"You are not here to live a mediocre to average life; you are here to live an amazing life, a miraculous life. If it weren't for your challenges, there would be no miracles. You must do that which seems impossible, for it is only in the impossible that miracles are had." - author unknown, but very respected

Wednesday, November 1, 2023

OCTOBER 2023

GENERAL CONFERENCE WEEKEND
As always, I was very excited for conference this time!!  I wish I'd planned ahead better and prepared myself for how little of it I would get to see live.  We had soccer games that coincided with conference almost all day Saturday.  I was able to listen to the later session during Erika's game, but other than that, we had to play catch up all day.  Which was kind of a challenge for me.  I like watching it with the rest of the world.  BUT that being said, it was a really good conference!!  I LOVED the talks this time!!  So much!!  There was one moment during Erika's game tat I was totally tearing up.  The speaker was talking about how the little things do matter and to just keep being consistent.  Got me thinking about study time.  Really awesome.  We had lots of treats and yummy food to eat and Sunday we had our creamed eggs on toast.  Charity came up for Sunday.  We drove out to Syracuse to see the temple under construction and then to the Layton one to see it with the lights on- SO PRETTY!!  We were really excited to hear Peru is getting two more temples!  It was a great weekend!!  9-30-23--10-1-23

Taught a man that has killed 28 people- Letter from Bradley
This week has actually felt like 800 years long but then all of a sudden it's P day and sooo that's very excitinggg. I'm starting to think I'll be here for 2 transfers because of my Visa but i guess we will see! 

Wednesday: went on an exchange Tuesday night in the SKETCHIEST apartment it was like in the middle of an ally way and the apartment itself is barely functioning. This exchange was definitely making me grumpy cuz I didn't want to because I was comfy in my other apartment BUT I went and it ended up being amazing. It was relieving to be able to talk with people and teach them in English because I could actually understand how they felt and help them yk? We had zone training too and had a role play where we had to teach someone about our "why" for serving a mission. Wellll I didn't think it'd happen but I defintely couldn't get out my why without crying just because of how important it is to me and how much this mission means to me. It really helped me establish my purpose for being here and help me stay positive when I hit low points. Some funny things that happened today was we saw a dude pushing a dumpster on wheels full of his stuff across the street. We taught darmin and had to wipe off hundreds of cigarettes and beer cans to sit at his table haha. 

We then ended up teaching a guy whose killed 28 people because when he was 8 his dad was killed by the cartel so he killed one of them and then the only way to be safe from them was to join them. So after he was in the cartel he escaped to America to be safe. He wants to get baptized but you have to go through the court system in the country it happened in so he'd have to go back to Mexico and the Cartel would find him and kill him so he's decided not to go back which is hard and sad. Kinda crazy though.

Thursday: zone conference was so hype and then afterwards we had COSTA VIDA AHHHH! it was amazing and I had like enough food to feed a family of 6. Awkward moment today was we met these two people and started talking to them. We asked what the lady's name was and she said Ruth or something and then we asked the guy and he just goes "I'm gay✌." And then he walks away. Nothing against gay people but that was very funny. Remember him though.

Friday: we visited Darwin and his family again and taught them some more! They are always so into the lessons and asking a lot of questions. We Invited them to watch conference with us and they said yes!

Saturday: YES CONFERENCE WEEKEND!
Yeah we were supposed to watch it with a recent convert and she said yes but then realized she promised to dog sit sooooo we walked her dog and played pass with her little boy while she listened to it at the park hahaha. Let me tell you this dog was CRAZY! He actually was dragging my comp around and also bit us too many times haha. It was exciting though. We then went and watched conference with the other elders in our district which was so hype and I loveddd the talks in the 2nd session. After that we went and helped these ladies move their stuff into a storage facility thingie. Ended up taking 2 hours and we missed the rest of the last session which was sad but glad we got to help them move. On our way back we saw a dude walking down the street all suspicious but had a gun with his Hoodie draped over it. Very sketch. 

Sunday: this was awkward we kept telling darwin to click the link he sent but he kept saying what's the address and we thought he meant the literally address to the church and not the web address for conference haha. So he didn't get to watch because technology is actually stupid but we went and visited him that night and got to teach him a little bit. His brother and his wife were there and in the middle of our lesson they turned on the LOUDEST show ever and we were like bruhhhhh. But eventually Darwin got mad and told them to turn it off so I'm glad he wants to focus and listen. We watched the first session with our district again which was super hype because we set up the couches and TV in the church and had snacks. I actually love my district they're all the coolest guys. The second session was in spanish because we watched it with some members. I actually got a lot more out of it than I thought I would but it still was a struggle.  Definitely have some listening of talks to do the next few weeks. We ate pozole and it was very new but very good! Definitely would eat it again haha 100% recommend. Then for dinner we ate with this Peruvian family and talked to them about Peru for like 40 minutes. Made me so excited to go there and realize how different it will be from here. Definitely excited though🤞

Monday: Our district decided to do a gratitude fast and so we didn't have lunch or dinner planned on our schedule so we were just going going going alllll day. One of the apartment complexes(we can only do complexes because that's where the Hispanics live haha) but we knocked a ton of doors, no one answered. Then we felt like we should do one last door and so we went over and knocked it... ended up being the gay guy again hahahah. His name is Alberto and he's actually very nice but definitely wanted us to leave. I've learned God has a good sense of humor hahaha. ALSO yk how I was saying I'm bulking??? Wellll turns out I haven't gained a single pound since I left 2 months ago. Kinda sucks but I also have been running a couple miles everyday which is probably more than I was during cross country cuz I was always broken. 

Anyways this was long and I apologize buttt Saturday is my birthdayyy and Friday is my comps birthday so this week is gonna be so excitinggg. I love you guys and want the best for all of you.

Spiritual thought: I want everyone even if you aren't sure what it is but write down your conversion story. What was or is the reason you choose Christ's church and to stand as an example of him at all times. Even just writing down why you do it makes it have so much more of an emphasis in your life and helps you understand it better. It can be a story or experience or even just a couple sentences. I promise that as you do this you will feel the spirit and will feel there love God has for you as his child. 

1. My amazing pants my mom got me and then a shirt my bestie kenzie sent me
2. The same
3. A pretty bridge 
4/5. Me and my comp driving for the 1000 time
6. The dog we got to watch that was crazy
7. @Victor Chavez
8. In the car again 

TEMPLE TUESDAY WITH KELLY AND I
Kelly and I got to go to the temple on Tuesday.  Thanks to my mom for watching Sadie.  The temple was packed!  We were on the boys' side in the very back- so that was different.  But it was a really good session.  I was so happy we went!  We stopped for Mo'Bettas on the way home.  10-3-23

ELDER MAYNES
We got to talk to Bradley again this week.  We did another group video chat.  We want to split it up next call.  But it was nice to talk to him.  It felt like he was doing a little better from last week.  Still adjusting of course.  We liked hearing about all the crazy people he runs into and being able to laugh with him.  Hopefully he's doing well.  10-3-23

LUNCH DAY/PRIEST FEAST
Nate fed all the youth again today.  It was a really big group, but they didn't even eat all the teriyaki chicken Nate had slaved over :).  It's always so fun to have them all here- I think it's the highlight of the week for Nate.  He had another job he was also working on while they were here, but he loves all the positive feedback they give for sure.  10-4-23

BRAD'S BIRTHDAY PACKAGE
We made some really big signs for Brad and his comp (Elder Adams' birthday is the day before his) and I packaged them up with some candy, an "it's my birthday" pin, some punching balloons and some beef jerky.  For some reason this was hard to get out on time, hopefully he gets it before Saturday.  10-4-23

PARENT/TEACHER CONFERENCES
We had conferences this week.  We went to Molly's first with Mrs. Lindsey.  This was a great conference!  Molly is doing so well!  It's fun to hear how much Mrs. Lindsey loves her and appreciates having her in class.  She is such a good girl!  And SO smart!!  We went to Jack's next with Mrs. Halm and Mrs. Beuhner.  His went really well also!  Lots of good things to hear about Jack and the progress he is making.  I'm so happy to hear he is getting along with everyone in class and being such a good student.  They both got to pick out books from the book fair after.  10-4-23

KELLY
Kelly has been here all week because Devan is recovering from his hand surgery.  It's been really nice to have her here even if it isn't just for us :).  We actually got a lot of time with her!  I only wish I was better at feeding her.  She helped me make red velvet cupcakes with pink and blue frosting for Stori's birthday/volleyball and we ate my weird salad together.  10-5-23

PARENT TEACHER CONFERENCE DINNER
I went out on a limb this time and did Panda Express for the teachers.  I am not sure how they liked it.  There was MORE than enough food for all of them though- I was shocked at how much was leftover!  I won't get double orange chicken again.  But at least they didn't run out of food.  I think it went okay.  It was nice to have Erika's company and  help picking up the food and then Nate saved the day meeting us there to set up.  Noah showed up too which was fun.  Then having Molly and Sadie with me when I cleaned up was equally fun.  I like making it a family affair :).  10-5-23

DATE NIGHT
This week we went to Aubergine Kitchen for dinner- I needed it to be something pretty clean for this "Metaclean" thing I'm trying out.  Then we went and saw Creator the movie.  It was strange.  I was entertained but also distracted by all the possible agendas.  I wish I could turn that off sometimes.  But Nate and I had a good time!!  Always good to spend time together.  10-6-23

LAST SOCCER GAMES
We had our last games of the season this week.  Noah's team did awesome.  It was an early game, so just Nate and I were there to watch, but Noah played so well!  Raegan Caldwell showed up and sat and talked to us while we watched- she's adorable.  It was fun to talk with her.  Then Erika and Molly had their games at the same time.  Kelly and I went to Erika's.  Nate took the little girls and Jack to Molly's.  We were in the middle of our call with Bradley at the beginning of the games.  Erika scored while we were talking to Brad and he wanted us to take the phone out to her so that he could tell her good job :).  She played so well!  It was so sad when she got slammed into, mid-jump and landed on her hand.  Hurt pretty bad.  We're waiting til Monday to find out if there's a break.  She couldn't resist going back in for the last five minutes of the game and trying to score- she almost did again like three times!!  Molly scored in her game also!!  So I think this season was a success.  10-7-23

HAPPY 19TH BIRTHDAY ELDER MAYNES
We're still not sure where his package is- hopefully it wasn't stolen.  But we got to text Brad and talk to him on his birthday!!  That was exciting!  He had been telling me about his excema and so we talked about that quite a bt, back and forth and then he informed us that he was going to be able to call!  Luckily we were able to get most of us on the call- he was in such a good mood and sounded so happy!!  Minus that his comp was sleeping- like all day!  All of the Elders in his room were sleeping during personal study, so he sent us a video of that.  He was just in a really up beat mood for all the weird things that were happening.  I was proud of him.  He's had a good week.  He got to go on exchanges with the Zone leader and he just boosted him up and gave him lots of praise and compliments.  I thought that was pretty cool.  He just sounded really good.  I liked that we got a mid-week call too :).  I hope he gets his package someday.  Til then.  I think we might door dash him some food Monday.  10-7-23

FOOD TO BECKY
Family meeting was cancelled, but we needed something to go and do.  So we went on a little drive to Becky's to take her the food she's ordered and I sure got a scare.  I am pretty good at remaining calm and mostly I just had prepared myself for the worst, but what a happy moment when I barged in and saw Becky just chilling in her chair, awakened from a nap.  I mean, I felt a little bad at that point, but at least she was okay.  We got to chat with her for a minute, Erika, Molly, Sadie and I.  It was nice.  10-8-23

