his party up in the canyon!  We wanted to be close so that we didn't spend so much time driving, so we chose Mueller Park.  It was a lot of fun.  I made him a kit kat cake and we met up with Steve, Grandpa Hatch and Jo, Grandma Hatch and Simon, and Heidi and her kids.  Nate grilled up the hamburgers and hot dogs.  We had a little fire for roasting marshmallows and it seemed like everyone had a great time!  Jack loved once he changed his attitude about not having Charity, Kelly or Brad there.  9-24-23

JACK'S 11th BIRTHDAY AND FRIEND PARTY
Jack woke up to his amazing sign!!  This was a really good one- Kelly, Erika and I made it.  It was really cool.  His reaction to his sign was priceless and made the hours of work we put into it worth it!  He got to have crepes for breakfast, his favorite, and then took off for school!  He was so understanding about his teacher not remembering his birthday and having all the usual stuff ready to go for him.  He's so patient.  He passed out Rice Krispie Treats at school.  He had to hurry home to get ready for his party!  We were taking him and his five friends up to Pineview for some paddleboarding!  This actually ended up being really fun.  Nate, Sadie and I sat and ate snacks under the canopy while they played in the water for the first hour and then in the sand for the second.  They didn't eat or drink a lot, but I was so happy we had gone overboard and had it to offer.  We could have stayed for another hour, I'm still kicking myself for not making it a longer party.  We got home for some pizza, present opening, cake and ice cream and then running around the house like chickens with their heads cut off.  Ammon and Kayson went home, but Will, Liam and Ross all stayed to play for quite a while.  I think Jack had fun.  He seemed happy and tired afterwards.  We gave him his presents from us once everyone left.  So fun.  9-25-23

SOCCER GAMES
Our first games of the season were good ones!  Everyone won!  Molly had three goals, Erika had three and Noah had two!  Lots of FIIZ when we were done.  We also all had sunburns when we were done.  That's what happens when you purposely sit in the sun to save the shade for people who need it more than you :).  HA!  I was shocked at how burnt my forehead was!  We are looking forward to a fun soccer season.  9-26-23

JACK'S JURASSIC PARK CONCERT WITH GRANDPA HATCH
Grandpa gave Jack a really cool gift- tickets to this big show of Jurassic Park at the Delta Center.  They went together.  Jack said it was a lot of fun, so many dinosaurs.  He got a cool cup and some popcorn there.  I was happy he had some time with Grandpa, just the two of them to hang out.  Sounded pretty cool!  9-26-23

CROSS COUNTRY RACE- NOAH
Noah had his first race of the season.  I didn't get to go, Nate did.  Sounded like Noah did great despite having not really been running a ton the last month and really not worrying about it since it was going to be his base time.  But I am really proud of him!!  He did great!  9-26-23

WARD WALKABOUT
We had the ward walkabout this week.  Pretty fun.  I really enjoyed visiting with so many neighbors.  9-27-23

KELLY'S MOVE TO EPHRAIM
We loaded up Kelly's stuff into the van- her car was full of clothes- and we (Sadie and I in the van, Kelly in her car) drove down to Ephraim.  We had to make a few stops because I drank way too much water trying to stay awake.  But we made pretty good time and then unloaded it all in record time, even onto the third floor!  Devan was a big help of course.  It was fun to see her apartment and have a picture in my mind of where she lives.  But it was a really quick little visit, we turned around and headed back home right away.  On the way home we drove the other way, through Spanish Fork canyon instead of past Payson.  It's a little bit longer but it's the route I'm more familiar with.  I can see the spot where we saw the crashed plane.  I can see the freeway exit that still always reminds me of my road trip with my mom down to Manti to do baptisms for my Laurel Project.  But we got to Orem and met up with Charity for some Chick-fil-a in her work parking lot.  It was really fun to have that time with her and visit for a minute.  Sadie had fun playing "What it is what it is" on repeat for the rest of the drive home.  Fun stuff.  I can't believe my older three kids are all gone again.  This is a hard thing for me and a really hard reality with life.  I feel like it's such a bummer that this is what we are working towards.  We're just raising them so that they can eventually leave.  And while I love that my kids are all able and willing to move on with adult life and doing the things they are doing, it's still SO HARD to say goodbye and know that they will not be slipping in the door in the middle of the night to tell me they are safe and had a fun night.  I miss them so much!!  9-28-23

LUNCH WITH STEVE
Sadie and I got to take Steve to Carls Jr (yep he actually rode in my car) for some lunch!  This was such a nice time.  I loved spending time with him and being able to talk a little.  With interruptions from Sadie every few minutes to see what she was doing on the playground, but she was mostly self entertained.  I miss hanging out with Steve and this outing had total Nana vibes since we were at CJ's.  We need to go out more often.  9-29-23

TALKING TO BRAD
Brad called twice this week.  Once with just Nate and I and Kelly and Charity and then again when the littles were home from school.  It was really good to be able to talk with him.  We were able to talk more because he didn't have his comp with him.  I think things are a little rough for them, not having much in common.  It was so good to see his face and hear about his week.  I am loving his emails every week, he's so funny and so fun to talk to.  Kelly says she's going to keep track of how many times he says volleyball next time we talk.  He sure has loved playing volleyball.  I'm so glad he has that!  Basketball is a little too risky I guess- hurts his ankles every time.  So thankfully he at least has volleyball.  9-29-23