ERIKA'S BRACES
She did it!!  She finally got them off!  We are so happy for her!!  She looks beautiful still!!  It's not as exciting for her because I guess the "rigid" retainer she has to wear 24/7 for the next month is not comfy at all and feels a lot like wearing braces.  So that's a bummer, but just one more month of that.  She got to eat her blueberry popcorn and that made her happy :).  She'll be really happy to chew gum again in a month too.  10-9-23

ZERO FATALITIES WITH NOAH
I've lost count of how many times I've been to this, and we only caught the last fifteen minutes because Noah was working til 6:30, but I really do love how they do it.  I love the reminders and being urged to be more careful when we drive.  Everyone needs to do that.   Noah will have to get the notes from someone, but I think he still got credit.  Kinda bummed he didn't get more of it, but whatever.  10-9-23

FHE
Nate taught us about the reaction the Lord had with the woman taken in adultery.  We talked a lot about His compassion but also the fact that he doesn't ever pretend it wasn't a sin and affirm her actions.  He told her he forgave her and told her to sin no more.  Pretty cool example.  Then we played bananagrams for my game and Luke didn't want a treat so we had Oatmeal Creme Pies from the storage room.  Kinda funny night- everyone was really tired.  Then at the end, Molly suddenly woke up from her FHE nap and was squeezing her neck and looking a little green.  She really needed to throw up, so I told her to head upstairs and do it in the toilet.  Well, she ran ALL the way upstairs to my bathroom.  She stood there for quite a while, not wanting to throw up.  She kept squeezing her neck.  Then she just decided she didn't need to anymore, she went to bed and slept all night.  No throw up.  Kinda weird.  We're not sure what that was all about.  Nate said she had eaten a whole pizza (one of his homemade ones) and she said it was only two slices, but she also said she didn't eat breakfast and only a little lunch, so it could be a combo.  Either way- I was very relieved we hadn't hopped on the throwing up train that seems to last too long and make a stop at everyone.  Interesting evening.  10-9-23

OOPS
Nate stayed home today to work on the yard- and he actually worked on it basically all day.  Around 1:00 we set out to get me some food and Sadie some chicken stars and it wasn't until we were sitting in the Carls Jr. drive thru with a sleeping Sadie that it hit me I was missing Erika's doctor appointment to go have her arm looked at!!  Her appointment was at 2:00.  It was then 2:03 and I was fifteen minutes out.  So luckily, Luke was home, he went and picked up Erika and took her to the doctors office for me.  We actually just planned to meet her there, and surprisingly Nate and I made it there first!  Which, if we had had to stop and get her would have been another 15 minutes, so Luke really saved the day!  I hate it when I forget things like this!!  10-10-23

ERIKA'S WRIST
Dr. Woods was so nice- we really like him- and talked a lot about the different breaks from falling the way she did.  Then sent her off for an x-ray.  Then surprisingly announced that everything looked good!  Just a sprain!!  THANK GOODNESS!!  I think for Erika this took a minute to appreciate- it's been hurting so much, I think she was pretty convinced it was broken, but once she realized she would only have to wear the brace a little- she was more relieved.  She even played in her concert that night!  10-10-23

ELDER MAYNES PHONE CALL
We got to talk to Brad for quite a while this week!  The connection wasn't the greatest and we were trying to do the group call again.  Kinda crazy.  But it's always so good to see him and hear what he's doing.  He seems so much happier these days.  We were on the phone when the door dash guy couldn't find his building and learned that he gave us the wrong address.  Which explains why the birthday package didn't get to him.  Such a bummer, but also really good to know now.  He enjoyed his sweet pork burrito and chips and queso and I'm not sure he will give the other burrito to Elder Adams or not- haha!  Funny kid.  But I'm happy we got to do that for him.  Just wish it could have been on his actual day.  We ended our call with him as we walked over to the Hills for the walkabout.  It's going to be a long week waiting for our next call this time- after getting the extra birthday call on Saturday.  That's okay- we're tough!  10-10-23

WARD WALKABOUT
These are so fun.  I wish I could have participated just a little more.  I got to talk with Dolores and Michelle for a minute about Tim Ballard and then Steve called- which he rarely does- so I answered.  Then the rest of the walkabout, I was talking with him about how he can't control anyone else and that he shouldn't think he could influence someone's day to be better just because he wants it to happen.  It was an interesting call.  He's going to focus on thinking about himself more.  Then we rushed home to get in the car and head off to Erika's concert.  10-10-23

ERIKA'S CONCERT
We were so lucky we made it to her part of the concert- Erika looked great up there, even with her wrist brace on.  They sounded great!  We got to see the maraca "dance off" she had told me about earlier- it was interesting.  She wasn't thrilled with it and I could see why, but very interesting.  They played a few songs and then they were done.  Molly was so disappointed that it was done when we left.  Too short for her I guess.  Good job Erika!  10-10-23

PANTS
Noah needed some pants pretty urgently tonight so we just jumped in the car 8:00- picked up Erika from her concert real quick- and then went down to Ross for some late night shopping.  He found one pair that fit.  We were glad about that.  We will need to go get some more soon.  I had to lecture him about saying sorry.  And maybe I should have said sorry for yelling about him just looking in the dryer.  Maybe I will still.  It was actually a fun time with Erika and Noah- cuties.  We had left Jack in charge, so I was happy to see everyone still alive and well when we got home.  He's pretty capable, just not 12 yet :).  You know me.  But all was well.  We said prayer and went to bed!  10-10-23

"BIRTHDAY BOY"- LETTER FROM BRAD
To start off this week was crazyyy. We had like 5+ lessons everyday and most of them went through! I'm starting to LOVE Portland and love the people here. The diverseness in everyone is what makes it so exciting haha. One second we are talking to a pastor from the church of Albuquerque New Mexico and then the next second there's a naked old man in the middle of an intersection. Needless to say it's an exciting place. I've heard so many things about how scary it is but I know God would never let anything to happen to his missionaries so I've been very comfortable and content with being here and the gunshots every couple nights. I am starting to realize why I was needed to be reassigned here because HOLY Portland Oregon is an obedient mission. I heard it used to be the most disobedient and one of the worst in the pacific North West but then they had a "shafting"(not sure what that means)and basically the mission president told everyone that they were going to change and if they weren't on board they could start packing their stuff. Now its one of the most obedient and diligent missions and everyone holds eachother accountable. I have learned to live and love the standards and have noticed the blessings that come from following them. We have been able to find so many people that are willing to hear the gospel and learn more. Oh and it's also one of the few missions that still have their own social media because they're so efficient with it. Sadly I have to get my social media "verified" sooo I can't post anything until then. BUT on the bright side I made a caption for the profile picture I was going to use and usually for greenies it's a huge process buttt apparently I was able to get it verified in one try haha. My district says if I were to be here permanently they would put me on the official social media team or whatever that means haha. Kinda exciting though. 

Anyways I can already tell this is boutta be a little long so I apologize my friends.

Tuesday- P day went to the Columbia employee store and the church bought us a special pass or whatever where you get 50% off on everything and so I bought some COZY jackets and so that was very exciting. I now feel like a teddy bear. Definitely one of my greatest investments. We play a lot of basketball and Holy my entire zone is somehow all insane and a few of them are playing in college after the mission so it's actually so fun. When I first started the mission and found out Pday wasn't a whole day I was furious haha. Why would we call it P day if we don't get to have it the entire day. But there is work to do. We have a Winco nearby so we go shopping there a lot which is actually the best. 

Wednesday: today was hard. I had a major headache for half the day and then the other half was spent on the toilet. I'm pretty sure the street tacos we tried to make for lunch weren't cooked all the way so I was extremely sick today. Not much happened.

Thursday: today was miserable as well because I had a migrane and couldn't function and definitely couldn't understand any spanish. Somehow it stopped for a sec and we were able to teach Darwin and Erika again, they're from Venezuela and my absolute favorite. We met this Jewish lady who wanted to talk about the church. Eventually was enraged because we didn't get to travel Oregon so she was going to call our supervisor. She also invited us to read this book so I made a deal with her that I'll read her book if she reads the book of Mormon. She definitely isn't gonna read it and i already forgot what her book was. She told us where all the good food was though so that was exciting. While we were teaching Darwin and Erika we met these pastors for the Church of Albuquerque.(not sure I'd that's how you spell it but my phone autocorrects to that) they were funny but very nice.

Friday: we went on exchanges and AHHH I LOVE EXCHANGES! English speaking was such a relief and I got to teach 6 lessons with some friends. It was very different because our zone leader was with me so he was trying to get me to challenge myself and so what he was meaning was he's gonna have me do 80% of the teaching. I was terrified but eventually got very good at it and it was a relief to really understand their needs and what they needed. We went to a mental health institution to teach a guy and it was wacko. Some of the people there are absolutely terrifying. He also challenged me to eat a pepper he found. Turns out it was the hottest thing and I was crying for like 20 minutes it was awful. Definitely don't recommend. Also today was my comps bday.

Saturday: BIRTHDAY HOORAY
Today was hype because it was my birthday obviously. I got to call my family and I ended up getting to talk to them all morning because my comp slept until 1230. I was actually so annoyed because I feel so unproductive and wasteful of our time but it was nice to talk to my family again. I eventually forced him to get outside and it was really good!we taught a few lessons and found a few new people too. I also LOVED the birthday wishes and if you didn't it's not too late.  JOKING HAHAA  Definitely was such a good birthday though. We celebrated that night and got to eat at a members house and it was this cutie Lil old couple that couldn't hear so we had to yell the whole time. 

Sunday: church and our friends Darwin and Erika came!!!! It seriously made me soooo happy. Darwin walked in and waved to me because I was on the stand for sacrament. At our ward we have a translater so they all have headphones in and one of the members will translate it into Spanish for them so we do the sacrament prayer in English and Spanish which is really cool. Anyways after sacrament I went to go talk with Darwin and he legit shoot my hand and then gave me a hug. I love him hahahah. I also finally got the workout bands out because I'm tired of only doing pushups so I will be jacked 6 months from now. Oh also haha funny story this old lady Clara was talking to us. Somehow we got to the topic of husband and she goes "well I am still looking," as she tugs on my suit HAHAHAH. So now Clara is hitting on me. 

Monday: ighty today was roughhhh. My Spanish was struggling and my patience was at an all time low. I wanted to punch my comp and I was just struggling so much haha. Eventually It chilled out but it was a rough moment. Today was longgg because we had 7 lessons and so we were just hopping in between lessons. And my Spanish was a struggle so my comp kinda took over and that was sad because I still need the practice. Anyways I'm done complaining and I love you all.

I've decided I'm a chef and take pictures of the food I make even when it sucks haha. So here's some random photos and I'm sure you can all tell what's in them and what they are. 

Also I love all the emails and even though I can't respond to them all I love reading them so feel free haha. Love you all have a good Tuesday night.  10-17-23

CORNBELLY'S TAKE ONE- PACK FARM
Heidi and I had a fun day all planned out to go down to Cornbelly's with the little girls and then surprisingly, when Heidi got there, she found out it didn't open until 4:00.  There was no way of waiting til 4:00 so we drove back up here to Farmington and went to the Pack Farm instead.  Sadie and Alyssa had plenty of fun here!  They played in the corn pit, the zip line, the barrel rolling- once I convinced Sadie that it was fun, the ducks in the the water, we looked at pumpkins, went on the big tall slide a million times, they got to go on the train together, and the maze.  It was a pretty fun afternoon.  I was glad we found something they loved instead!  10-17-23

MORNINGSIDE
Luke and Noah got themselves up and ready for the morningside all by themselves this late start morning!  Caught me off guard for sure, but I am so proud of them!!  10-18-23

DATE WITH NOAH
We had had Panda for our lunch day so Noah chose Chick-fil-a instead.  We had a lot of time to just sit and talk as it took them a half hour to get our order to us.  Well, it was really only a few minutes once I went back up and gave them my receipt.  But we were fine with the wait.  The food was good, we got to talk a lot.  I was so glad.  I am so proud of Noah and all that he stands for and is.  He's such a good kid!  We went to Smith's after for some off brand/on brand foods for his YM activity.  10-18-23

LUNCH WITH GRANDPA HATCH
We had our usual lunch date, my dad and I, but since the kids were out of school, we decided to go to Carls Jr. and bring them all along :).  It ended up being a lot of fun.  Sadie and Molly got to play the whole time and the rest of us visited with Grandpa and looked at his Ireland pictures.  Looked like a fun trip!  Good stuff!  10-19-23

BEAR LAKE WITH THE MAYNES FAMILY
We have not been to Bear Lake with Nate's family in a while so we were really excited for this trip.  Charity and Kelly were able to come with us which was a fun surprise.  
DAY 1- Thursday, we packed up and had everything ready to go when Nate got off work at 3:00.  He loaded up the car and we were off.  We stopped at Jersey Mike's on the way there.  Their gluten free bread wasn't too bad.  We got to our condo in good time, got everything unloaded from the car and then went over to Grandma's to visit for a minute.  Then we made our way over to the pool for some swimming.  Everyone was having a lot of fun at the pool so we stayed for quite a while.  We had snacks and watched tv when we got back.  
DAY 2- Friday, we got up early to go swim while Nate was fishing with Noah.  We got back and went over to grandma's for some puzzles and prizes :).  She has really been loving these puzzles and rewarding the kids for beating them.  This was the day I talked with Nancy and Dan for quite a while.  Very enjoyable.  Not sure if I agree with Nancy on the boy mom things, but we'll see how it goes.  That evening we met up with everyone at Firehouse pizza.  I use the term "met up with" lightly, because we got there a few minutes after everyone and they were all seated in one area, we got the other area- all to ourselves, which in some ways was really awesome :).  We had a lot of fun talking and laughing together.  We got the yummy cordon bleu pizza and some pepperoni, some cheese bread and artichoke dip.  We ended it all off with some F'zookies!!  So delicious!  It's been a while since we had those.  We came back to our "special place" and went swimming again!  This was a fun night for swimming too.  We could not get enough of the pool :).  
DAY 3- Saturday morning I got up kind of early to go take pictures of Rachel.  She had made arrangements and asked if I would do Senior pictures while we were up there.  We found some really beautiful spots just around the resort which was fun.  I was happy to have Kelly's help with these and Nate as well.  After that we went over to Grandma's for some more puzzles and games.  Nate took Erika and the little girls over to the lake to look for "sheshells" and I got to play Secret Hitler with all the big kids.  This was a highlight for me!  It was interesting spending that time together.  I'm way too trusting, I learned.  But had so much fun!!  Then we all took a break for lunch, played some more and then went out to play some sand volleyball!!  SO MUCH FUN!!  Nate came back and joined us- which was awesome.  It was cool to have Jack playing all the big kid games and learning to serve and getting so much praise and support from all the big kids.  We had River, Rachel, Miles, Charity, Kelly, Luke, Noah, Erika, Jack, Me and Nate all playing for at least an hour before it was time to go to Coopers.  We had so much fun.  Then it was time for Coopers.  This was not a highlight for Nate or me.  We got there, stood in the doorway for about 15 minutes.  Then they seated us.  This was awkward.  The first two tables got filled up- one with the fun big kids- I was really wishing we could have sat with them, but I also like it when they get time to themselves.  They did a fun game with their phones and not using them the ENTIRE TIME!  Pretty amazing!  So we walked over to where Jen was about to sit down, Sadie, Molly and I were headed over there, I thought Nate was following me, but then as I was pulling out a chair for me, a bunch of adults (Nancy, Rob, Heather, etc) all came and took up all the other seats- so there wasn't any room for Sadie or Molly.  So I was basically booted off the island.  I walked back over toward Nate, where he and Jack had found their own table.  We sat down with them and had our own little table together.  Which was fine- I like sitting with Nate and my kids, but also a little bit lame that we weren't able to visit with anyone else.  Nate was bugged too.  It was strange.  We had fun talking though and tried to make the most of it.  After sitting there for about an hour and a half, we started to wonder where our food was.  They had sat and fed and cleaned up after several people while we were still sitting there, not getting our food, so the hangry-ness was setting in.  They started bringing food to all the other tables.  Even skipping our little kids which was strange.  And then at 6:58 finally brought some of our food.  That was when they asked me again what I had ordered.  Wow.  I honestly couldn't remember.  We were annoyed beyond annoyed.  So strange!!  So after two hours of waiting we finally got our food.  It was good, but I don't know if it was two hour wait good.  Plus, everyone else had finished eating and were kind of swarming our table and watching us eat and offering words of wisdom like, "You're in that stage of life..."  Yeah, which stage of life? The one where we're the outcasts in the family who get booted off any table with other adults?  Or the stage where we sit and listen to your dumb advice and you watch us eat?  Sorry.  I was annoyed.  It was super funny when Jen asked Sadie for a fry, she said no, then Jen asked for this tiny burnt looking one and Sadie offers up the tiniest crumb on her plate!  We all got a good laugh about that.  Once the torture of eating at Coopers was over, we all went over to the pool!  This was really fun because all the cousins and everyone came.  We played with the volleyball for quite a while before finally hurting some strangers and deciding it was time to be done.  It was a really fun evening!  We came back and watched movies all night.  
DAY 4- Sunday, we had creamed eggs on toast for breakfast- thanks Nate!  Said our goodbyes to Charity.  And then quickly got ready for church.  We listened to most of Reagan's homecoming talk on Zoom, before it cut off, and then went to the "Visitor Branch" for Sacrament Meeting. This was actually a really cool experience.  A whole room full of chairs (no pews, Kelly says it felt like a barn), and people on vacation.  It was run by a Branch President and a bunch of missionaries.  We got to watch the Idaho Mayneses pass the sacrament and then listened to a bunch of strangers give talks!  We got to hear from the sister of Coach Porter from the Chiefs football team- pretty cool.  It was a great meeting.  I loved it!  
When we got back to our "Special Space" we all took a nap!  So nice!  While we were all sleeping, Sadie and Molly and Jack were out on the playground.  I can't believe they played on the playground for two hours!!  So amazing!!  At 4:00 we all started getting up and got ready to go drive up the St. Charles canyon to take some pictures of Hunter.  He also wanted some Senior Photos.  Kinda fun.  We enjoyed the drive and looking at the scenery.  It was fun to hang out with Jared's family.  Then when we got home, we ate our yummy pot roast and potatoes and then had Jared, Paulette and Hunter over for games.  Well, one game really.  Two rounds of Triple Agent and then we sat and listened to Jared :).  He's funny.  The kids loved hearing his side of all of Nate's stories.  Fun stuff.  The peep hole from the stairs to the boys' room growing up was probably my favorite part.  Or the red and green flag.... HA!!  DAY 5- Monday, Nate got up with the littles and took them swimming while I showered, made breakfast and started getting things cleaned up to go.  We got packed up and loaded in the car just in time for the 10:00 check out!!  Miraculously really!  I was grateful for everyone's help.  We did good.  We stopped at the Creamery for some ice cream in Logan- Kelly invited Cam- and then we went to Panda for some lunch.  We had our priorities straight.  We said goodby to Cam and drove the rest of the way home.  It was nice to get home.  We were able to relax and veg for the rest of the evening.  Funny quotes from our family group text:  
"I've been farting all day and in the car"
"Kelly doesn't sleep with people"
"Yeah I am noticing the absence of a sink..."
"Yeah wild cracks!!"
"I just breathed in and there it was"
"Can we go to our Ssspecial Ssspace and get our swim suits on?"
"Easy peasy mac and cheesy"
"I thought that was my brain crunching"
10-19-23--10-23-23

FHE
We had a really awesome lesson from Molly about how we can make our home a more holy place and watched a cool video.  Then we played Hide-and-seek for Sadie's game and went to Crumbl for Nate's treat.  So fun!  10-23-23

BRENT CALLED
I was so happy to see Brent's picture when my phone rang today.  I hadn't heard back from him after he and his family saw Brad so I was happy to see I hadn't offended him afterall.  He was so sweet and wanted me to know what a special experience that was when he saw Brad.  Made my day.  And it was fun to hear that he was so happy and that Brad had included the kids and was just really fun to visit.  So great.  I hope they get to go up there again and see him. I think it meant a lot to Brad too.  10-24-23

PHONE CALL WITH ELDER MAYNES
We went all day hoping he'd call before the evening because we needed to go to Cornbelly's for Heidi's birthday party that night, but he ended up calling right as we were leaving.  Which was still kind of nice because we got to talk to him while we were driving down there.  It was a long drive with the traffic.  He was really talkative and we all had fun listening to his stories about his spider and his banter with his roommates.  It sounded like a rough week with Darwin and Erika splitting up and not responding to them.  But he still sounded really upbeat.  We loved it when he was talking about the 10 year old who is "extremely artistic- with a hard R" HA!!  I wanted to be able to talk to him alone a little, but I haven't had that in a while.  Kind of hard, but I'm trying to be a go along girl.  He found out from his President that his visa has not come through yet, so he has another six weeks in Portland I guess.  He said he's "comfy" so it's all good.  10-24-23

LETTER FROM BRADLEY- WE HAVE 2 APARTMENT PETS NOW
Okkkk so this week was kind of a downer. We had like 80% of our appointments and contacts fall through. Kinda a bummer. We still managed to make this week exciting though so I enjoyed it. Also I realized I worded my visa information wrong... I found out yesterday I'm not going to Peru this transfer sooo hopefully I'll go December 15-ish. Which is still very exciting because I love Portland so much. Also I'm pretty sure no one reads these so thankyou for those that read them I hope they bless you haha. 

Tuesday: Elder Nielsons mom sent us pizza which was scrumptioussss. We met a lot of strange people and one of these guys wanted to preach to us his "philosophy" so we talked for a minute and he went on and on and eventually started going against himself and we just let him keep going. Eventually, he taught himself haha. He proved his own theory wrong and eventually was like "yk what nevermind." Which was kinda funny. Every P day we play a lottt of basketball and volleyball which is always so fun.

Wednesday:
Me and elder Adam's got in a little fight sorta but then eventually made up which was so good because our lessons that didn't go through today were sooo goood!! We met a Peruvian family and they love us and kept giving us food and juice. I love them so much now. We talked a lot about Peru with them which made me very excited. Uhhh later tonight was bad. I let elder Adam's trim my hair. NOT A GOOD IDEA. He messed up. Terribly. So then our ZL came over and got mad that we let elder Adam's touch the clippers soooo we had to put an 8 on and just cut it all off. It looked like a puff ball but it's whatever. 