NO SUBJECT
First I would like to apologize that this email is LONGGG. So if you don't want to read it all, skip to the last paragraph and read that if it's the only thing you read in this email. This week FLEW by holy. These days are starting to all merge and I never know what day it actually is. The spirit you feel at the MTC is amazing and there isn't anything like it. The days are all basically the same though. Surprisingly, I am always the first person to wake up out of my room. During home MTC I slept in like every day and was always so tired but I made a goal not to take any naps during the MTC and so far I am going STRONG. I have been able to sleep sooo good at night and it has really helped me fall asleep because I am not even considering the option of sleeping during the day. It reminds me of the scripture Ether 12:27 where God will make our weaknesses our strengths as long as we come unto Christ and show him our weaknesses and be humble, Christ will make our weaknesses our strengths. I have experienced this immensely over the course of the past couple weeks. I'm really loving my district except my district leaders are the BIGGEST hypocrites. Like don't get me started. They'll be so strict and make all these rules such as we can only go to lunch at our assigned time even though it's PACKED at that time, and then they go do laundry not on our laundry day and have people sneak food over the fence to them. Like BRUH. So we definitely called them out but that did nothing other than make them mad at us for some reason. BUT other than that... My district is great! We have some sleepers though and that includes my companion. I started a tally on how many times he falls asleep OUTSIDE of when we're in bed supposed to be asleep and one of the days he got to 9. I am a little worried because that doesn't sound very healthy but usually he only gets around 6. We have played SOOO much volleyball this week. I actually am getting sorta insane at it and we always play with these Polyneseans and they're INSANE. I've gotten very good and end up blocking them a lot of the time along with being able to set quite fantastic I'd say. I even hit the 10 foot line on a lot of my kills which felt pretty good. My district is probably the most athletic district here at the MTC. Something I love about my comp though is he is an AMAZING artist. HE draws a lot of trees and I find it really cool becuase theyre so intricate. He also has very wise input in our discussions which I love


Friday: We started Spanish immersion today AHHHHHH. It was so confusing because we were only allowed to speak in spanish and if we speak english we have to sing "I am a sunbeam" with actions in front of the class while they all video haha. I've been going strong and haven't had to do it yet. I also got to call Jack which was fun because it was his birthday so that was fun and I hope he had THE BEST Birthday. I also got an amazing package from aunt Becky which made my day! It was awesome.

Saturday: To be honest this day wasn't that hype. We played more volleyball and me and Elder Nichols destroyed everyone in spikeball. I got another package today from my family and it was the cutest! It felt like Christmas and now I have an unlimited supply of ramen/ popcorn which is all I need to survive here. 

Sunday: Holy I LOVE sundays here. We do this thing called "Go and Do" where it's basically a 2 hour personal study and for some reason I don't fall asleep nor do I struggle. I receive so much revelation and inspiration through these 2 hours it's insane. Once again we joined the choir and we sang "army of helaman." 

Monday-Tuesday: I got another package and it was a huge bag of skittles and I think I have a problem because I already ate it all... I forgot to write in my journal these days so I can't really remember what happened minus that we had an AMAZING devotional. Elder Godoy spoke and it was the most engaged I have ever been in a talk. He was converted when he was 16 and he talked about how important it is to talk to EVERYONE. You never know how you could affect generations upon generations by just putting a little more effort and talking to that one extra person. People's families and their eternities are what we're here for and we can't take that lightly so we need to put all our effort into reaching out and finding people. 

Spiritual thought: I don't know exactly how I'm supposed to write this but I was just writing stuff that came to mind during my "Go and Do" sunday and this is what I wrote and felt like I needed to include it here haha. Live a life where when you die you can confidently run to Jesus and give him the biggest hug while he wraps his arms around you and says, "you did it! I was cheering you on the whole way." I testify that it is never too late to repent and never too late to serve God and return back to him. Whether you're 10 or 9000 god is always waiting for you to knock at the door. And when you do he will swing it wide open and give you a huge hug. The joy you feel from repentance and the atonement is immeasurable and I promise you that if you are willing to make that first step and knock on the door Christ is there for you and he will let you know. It's never too late and I just want to challenge anyone who made it to the end of this mile long email to find something you can do that will bring you closer to Christ this week and fully commit to it. And I want to hear how it goes for anyone:) I love you guys and love this gospel. This IS christ's church and I have witnessed the truth and importance of this church DAILY. 
Love- Elder Maynes
I hope these pictures worked...
1. I think we thought this looked cool
2. 90% of my camera roll is people sleeping because we post pics of our district asleep on our group chat... so here's my comp asleep during our comp study

MOLLY AND SISTER CLARK
Lisa came over and had her little visit with Molly to talk about her baptism and give her a picture of Jesus and her cute white towel.  Molly was beyond shy the entire time, but was very attentive to Lisa's story about her own baptism and getting dunked a couple times before finally having the older missionary slip and fall on her and push her completely under.  Kind of funny.  Not how Lisa wanted it, but it was cool to hear her testimony about that.  We're getting so excited for Molly's baptism!!  8-30-23

PLAYGROUP
We had our first playgroup in a very long time today.  It was fun.  I think I'm still left wanting when I go to these things, but it was still fun.  Some ladies are a lot.  I think I enjoy them in small doses.  I wish I could visit with some of them more than I get to.  We were at Gailey park this week.  My choice.  Sadie had fun playing with everyone but eventually caved and needed to go on the swings.  She did pretty good.  8-31-23