Thursday: our ZL came over and "fixed it" but now I have this super nasty fade and now the back of my head is naked. While tracting today we found a piggy bank duck thing by a dumpster so I had to collect it of course. So now I have a cutie little pet friend on my desk. We gave him some tattoos and sun glasses as well. We also started collecting other stuff because St. Johns has this thing where they leave stuff they don't want on their porch so people can have it. Soooo we have some random stuff. My family sent me a package for my birthday. I don't know what happened to it until today it showed up!! It was adorable and they made a cutie little sign for me and then one for my comp! We also helped a lady move her stuff today for a few hours 

Friday: we helped the same woman move her stuff into a storage unit. There was this one random guy there that was trying to teach us "alien doctrine" and his car was covered in tin foil. He called it his spaceship and said he's been abducted... I thought that only happened in movies but there are people that say that in real life somehow. We met a Lady from Utah that isn't a member but wanted to say hi because she's from Utah which was fun. We accidentally interrupted a drug deal. There were these islanders who didn't speak spanish and spoke little English. Then man with them that only speaks Spanish and no English haha. So we asked who he was and they just say a "close friend" when they can't even speak to him. OH and we accidentally knocked on one of the homeless ladies that we met at the intersection by our apartment. We always give her water and she proceeds to flirt with us. But apparently she can pay for her rent by standing on the street somehow. OH AND we found a dumpster with a couple rats that always ran out from under it so we wanted to see how many would run out. WE COUNTED 27 RATS UNDER THIS DUMPSTER THAT RAN OUT. This is after a bunch ran out as we walked towards it. It was absolutely nasty but kinda cool how the rats could fit under there. We also caught a GIANT spider and put it in a jar and now it sits on our kitchen counter and we put a couple flies in there every once in a while.

Saturday: today I was a grumpy child for the first part. I feel bad for my comp cuz I was just pouting. We met a Budhist woman who taught us a little bit about Buddhism and them we tried teaching about the book of mormon and a scripture that literally said the same stuff she was teaching us and she says ,"whatever makes you happy." Then proceeded to say how climate change is more important than religion. If anyone can tell me what it is about climate change because I would like to understand why. We went to a yummy Mexican restaurant with the bishop today which was so hype. I have become the guy everyone asks for help with their captions somehow so that's exciting. I convinced the sisters to buy me a fanny back from the Columbia store so now I have a fanny pack and it's now my best friend. 

Sunday: THUMBS DOWN. We made it to church and none of our friends showed up. 2 of them have covid, 3 ghosted us, Darwin and Erika didn't text us til 4 and a family had to work so it was lame. We didn't get a lunch because we were at church for so long. There was this woman that came and proceeded to say how she's God's wife, and that she heals people she sees on the street. A lot more but she was crazyyyy. And then the bishop came and she SWITCHED. Like i don't know how but she just swapped personalities. Eventually Darwin answered with a voice memo and said he has a "problem that involves his documents." We got scared he was deported or something. Eventually we knocked on a random door and Erika answered! She was at her cousins house so we asked what happened and apparently Darwin hit her or sum sooo they are seperated now and we haven't been able to get a hold of Darwin. We were about to put them on date which is sad how the devil can influence people so much. Also not sure what rules are on what I can say in emails butttt I'm sure none of you guys know these people or ever will sooooo oh well. Today we met Chinese, Buddhists, Muslims, islanders, and some people who spoke African dialects. Kind of a crazy day.

Monday: we had DC prep today and then visited out friend Saulo who owns a food truck for lunch. He's so elect! And everytime we see him he lights up. Whenever we ask him how reading the scriptures and praying was he gets so excited and happy so I'm hoping we can keep teaching him. We knocked a lot of doors and there's a whole lot a catholics here grrrr. We brought Angie who is a recent convert with us while we visited Graciela. WENT SO GOOD. They're besties now and Gracielas son is 10 and his artistic abilities are better than I've ever seen before. He's absolutely insane. I'm gonna challenge him to draw me a self portrait. Mondays are actually the best because we call it P-eve and it's basically a holiday for us. We celebrate by playing card games or listening to random talks haha. 

Tuesday: today was hype. We played basketball again, surprise surprise. I think.i broke my finger cuz its huge and swollen so I shall keep yall updated. Last night my comps snoring sounded like a chainsaw and I was so close to sleeping on the kitchen table. If anyone wants to send us food I will be overjoyed to send me address but I'm also kidding so it's okay. I have pics from when we went to the temple but its the worst filter ever and idk why they used one so it won't be going here.

Spiritual thought:
I'm giving a talk next Sunday and the topic is "everyone needs the gospel" I need some ideas so I'll give it to you guys to give me some insight.

I love the emails and remember who you are and what you stand for 

I only have pics of this duck. I am sorry mom I will try to take more pics next week. 
10-24-23


CORNBELLY'S
We finally made it down to Cornbelly's with Heidi!  We actually took the younger kids (no Charity, Kelly, Brad, Luke or Noah) and Grandpa Hatch along with Heidi and her kids to celebrate Heidi's 40th!  It was a lot of fun!  We played with everything we could!  Wandered around and tried everything.  The big slide was a big hit.  We made it over to the "hayride" and some more doddling, climbing on tractors every few steps, lots of fun!  Then it was time to fill our tummies with some overpriced amazing fries and subpar corndogs.  It was a fun night.  I was really glad we went.  It was good time with everyone and something different.  10-24-23

PUMPKIN CARVING
We had so much fun carving pumpkins this year!  Felt really laid back and chill most of the time.  We all went and picked out pumpkins at Bowman's this year.  Had lots of different options on sizes and colors.  We went inside to get some smaller ones for Molly's Fly Guy pumpkin project and then Sadie wanted one as well.  We had to pick out a "big and round" one for Charity too.  It was a fun stop.  Grabbed some more pumpkin knives and scoopers.  We also grabbed some pizza for dinner.  Everyone seemed to have fun and got into it.  Charity found THE PERFECT design for hers online and nailed it.  I seriously loved her attitude this year- so fun!  Not to mention we got to hear all about her latest crush and all the details of every interaction together.  Then he called and asked her to come hang out with a group to see a movie.  She was so funny, "I'm not going to be lame and just leave early- I said I'm leaving at 9:00, I'll leave then." and then "Mom said I can leave early so I'm going to!"  HAHA!!  Funny girl.  Kelly wasn't able to come up because she had the date wrong on her calendar.  We missed her.  Brad.  He would have had fun and we all thought about him while we were carving.  Luke quietly carved a very cool design, using all different techniques from our Halloween War days.  His looked amazing!  Noah got very creative as well.  Luke and Noah both are opening up a bunch lately and really stepping up to the big kid role in a lot of situations.  It's been a new, fun dynamic.  Erika was fun as well.  She seemed pretty decisive this year- not too much deliberation and did a great job!  Jack was a lot of fun- he added an apple to his design, looked really cool.  He's very creative.  Molly did hers mostly on her own!  I was really proud of her.  I think she had a little help from Nate, but overall got way into it.  I did help her with scooping.  That's not her favorite.  Sadie had help from Nate and then I ended up carving hers basically for her.  She picked the design, that was all.  She is four though, so I think that's okay :).  Nate, as always, wowed us with his abilities.  His looked awesome!  And mine went from a MIkey design to something completely different, and way different than I usually do, because I messed up on the eye.  It was fine.  I didn't really care too much this year for some reason.  We had a great time though!  I love this tradition and I'm glad the kids love it.  10-26-23

DATE NIGHT
We had to hurry this week because of the Maughan's Haunted Forest so we just went to Sushi Monster.  It was strangley packed and took a lot longer than usual, but we had a great time!  Sat really close to the table next to us, but it was fine :).  So grateful for our dates!!  10-27-23

HAUNTED FOREST
Everyone loved the forest this year.  It was way colder than I thought it was, only wore my hoodie- only thing that fits at the moment anyway, but who's counting- I was cold!  Should have stood by the fire.  But it was fun to chat with everyone.  I loved Sadie's tour through the forest- she kept reminding me that everything was fake and then we got to Jack in a wolf mask and she was suddenly really freaked out!  It was so cute.  Luckily he pulled off the mask and she could see it was him.  Then we carried on as if nothing had happened :).  She's funny.  10-27-23

STAKE CONFERENCE
We had a good stake conference this time.  I was able to go to a little of the adult session.  I forgot about it so I was a little late, sat by Krista Johnson which was awesome and then got a text from Noah asking me to drive him and his friends to a haunted house, so I had to leave early.  (Which by the way- Noah's idea of a half hour is much longer than mine.  I sat in my not heated van for about an hour and a half waiting for him and his friends at a haunted house up on the hill in Bountiful.  It was a fund raiser, so probably worth the trouble, and if I'm being honest it really didn't feel that long to me, I just played games on my phone and I did have a good coat on.  But kind of funny it was so long!)  The general meeting was really good.  We had front row- literally- seats so that we could watch Molly when she was singing in the choir- couldn't believe how early people took seats!  We would have been on like the sixth or seventh row if we hadn't settled on the front.  We got to sit by Furnisses and then Luke's kinda- friend Grace came and sat by him because she was speaking.  Kinda funny.  So we were able to listen really well!  I was happy to see that the boys weren't on their phones the entire time too!  Good boys.  There were quite a few youth speakers which I LOVED.  Most of the talks were really awesome.  It was a great meeting, very uplifting.  I had a few things that came to my mind during the meeting and I was glad I took note of those.  I'd tell you what they are, but they're on my phone.  Good stuff though.  10-29-23

COOKIES
We made some really amazing Crumbl copycat sugar cookies tonight to take to the Taylors (in the stake) to thank them for donating so much for Kelly, and then to a few other people who came to mind while we were making them and delivering them.  Kinda fun.  I like doing this.  We need to do it more often.  10-29-23

BRAD'S GOOGLE DRIVE TALKS
I have had these talks just rolliing around in my head for the past week- they really jump started something in me with wanting to have good positive things flowing through my ears and into my brain on a daily basis.  It's been really awesome.  I loved the conversion of the Catholic story.  The belief window one was really awesome also, and the one about all the prophecies really got me into reading Isaiah when I opened up my Book of Mormon to get back into reading it.  Very cool!!  I wish I had more peopel to share them with and talk about them with.  But that's okay.  I did make the kids listen to the conversion story one on Sunday night.  They loved it too :).  SO good!  10-29-23

FAMILY HALLOWEEN PARTY
This is our third annual Halloween Party.  We started this a few years ago when the Maynes family stopped doing something for Halloween and it has been a welcomed tradition.  The kids seem to love it.  I hope we can keep it going forever :).  We didn't get to have Charity here this time, but Kelly did come and join us- made a whole day of driving four hours for our short little party :).  Very cool of her.  Luke had Jaxx, Jack had Will and Bea, and Sadie had Owen here- for some of it.  All the friends left a little early.  But it was so fun!  We had a simpler dinner this time- just hotdogs, but I tried to make it all cute at least.  We ate, played the eyeball toss game- which we added one dollar bills to the green pumpkin one, if you made it in there you got a dollar.  Then offered a $20 for the tiny cauldron.  Nobody made it in the cauldron.  Huge bummer.    Then we went down and played the candy bar game.  Nate had given me a LOT of cash right before- $100, $50, a couple $20s a $10 and $5, so I had sneakily added them in to some of the candies- and we did big stuff again this year, Cheez-its, Takis, pringles, along with some larger box items.  I got black licorice and hid the $100 in there.  Kind of funny.  I did hint to Kelly that it would be worth getting.  I was in a panic when some of the friends started getting some of the larger dollar candies and urged people to steal them.  Kelly was the only one catching on and giving in to my urging, so she ended up with about $170 by the end of the night.  Kinda cool :).  College kids gotsta eat!  Some of the other kids won money as well.  I gave my gum to Erika at the end when I remembered/saw the $5 in it.  She was happy about that.  It was so fun!!  The kids all did really good too, which was new!!  Even Sadie knew it was for fun and didn't cry when things were stolen from her.  She actually kind of got into it.  After that, we played the donut game.  Fun stuff!!  I was impressed with Jack's abilities this time!  Very cool!  He didn't win, but came very close with the first round.  Noah did great!  I think Nate got the first place on the third round.  Fun stuff!!  Kelly and I had fun holding the mop pole and swinging the strings around and adding obstacle to the game.  Fun stuff.  Everyone seems to love this party and that makes me happy.  We had to go to bed when it was over, school night.  But I think it was a hit.  10-30-23

"Hello I am the Devil, welcome in"LETTER FROM ELDER MAYNES
WHERE DO I EVEN START HOLY. Actually one of the craziest weeks I've had and it was actually so hype. I'm sure if I was back at home and all this stuff happened I'd be terrified of going outside but its really just so hype and exciting to have random stuff be going on all the time. This is my 12th week so we're almost on to my 3rd month which is actually insane to think about. And also today I get an all day P day so we are watching tangled as a mission and guess who convinced the entire mission to do so😎👈. Its gonna be pretty exciting. 

Tuesday: welll today was a normal P-day. Until 8 O clock. We were knocking and knocked on a door that looked like it had a cutie little Hispanic family we could talk to. Turned out to be this 6'4 50 year old hispanic man. When he opened the door he goes, "soy el diablo" which means I am the Devil. We kind of laughed it off and he welcomed us into his home. We walk in, and he puts on a navy general/captain hat thingie and salutes us. We sat down and he runs to grab something and as we wait we notice he has a devil statue, a ton of Egyptian statues, a skull with a crown on top statue thingie, the arch angel statue, lots of devil related items on his desk in his front room. As he spoke he referred to himself as the devil and us as angels. He basically has a catholic view on God and an Islamic view on Christ which is a little strange. He had sooo many questions and we did so good at answering his questions which was very good. Whenever we would read a scripture he would stare at his skull with a crown and just basically go back and forth from that and us. Everytime he left the room I was terrified he'd come back with some weapon of some sort and we just get murdered right there or sum cuz my comp wouldn't leave. He told us how he had a problem in Columbia and had to flee to America which definitely means he committed a hugeee crime and now is hiding out here. We asked him if he wanted a book of mormon and he went and pulled his out cuz he apparently already had one. IT WAS ALREADY MARKED UP FROM COVER TO COVER.This man has read and marked the entire book of mormon and still had no testimony whatsoever on it. It was actually a strange moment because he was so hesitant to go grab it. He did he read it before we were even born and that he just doesn't believe it. He also kept lighting candles and I thought he was a boutta summon an evil spirit or something in the middle of us teaching him. OVERALL I was terrified and thought I was gonna have to fight off some guy with a sword or shotgun or cast off some evil spirit. I definitely think he's possessed or something of the sort because this man was so strange it was scary. We walked by his house another day and just like glanced in and he had candles allll over his entire room in some rando shape and he was def in there naked soooo everyone pray my comp won't make us go back to devil man. 

Wednesday: went on an exchange with Elder Cherry today who we ward share with. SOOO HYPE. I stayed in the sketchy triplex apartment again and it was like 30 degrees Holy. They turn the AC and a fan even though it's like 40 degrees outside already. The rest of the day was pretty average. English speaking in Alameda is mega slow so we didn't get to teach very much buttt we had a lot of fun talking to people. 

Thursday: super slow day until we got back home to our apartment. We saw police lights so went over a block next to our apartment and the had the entire block blocked off with police cars. They probably had half the entire Portland police force and were on every corner and driveway basically. We made a loop and they had 3 canine units and then a ton of them had huge guns and were inspecting every house. Definitely a huge shooting or something like that right next to our apartment. Not sure why we wanted to go check it out.

Friday: not much except a burger place down the road got burned down by some homeless person who lit a dumpster on fire.

Saturday: super slow again haha. And then on our way back ANOTHER block next to our apartment was blocked off because of a shooting with the same set up of police cars. I'm scared how casual I am about talking about shootings and stuff like that outside my apartment but I really do feel so safe in God's hands.

Sunday: I gave a talk in church and I re listened to it and it was mega awkward. Hopefully I will get better as the mission goes on. Darwin and Erika came!! They are confusing and I don't know what their plan is but they are still coming to church so that's amazing. We also had another friend come to church and he's so mega elect. He showed up with a notepad and pen and just took notes all of sacrament. He also has been studying saints and the book of Mormon because he wanted to learn about the history of Christ's church. 

Monday: Elder Adams finally let me do some talking and leading sooo he let me choose which doors we go to and let me introduce us, share our purpose and a principle, and then setting up an RA. It was so exciting because I prayed that I could have more confidence and fluidity with my Spanish and thats exactly what I was able to have. We found 2 families and they both want to learn more! Very exciting. Then tonight Elder Adam's wanted to have a mega bed and I wanted to sleep so I won't fall asleep in the temple and so he said he wasn't gonna let me sleep until I joined the mega bed. Finally I got to sleep around 12 which kind of sucks because we are going to the temple right now and I'm dead. But its whatever haha. 

I love you all and all I want to say is read your scriptures today. As you do this you will feel peace in our crazy world we live in and I promise you will recieve answers to questions you have. And I can email sooo send me an email abt anything cool you readdd. 

1. I told Elder Adam's I'll take pics of him if he sleep during comp study so here we are
2. I found glasses
3. Cool graffiti 
4. We bought apple juice
5. Someone's bad parking
10-31-23

BRAD'S PHONE CALL
We were so happy to hear from Brad when he called.  It was fun to chat with him about all of his funny pranks on the sister missionaries and the hard things he is dealing with, with his companion.  He is positive about the challenges and is willing to deal with it all and that is good.  He was happy he was going to get to watch Rapunzel :).  He just sounded like he's doing good and that he will be okay :).  It's always good to hear that.  He could tell we needed to focus on getting the kids ready to go, so he let us go, but it was so fun to hear from him.  10-31-23

HAPPY HALLOWEEN
We had a wonderful Halloween!!  I was really glad about how it all went!!  Fun day!!  In the morning we got the Elementary kids all decked out for their parade.  Sadie and I froze our tooshies off watching the parade and loved it.  It was funny to have Jack come back out after to get help taking his costume off.  Fun kid.  I loved his costume this year!  Way fun!  Then Sadie and I went shopping for some last minute things and candy.  Then we veged for most of the early afternoon.  It was strange how easy it was to just relax.  Good for me though, I think.  We hurried off to Jack's party at 2:00 and had a lot of fun running the Eye Ball Toss game for his class.  His class was really awesome.  I was pleasantly surprised with how well behaved everyone was and how respectful they were!  I enjoyed it thoroughly.  Especially Jack's group at the end- they were so much fun!!  Trying SO HARD to get it into the little cauldron, because I told them that since nobody had made it if ANYONE on their team made it, I'd give them EACH a big prize.  They had me laughing so hard!!  I wished so bad they could make it.  But it was really cool to see their ingenuity and teamwork!!  Very cool kids!! I was really impressed with this class.  Very awesome, polite, fun kids!  We came home with our sanity in tact which is not always the case.  It was fun that Erika and Kate joined us at the end, helped pass out drinks.  Fun stuff.  So after the party, we came home, sat around some more.  Got a call from Brad, which took all of our attention away from Halloween completely!  Then we did a mad dash to get ready before 6:00 when we'd told the Maughan's we could go trick-or-treating.  This was a fun, easy mostly, year for costumes. 
Sadie went through SEVERAL ideas all season.  Like since August.  She finally settled on a zebra a week or so ago and I bought her cotume on Amazon, then like the next day was suddenly repulsed by the idea, so I canceled the order.  Then a day or so later she said she wanted to be a mouse.  I let that simmer a bit and then ordered some grey sweats for her.  I figured if she changed her mind, I'd just have some cute grey sweats for her.  Luckily she stayed with this idea- it tried to evolve a few times, into a mouse-zebra-something, but I stopped her.  She was going to use the mask she got at Holly's birthday and then realized it hurts her nose, so I just made her some felt ears.  Fun stuff!  And as I'm typing this, I realized, I never did make a tail- oops.  Oh well.  Nobody even mentioned it.  She looked adorable!  So cuddly!  And once she woke up- which took quite a while- she was relatively happy and had a lot of fun the rest of the night.  She only got sad when Sis. Blankenship's black lap jumped on her and then again when she spilled hot chocolate on her new costume :).  Poor little lady.  She liked Halloween though!  I was glad.  
Molly was pretty decisive this year.  She had two costumes in mind, Jasmine and Raya and after examining the ones on Amazon settled on Raya.  Pretty quickly I might add.  I worried about how fast she made this decision :).  But she is pretty good at making decisions.  She LOVED her costume when she got it and then slowly started to dislike most things about it as the day rolled on.  It was a little big so we had to cut end of the legs off.  Then the hat, then the cape... it was funny.  By the end of the night she was wearing her heart hoodie over it and just carrying her cape :).  But she looked awesome!!  And I was surprised at the quality of that costume with how cheap it was!  It was fun for her to be what she wanted to be and that made me happy.  She was disappointed when we wouldn't let her paint her skin brown or dye her hair black.  We were glad the school (or anyone) didn't say anything about the asian-looking-ness of it, even though Raya is from a fictional place.  So anyway.  Fun stuff.  Molly loved trick-or-treating and did really well.  She got a little cold, but trudged on.  It was nice of Nate to go get her jacket.  
Jack had a blast and I think he felt pretty much like a celebrity in his awesome costume.  We had so much fun making this together and planning it out.  I had found it on a video early on in the month and Jack is always game for a cool idea, so he was in.  Then pulling it off went way better than I'd imagined.  I was glad I thought of the styrofoam from my new sewing machine and luckily we had lots of cardboard for all my mistakes.  But we did pretty good, I think!  It looked very believable and was a lot of fun.  He got so many compliments :).  Even Brad was pretty impressed, seeing the pictures :).  Fun stuff.  He loved trick-or-treating, his shoulders just got a little tired by the end.  But even with just the two eye holes, he did really great!  
Erika struggled with the decision of what to be this year.  It was hard that Kate wanted to plan it out earlier and then it was hard when it actually came time to deciding.  She really just wanted to wear a hoodie, so that narrowed it down to a few ideas.  I was happy they settled on somethins so simple :).  Unfortunately, much to my surprise, it was way harder to find hoodies the right colors than I had planned.  We went to a few different stores on Saturday, looking for the colors they wanted.  Even called my hoodie guy.  Not a big enough order for him, obviously.  Michales had the brighter blue that we needed and then a red, so we ended there.  Pretty awesome that they had such good coupons too- together they only cost $25!  So that was awesome.  I made the vinyl and ironed it on on Monday, pretty quickly- I may actually know how to use my stuff finally :).  Course when I looked at Kate's later on Halloween, it looked like her m was coming off a little already, so maybe not.  I don't know what to do about that.  And Jonah was wearing Kate's old skeleton costume I made and mentioned that some of the bones were coming off of that too, so... I digreess.  Erika really wanted to trick-or-treat, so she came with us, which was fun.  I was happy to have her with us.  Then at about 8:00 she went over to Easton's for a fun party.  Sounded like a good time and she was allowed to stay til 11:00 so that was special :).  She is growing up.  So crazy.  But she's doing a great job at it, so it's all good.  
Noah we hardly saw.  At one point in the week he wanted a white sheet, a trip to the DI, a trip to the mall... I am not even sure what all happened, but by the end of the night he was an old man! with loafers!  Funny kid.  He was out with his friends most of the evening.  I did get to drive them all from one house to another, but other than that- I didn't see him most of the day.  He had fun though!  Especially at the "mansion".  And bowling at the mansion girl's grandparents' house.  Fun stuff.  
Luke was on it this year- since Austin was in charge- he bought his costume, his very expensive Spider Man costume a few weeks ago!  He and all his friends were dressing up as all the different spidermans.  This ended up being a really fun thing for him!!  I was so happy!  They got all dressed up, went to heritage park and had Dave Noriega take pictures of them climbing on all the web looking toys, then they went to the mall for a scavenger hunt and ended up being the subjects of pictures with kids for a little while.  I guess they almost started forming a line before they told them they were all done :).  Funny stuff.  I still think Luke could hire himself out for birthday parties or something.  Make some extra cash :).  They went back to Austin's and sat around and when Luke got a call from Brad, he decided he was done and walked home while he talked and was home way early before his freshly chosen curfew.  I was surprised to see him home when I got home from picking up Erika.  The person who wasn't home by then, nor was he home by midnight as he'd said, was Noah!!  Stinker!  But anyway.  I think Luke had fun!!  Once I found out that Sadie Read had not been there all evening, it made more sense that he'd come home early.  
Kelly sent us pictures of her and Devan in their Tom and Jerry costumes she made and we did get to see Charity for a few hours, she was here!  Course I didn't realize she wasn't staying long and sent her on a bunch of stupid errands, so that was a bummer.  But it was fun for Erika.  They grabbed the pizza for us too.  It was a good day for all of us!!  10-31-23



















Sunday, October 8, 2023

SEPTEMBER 2023

 MOLLY'S 8th BIRTHDAY!

I think Molly had a good birthday this year!  She woke up to the sign Erika and I had slaved over.  Then crepes for breakfast.  She liked hearing everyone's favorite memories with her for study time.  She LOVED the pin I got that said, "It's my birthday!"  And went to school with a big smile on her face.  That was a relief.  I spent most of the morning making her mermaid cake which turned out really cute!  Nate, Sadie and I went shopping and then we got to go to the elementary school for some lunch at the birthday tables.  They did August and September together this year!  So we had Jack and Molly.  Pretty fun.  We got Panda for Jack and Carls Jr. for Molly.  Fun stuff.  I had to rush out at 12:30 for Kelly's zoom appointment, but we had a lot of fun talking with our kiddos.  Molly came home from school pretty happy about her giant pixie stick and then watched some Spirit until dance time.  She got to wear some cute bunny ears at dance for her birthday.  Then very quickly after dance, we rushed home to greet her party guests!  She chose to have her friend party at South Davis Rec for some swimming.  She invited eight friends, we took them all to the pool and swam for about an hour and a half.  They were so funny.  Very needy and wishing they could do more than they can.  But I think they still had some fun.  Nate and I stood in the middle of the room the entire time.  Nate left a few minutes eary to grab pizza and we ate pizza, opened presents, then cake and ice cream after swimming.  The girls were so cold, we had to get out lots of blankets for everyone to snuggle up in.  She has some really cute friends.  It was fun to see her interacting with them the whole time.  I felt like a saw a different side of Molly and it hit me that I am not as in touch with her age group as I've been in the past.  I need to regroup.  But I think they all had fun and celebrated Molly's birthday well. After taking all of her friends home we gave her the girts from us.  She loved them!  She got her own scriptures and a fun remote control bird/butterfly.  She loved that!  Nate knows how to gift for sure!  Kelly showed up in the evening which she loved and then Charity.  We love Molly and are so grateful for all that she brings to our family.  All the giggles and teases.  All the love and support.  9-1-23

KELLY'S TELE APPOINTMENT
This ended up being the shortest call ever.  Not even sure we needed a phone call for this conversation, but we were able to hear exactly what Kelly needs to do.  She will need two weeks of injections and then be put out for the extraction of the eggs.  That is if they can get any out of her ovaries.  We shall see.  I think it was cute that Kelly took the 50/50 chance so positively!  I'm so proud of her and the mature way she is handling all of this heavy duty stuff.  I think she has so much faith and is doing really well at hoping for the best.  Me too.  We got this.  I thin it will be fun to raise the $10,000 and interesting to see how it all goes.  9-1-23

MOLLY'S BAPTISM DAY!
This was a beautiful day!!  I was so happy for Molly and she was so excited!  I spent the morning making the treats she had requested- scotcheroos, rice krispie treats, dried skittles, banana bread, and cupcakes.  Then we spent a little time getting the house cleaned up.  Molly got to go over to the field to play with her remote control hummingbird and spent a lot of time playing with her new toys, that was fun.  We had to rush to finish getting ready and were almost late to the church.  But we made it.  We got pictures of Molly and with Nate.  Then I rushed into the chapel to play the interlude music.  The program went so well!  I was so happy with all of it.  I loved Elle's talk and then the best part was probably Luke and Charity's singing Peace In Christ- they sounded amazing!  Then I gave a talk.  It was a great program.  I loved being with Molly in the dressing room before and during and after.  I love that I get to be backstage and that Heavenly Father made it so that I am on the side where I can see her face and watch her as she is dunked :).  The feeling that comes when someone is baptized is just so incredible.  I don't know how anyone could not love that Spirit.  It's just awesome.  We had a sweet little moment in the dressing room with her white towel and being able to talk about how she felt in that moment.  I loved it!  She's so sweet!  We got her dressed and then waited for Nate to be able to get dressed as well.  He had to wait for Noah Barton and his dad to finish.  But we listened to some nice music and then got to witness Molly being confirmed.  It was a cool little bonus that we got to have Brad on Video chat with us.  Unfortunately, the picture quality wasn't that great.  But it was nice to feel like he was with us.  Molly had Noah as the chorister, Erika and Kelly as witnesses, and Jack said the closing prayer.  Such a special day!  I loved that she was so prepared and felt ready for that day.  She's going to be a great disciple of Christ.  She had so much support from so many family members!  I had no idea how many people we were going to have there.  It was a great turn out!  Grandpa Hatch and Jo, Grandma and Simon, STEVE!  Grandma Ruthie, Becky, Jen, Nancy and her family, Dan and their family, The Taylors!  It was great!!  I was so happy she had so much support.  I was also happy I had "gone overboard" with treats because there was plenty to eat.  Such a nice day!  We spent the rest of the day resting.  Kelly took Molly and Erika swimming so Molly could test out her new mermaid tail and I got to have the quiet house to myself for a good hour with everyone else gone too.  It was kind of nice.  This was the last big thing for a while.  I'm kind of relieved.  So happy for Molly though!!  This is a special time and I hope she remembers it forever.  9-2-23

This was the program:
Names of children being baptized: Noah Barton and Molly Maynes

Opening Song: "I'll Walk With You" 
Chorister: Noah Maynes (Molly's brother)
Opening Prayer: Char Barton (Noah's Grandmother)
Talk on Baptism: Elle Barton (Noah's Sister)
Musical Number: "Peace in Christ" Charity and Luke Maynes (Molly's sister and brother)

Performing Noah's baptism: Dallas Barton (Noah's father)
Witnesses: Emmi and Dillon Kobel (Noah's cousins)
Performing Molly's baptism: Nathan Maynes (Molly's father)
Witnesses: Erika and Kelly Maynes (Molly's sisters)

Talk on Confirmation: Christa Maynes (Molly's mother)
Performing Noah's confirmation: Curt Jensen (Noah's grandfather)
Performing Molly's confirmation: Nathan Maynes (Molly's father)
Closing song: When I am Baptized
Closing Prayer: Kari Jensen (Noah's grandmother) and Jack Maynes (Molly's brother)


SPIRITUAL GIFTS
I taught Sunday school today, Spiritual gifts, we did the thing where you pass around an envelope for each person and write everyone's gifts.  I think it went well.  Not sure though.  I liked that Kelly and Erika were there with us.  9-3-23

JACK TEMPLE AND FAMILY HISTORY CONSULTANT
We got to witness Jack being set apart in his new calling!  He is very excited and I think he will love working with the people he is with and love learning the things he will learn.  It's going to be great!  9-3-23

MAYNES FAMILY LABOR DAY PARTY
Even though it was pouring rain as we left, we drove up to Day Break for some Labor Day fun with the Maynes Family.  Ruth had planned a cute little get together.  She had a bunch of stuff she was raffling off and fun games at the tables.  The boys played basketball the entire time.  The girls and I all played the games at the tables.  It is fun to see how much Ruth enjoys giving her things away- we all went home with some treasures, and some toilet paper pumpkins.  HA!  We had a great time though!  Becky, Jen, Harrises, Taylors, and even the Idaho Mayneses were there!  So that was awesome!  We did have to hurry home for Noah to be able to hang out with his friends.  We stopped at Carls Jr. on the way home.  Once we got home, my body decided it was time to relax from the past few months of STUFF and I started to get sick.  I hate when I can feel it coming on.  The sore throat was first, then chills and aches.  It was no fun.  Nate let me sleep it off a little that evening.  I felt better, but still took me a few days to feel back to normal.  My normal.  9-4-23

FHE
I was out.  Nate and the kids carried on.  Noah taught the lesson and they played lightning before having Ice cream.  I wish I'd been there for all of it.  9-4-23

TALKING TO ELDER MAYNES
We got to talk to Bradley today!!  He called at 3:45 when everyone was home from school.  It was really fun to talk to him.  He looks so good!!  He needs a new watch and new suit pants cuz his thighs are too big.  I loved hearing about his week.  Apparently it was a short one.  He's starting to feel like he's in Ground Hog Day though.  He will find out Friday his stateside assignment, and so he's anxious for that.  When I said he might get his visa because I've been fasting for it, he said now that he's wrapped his head around going somewhere else first, it would be really strange to go right to Peru!  Funny kid.  9-6-23

NO SUBJECT
This week was actually the FASTEST week of the MTC so far. I still feel like P day was yesterday but it apparently was a week ago. This week wasn't thaat eventful but we definitely played more volleyball everyday. My comp sorta hates volleyball so it hasn't been as much as it was last week. The Spanish is starting to come along a little bit better each day too but also at the same time it's the most stressful thing. Like everyone said it to trust the process but I feel like the process isnt working right now and I am falling behind so i have started GRINDING on my Spanish work. It's crazy in 2 weeks I am going to be somewhere on the streets talking to random people about this man Joseph Smith they have never heard about. AND IN SPANISH. I dont get how other people can learn Chinese and I am over here struggling with Spanish. Nobody ever said it was going to be easy so I never expected it to be but its still crazy. I set some goals this week and they are to use Elder because I have realized how important it is that we have that title and if I am not using the title it's taking that special position away from them. I also wanted to finish the Book of Mormon by the end of the MTC and I was doing so good but I have realized it was taking away my spanish studies and making me lack in that so I am backing off of that and still trying to read a lot but not so that it takes over the rest of my studies. I am doing SOO good on my "no nap" goal and haven't caved in yet. I've gotten close haha. Also I would love to hear how everyone is doing!! I don't even know what's going on outside of the MTC right now so it would be wonderful.

Wednesday- today was chill until we got back to the room at 9. 4 of the guys in my district had their room TRASHED. The mattresses were stacked in the corner and all the closets were open and ransacked. Their room was a mess and I will try to send the video of it in the email lets hope it works. We ended up staying up pretty late fixing everything. 

Thursday: We were very tired today because of cleaning the trashed room. I am sorta starting to get sick and it may have been because of the lack of sleep so lets hope I dont have what's going around because EVERYONE is sick. Not cool sick but throwing up sick. So far I am the only one in my district that hasn't gotten super sick. And now I am jinxing myself whoops. 

Friday-Saturday: It was Molly's birthday!! Happy birthday Molly! I got blessed with being able to watch it and it was the cutest thing. I hope she loved it because baptism is AMAZING. I still remember mine and it was so special to me. I am beyond excited. I get to bless the people on my mission and get them baptised. I was getting homesick today but then realized that these 2 years are a once in a lifetime opportunity and it would be selfish not to go out and serve the lord if I am able to. Also it was sad because our favorite teacher left us and we now have a new guy.

Sunday: GREAT! AGAIN! Sundays just keep getting better because I am starting to fall in love with having the spirit with me. This time it was fast sunday and personally it was easier. It was like I had no other option but to fast because they didn't feed us. SO basically I didn't have an option but it was still really special to me. Something I learned that in 3rd Nephi Jesus really corrected and proof read parts of it in order to include what he needs us to hear. Isn't that cool!?!?

Monday: LONG DAY HOLY! Today was sooo rainy I actually loved it. Our new teacher is pretty cool except he talks so fast. Im like BRUH please stop rapping. The highlight of today was I was trying to see how many tags I could snatch off of my district by the end of the night and I got to 10 haha. We all were in the elevator and one guy asked and then they all did so I pulled them out and they all started dying for a couple minutes. I was surprised how long no one noticed. Basically I am a pro pickpocketer. JOKING NOT 

Tuesday: AHHHH TODAY WAS GOOD! We had a devotional and we were all sus because they were making the stage look super nice and making it all extravagant. Turns out it was Elder Stevenson!!! It was so cool I legit took 4 pages of notes. Him and his wife had AMAZING taks and now I am a changed man. Sister Stevenson talked about how a mission is like a relay. Like the missionary coming home is handing the baton off to me and I need to explode and go as hard as I can. She said to give it your all on your mission so that on your flight home you have no regrets because you know you did everything you could. Elder Stevenson had a lot of good points but what stood out to me was the spirit is there to guide. It isn't going to take control and fill your head with things in Spanish that you've never heard before. You need to study and learn the doctrine so that when the time comes you can let the spirit nudge you into the right direction. He also said that as you strive to become a diligent missionary you will make me qualified and ready to be a servant of the lord. Finally is that we should never underestimate the power music has to invite the spirit. I have witnessed this sooo much just by how listening to some of the songs in the gospel library make me feel. I challenge everyone to go listen to "healer" and "I can do all things through christ." They are my fav right now so  i hope you enjoy.

Im going to use that last paragraph as my spiritual thought because it basically was but I wanna hear how everyone is doing. OH I ALMOST FORGOT! I get my reassignment Friday so ig you all will get to find out where I am going in a week:) Or if I am feeling generous I will make a quick lil email and tell you guys. Also shoutout to Aunt Becky because she has sent me SOO MUCH snacks and they have saved me. I love you guys!!

I dont know if these photots sent or what order but im gonna guess...
1. The trashed room
2. I found Enoch (my cousin)
3. Me and my comp after the temple

PLAYGROUP
We had playgroup again this week.  It was much more eventful this time!  There was a lady whose purse was stolen out of her car WHILE WE WERE ALL SITTING THERE- and her car was the first one in the parking lot!  And then there was also a stabbing at the Maverik across the street!!  So crazy!  In west Kaysville!  Who woulda thought!  Sadie waited til the very end to swing!!  So proud of her!  9-7-23

LUNCH WITH MOM
Sadie and I were able to go to lunch with my mom this week.  We went to the Habit.  It was a really nice time!  I appreciated her letting me talk the entire time :).  9-7-23

VOLLEYBALL
We're starting back up with YW volleyball!  I'm so glad I get to go do this with Erika.  I know my time is limited in there and I am betting we're getting close to the end, so I'm trying to savor every last minute with her.  She's so awesome and just ooozes competence!!  Sis. Fox constantly wants to use her as an example of how to do things- even with the KJH volleyball team girls right there.  Erika is better than them, no doubt about that.  She should totally try out next year.  It was fun to be back at it with Christie though and helping out with the skills clinic.  Getting excited for a good season!  Fingers crossed!  9-7-23

DATE NIGHT
Nate and I had an unusual date this week- only because we had to keep changing our minds.  We were going to go to the Sushi place in Centerville since our movie was in Centerville, but it was closed!  Such a bummer.  We tried to go to a sushi place down in Bountiful, but it was packed and wouldn't get us served in time, so we came back to Centerville and needed something quick, so we went to Tony Burgers.  It was funny that Luke's friend Tate was working while we were there.  It was pretty good food- can't say I was overly impressed, but it was yummy.  We went over to our movie after and it was the 1950's (or whatever year) version of Murder on the Orient Express!  It was super funny that that's what we were watching, but it was fun to watch.  We did have to create our own special effects.  Fun times though.  9-8-23

STATE FAIR
We were really excited for the fair this year.  I feel like we get more and more excited for this tradition every year.  It was a little bittersweet since we didn't have the older three with us, but we're learning to make do and adapt without them.  Jack and I were a little pressed for time since he wanted to get back for his family history meeting.  So we ran over to the Hands on Farm first.  That is our favorite thing at the fair :).  Everyone puts on an apron (not Noah this time) and we all go through the process of making food and selling it.  Kinda fun :).  Mainly it's just fun because we have done it every year.  It's fun to see everyone making it fun for the little ones and everyone is just happy.  Easily pleased :).  I took lots of pictures to share with the big kids.  After the farm we went over to the Fine Arts building to find Annie's art.  She hasn't entered anything in a long time so this was exciting.  This is the first year we haven't entered anything in a long time- our August was so full- so we didn't have any of our own to see, but looking for Annie's was pretty exciting.  She did the cutest one of Cole as a baby cowboy.  So cute!!  Her talent is so amazing.  We had a few more minutes for Jack to go pick out a souvenir- he got a sword letter opener.  Then he and I made our way out to the parking lot for the wild goose chase for the Prius.  It was so funny that it was so close to the van.  We got him to Barabar Noriega's for his meeting right at 6:30.  They were meeting before heading over to the Clemens' for a presentation.  This was Jack's first time.  Very exciting.  I heard he did a great job.  The rest of the family stayed at the fair and saw the animals and ate goodies.  I think some of them even went on some rides.  Sounded like they had fun.  9-11-23

ELDER BRADLEY MAYNES
We got to talk with Brad again.  This has quickly become a major highlight.  This week we decided to let everyone talk to him individually instead of all together.  I think everyone liked this way of doing the call.  I enjoyed talking to him and seeing his cute face.  We talked about his new reassignment to Portland and how that was going to go.  He's excited!  I'm glad he has been able to stay positive about it.  9-13-23

"FEAR NOT, ONLY BELIEVE"- BRADLEY'S EMAIL
Okay first of all I have come to the realization that I have been trying too hard to make the email entertaining rather than fulfilling my missionary purpose which is to invite others to come unto christ by helping them receive the restored gospel through faith in the lord jesus christ, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the holy ghost and enduring to the end.( I actually had to look that up because I only know it in spanish haha.) So I will be trying better to make my emails more directed toward that purpose.

I know I say this every week but they actually fly by. In one week I'll be traveling to Oregon which basically means a couple hours because of how fast this goes. I apologize I haven't had time to respond to people a lot but I LOVE your emails and responses

Wednesday-Saturday:
I have started consolidating what happened these days because they all start being repetitive and I don't want to do a different paragraph for each one. Our teacher Hermano Nelson has been making classes SO Interesting and involved and it has helped me grow so much. Our other teacher is not so much but I think he's really nice and genuine so I find myself taking a lot more notes during his class which is sooo beneficial for me. FRIDAY I GOT MY REASSIGNMENT! I was so stoked we had a "draft" for it where our teacher would read the state and then say they select the missionary going there. And the Portland Oregon mission selects all the way from Kaysville, utah... ELDER MAYNES. Definitely the highlight of my week. I know I was reassigned to Portland for a reason and I have witnessed many miracles and instances that have already proven this to be true. God knows me and has people that need me THE SECOND I get off that plane so I have been trying my best to prepare myself for when I get there. 

Sunday:
Go and Do this week was amazing. I re-read a topic I studied the week I got here and it helped me deepen my conversion to Christ and understand him more. We then had the blessing to have a devotional but they only played music. I LOVED IT! I can't remember her name but she is Elder Oaks' daughter so you'll probably know her haha. It was definitely amazing how much passion and spirit she and her family put into the music. "Never underestimate the power music has to invite the spirit."

Monday-Tuesday:
Mondays are actually a struggle because it's in between the two best days which are Sunday and Tuesday. Tuesday was devotional day YAY! If you are about to come to the MTC look forward to Sundays and Tuesdays because they are SO COOL! This week we had brother and sister nattress. They taught about the power of testimonies and that we need to, "Fear not, only Believe." They then showed a video of Christ's life and I had the realization that I should've had earlier but Christ dedicated his ENTIRE life to healing, serving, and helping others. 30+ years of him doing nothing but that! I have the next 2 years specifically dedicated for me to do that EXACT thing. I have no other commitments besides this and that's what I am going to do. I love Christ and I love this Gospel. I know with a surety in my heart that this is a good work and I know that the gospel of christs church is the key to a joyful life. Christ is the answer.
 Wednesday: We started SYL (I am only allowed to speak Spanish until I leave the MTC) today and I have already improved my Spanish exponentially. It is so much easier to retain and remember information when you can  ONLY speak spanish. I got to call my family and I LOVE them and every minute I get to spend talking to them. 

Spiritual thought: Who can you help this week? I stumbled across 1 John 3:17-18 recently and have been thinking a lot about it. It says "But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does god's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and truth." This one hit me hard because I feel like I underestimate how much of a head start I have been given in life; not because of anything I've done or worked for but for what I have been born with. Ex: a loving supportive family, house with water and a roof, clean clothes, never having to worry where the next meal would come from, never having to work to pay bills... etc. There are people you come across EVERY DAY with multiple of these circumstances and we turn the other way and act as if we didn't see them. I want everyone that reads this to find something they can do "in deed and truth" to help someone this week. God puts people into our lives for a reason so put yourself in a position where the spirit can guide you where you need to be. I promise that as you are willing to sacrifice something small to you will be something huge to someone else and you will witness the blessings of it throughout the entire week! I would love to hear how it goes and love you guys so much.
-Elder Maynes
(pictures will come in later today) 
1.Me and elder Platt my bestie
2.Me and elder cam Wilson who is the nicest person I've ever met
3. Don't ask-we stacked the chairs
4. Our temple trip 
5. Vogue
9-13-23

LUNCH WITH MARIANNE
We haven't done anything in so long, it was time for lunch.  We were going to go to Everbowl but they were out of acai so we went over to Blaze Pizza instead.  It was just as yummy as last time.  Sadie and Addie did pretty good!  I really enjoy talking with Marianne.  She's fun to get to know.  9-14-23

YOUNG WOMEN VOLLEYBALL
We had our first games tonight.  It went pretty well, had a good turn out, but we lost both games.  Kind of a bummer.  But everyone had fun.  9-14-23

FUN RUN COLUMBIA
We had our annual Fun Run Friday.  I was surprised at how excited/nervous Jack and Molly were.  Not quite like the older kids used to do, but close.  Nate, Sadie and I all went to watch and cheer the kids on.  I had signed up to pass out churros but there were about a million parents doing that, so I cut off tops of otter pops and squirted kids as they went through the "jungle cruise" instead.  Erika had begged and begged enough that I let her check out and come over to run with the kids.  That was pretty cool of her.  I think they like having company.  Jack and Molly both ran the entire route!  Three miles for Jack, One and a half for Molly.  So cool.  They did a Disney theme so there was lots of fun costumes everywhere.  Fun stuff.  We were glad we got to go this year after missing last year for the Florida trip.  Good stuff though.  9-15-23

DATE NIGHT
Nate and I were able to get sushi this week.  After being let down last week, we needed it!  We went to Sushi Monster and then saw the Mission Impossible movie again- Dead Reckoning.  I was so beyond tired I even dozed off a couple times, which was a huge bummer, but it was fun to get out- we still need this little respite each week it keeps us alive.  9-15-23

SATURDAY
Saturday was full of three soccer games, Primary Program Practice, and Noah's cross country race.  Everything went really well.  The kids all scored at least once, the practice was fun even though Molly didn't feel like it was necessary since she already knows all the songs.  Noah did well at his race, even though he says he was super tired and just trying to help pace someone else.  It was nice to relax that evening a little.  Erika went to a "fancy" Fall Dinner Party at Lexie's, Noah got all dressed up for a girl's birthday party, and Luke was home most of the night with me and the littles.  Erika left the party early to go to the Regional dance.  It was a full day.  I was grumpy and tired by the end of the night.  9-16-23

PRIMARY PROGRAM
We had our program today!  The kids all did so good!!  Jack had a bunch of parts, kept getting up and killing it with his parts.  He and Molly got to play the bells in a special song.  They did a great job!  Molly said her part perfectly and was SO GOOD at singing every word to every song.  The sign language song was really cool too- it was I'll Walk With You and Molly and Sadie knew every single sign!  So well!!  Sadie was adorable the whole time, sang a lot of the words, looked so cute/bored sitting on the stand the whole time, she waved a lot, smiled a lot, did her cute little wave with Richelle a few times, she said her part perfectly even though we couldn't even see her :).  Nate had found us the perfect seats so that we could see everyone at once.  It was fun to be able to see Jack in his last one and get excited afor at least a few more years of this!  9-17-23

FHE
We decided to go to Barnes Park this week for FHE.  We fed the ducks our frozen peas and then played on the playground the rest of the time.  It was a lot of fun and felt like a good condensed family activity.  We came home to ice cream and cookies courtesy of Nate and Sadie I think.  9-18-23

GOFUNDME
Kelly's friend Maddie created a Gofundme for Kelly's egg retrieval costs.  We humbled but teared up a few times as well watching the total climb!  She was up to $3,000.00 in just a couple days.  I'm glad Kelly has this- I think it eases her mind.  It is very generous of everyone to donate and we do really appreciate the help.  Hopefully we can get some good viable eggs!!  9-19-23

ELDER MAYNES CALL
Brad called a few times this morning, tried once while he was in line at breakfast, but the cafeteria was so loud we could barely hear him.  Then he called again as we were getting the elementary kids off.  I loved talking to him about his last few days in the MTC and hearing about Lucia and Seth emailing him about visiting him in Portland and then their "P.S. You're still our favorite athlete".  That would be really cool if they could meet up with him somehow.  He sounded nervous, but also excited to go to Portland in a couple days.  I got to show him Sadie on her new scooter and she talked to him for a few seconds.  Noah and Erika took turns talking to him while I took the kids to school and later and then Bradley called a little later so that he could talk to Nate, Charity and Kelly.  Things were hectic so he might call again tomorrow on his self appointed extra p-day.  9-20-23

HEATHER SCOTT
I had a nice long talk with Heather about Kelly's situation and got some really good feedback from her.  Apparently we have the best doctors in the state.  Kelly's a very rare case.  The chances of all of this working- the egg retrieval, storage and IVF working are slim.  Miracles happen.  We can pray for miracles and we can expect them.  It was nice to get her opinion on all of it.  9-20-23

BRAD'S MISSION PRESIDENT
Elder Benjamin N Botchway, Brad's new MP in the Portland mission called today.  Called me first, but I was on the phone with Heather, so he called Nate.  He wanted to know a little about Brad and let us know he'd be in good hands.  I'm really excited to hear about this MP- he sounds really cool.  I'm glad that they will be picking him up and giving him a tour of the mission and that he will be taken care of.  9-20-23

ERIKA'S WARTS
Another visit to do away with the warts.  They sliced one of the big ones off at the last one and it looked like it worked okay so they did the other one this time.  Then froze off a million other little ones.  We're hoping this works.  It's a little crazy how long this has taken and how weird this PA has been. We really like her- she's nice and fun, but we're losing faith in her with each visit.  But anyway- hopefully this worked.  9-20-23

DATE WITH LUKE
I was really happy we finally made this happen!  Luke and I went to Monster Sushi for our favorite Vegas Roll and two others- Surf n Turf (deep fried) and the Mango Tango.  It was so yummy!!  I love that Luke just talked the entire time.  Mostly about his friends and their situations, but I just love hearing him.  He's such a good kid.  I'm so proud of him.  I hope he is doing alright.  Seems just a little off for some reason, but hopefully that's just my mom-ness worrying.  9-20-23

CALL FROM ELDER MAYNES
Brad called again while I was on my way to Olive Garden.  It was so fun to talk to him.  He is so close to leaving- it's getting really real.  He had packed his bags and knew they were pretty close to the 50 lb limit.  Hopefully that goes okay for him.  It was fun to talk with him alone as I drove.  We can talk about anything these days- it's so nice.  He had just heard from Brandon about getting robbed at gunpoint so I think he has that on the brain and knowing that Porland has some sketchy areas he seemed a little anxious that something like that could happen to him there.  He wouldn't mind having a story when he gets home though.  Grandpa got to say hi.  Then he called everyone else while I was at volleyball.  I hate missing his calls.  I've been praying so hard for him to get to Portland okay!  9-21-23

LUNCH WITH PAPPY
We had our monthly lunch :).  On the day we said we were going to have it if you can believe that.  Nate worked the mid so he was home to watch Sadie so it was just me and my dad finally!  That was fun.  We talked extra long about family search.  He's headed to Ireland tomorrow and wanted to be more familiar with his irish ancestry.  Hopefully he got the app to work and found his ancestors.  9-21-23

"FAN THE FLAME OF YOUR FAITH" -BRAD'S EMAIL
I am writing this on Thursday because I definitely didn't have enough time yesterday because my entire district is heading off to the field! This week was actually one of the slowest because I have been hyping up getting to Portland and anticipating it the entire time. I also dont have my journal this time while writing my email because its packed away soo I am trying my best to remember what happened this week. 

This week was definitely another repeat of last week almost exactly minus that I had the opportunity to participate in SYL. SYL is Speak your language week where I am only allowed to speak Spanish until I leave. It was crazy how good I got and how smooth I was able to speak to other missionaries in Spanish. We eventually got worse and worse at it because we wanted to have our last few days and good convos in English before we left. Sad day. I think this week alone actually made my Spanish increase so much and I am excited to head into the field and teach the people of Portland in Spanish in less than 24 hours. Actually terrified but I fear nothing and so I am going to try everything and work as hard as I can. We took the Spanish language assessment this week which is also known as the EI. They have been hyping this test up all year and I have actually been terrified because they expect the Missionaries to be at a 4 which is intermediate and can survive in the field. Welll I dont know how but I got a 4.5 which was pretty amazing because I came into the MTC with zero Spanish knowledge whatever. Which I know there is SOO much to improve on this because I still feel like I dont know very much at all but I am excited to learn and progress with it in the next 2 years. 

Also just gotta put this out here but me and elder Nichols are undefeated in Spikeball and we actually destroyed. It was 25% me and 75% elder Nichols because for some reason he's cracked at the most random sports.

The MTC is actually crazy because I've literally grown so close to so many elders here and I can picture a lot of me and my district becoming really close after the mission but then we all just go to complete different parts of the world and teach the gospel of Jesus Christ. I am actually gonna miss a lot of these elders but I am beyond excited for the memories and growth I will receive and most importantly the lives I have the opportunity to change. 

Today is packing day and last night my entire district left besides me and 3 other elders. They all left at different times in the middle of the might so I got woken up probably every hour of the night so I am running off of a few hours of sleep right now. They also all decided me and Elder Erickson got to clean the room so they left all their food and junk for us to get rid of. But I also got blessed with getting an extra day to pack so thats a perkkk. I actually wanna thank everyone for the packages and letters so far because they actually make it feel like Christmas every time. 

Sunday: Last sunday and last day of Go and Do. Definitely am going to miss it because it seriously has given me so much time each Sunday to ponder and study and strengthen parts I lack in my testimony. 

Spiritual thought: OK I wanna first put this out here that the church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is a perfect church. Although it is a perfect church it is ran by imperfect people. If you are struggling with the gospel because of people or policies the church DID have; do not let those doubts or questions diminish the faith you do have and have spent who knows how long to build. Before my mission I randomly came across questions or comments directed towards members of the church to make them question their own Faith. It actually filled my head with doubts and questions and made me doubt my own faith for a while. I ended up coming across the talk "Lord, I believe." Jeffery R holland emphasizes the importance of standing true to the faith you have grown in times of doubt or fear. "be true to faith you do have... Sometimes we act as if an honest declaration of doubt is a higher manifestation of moral courage than is an honest declaration of faith. It is not! So let us all remember the clear message of this scriptural account: Be as candid about your questions as you need to be; life is full of them on one subject or another. But if you want to be healed, comforted, strengthened, have hope, peace, lifted up... Don't let those questions stand in the way of faith working its miracle." This really saved me and helps me when doubts and questions appear because it is okay to have questions! That's how we grow and learn in this life! I know the Church of Jesus Christ is the true church on this earth and I testify that our savior loves us. He supports us and he died for us. I love you all and I promise that next week I'll have some better stories to tell about Portland and be hype. 
1. Me and Elder Jex before he left he next morning. Sad day
2. us at the last devotional
3. elder platt with his bug friend
4. somehow my hair got long enough for me to need a haircut
5. first day pic I just found
6. the district sorta
7. Me, Elder Cloward, Elder Platt, and Elder Erickson
9-21-23

VOLLEYBALL
We had an awesome turnout- 10 girls last night!  And we won both games!!  The girls are getting really good!  It's fun to watch them!!  So proud!  9-21-23

ELDER MAYNES' DEPARTURE DATE
I got up this morning to wake up Erika for Open gym and had to text Brad a little good luck text for his big adventures today!!  As if flying to another state wasn't exciting enough, they make the whole trip to the airport a big adventure as well!!  He has like four transfers to get there.  I hope they all go well and he makes it in time.  He will have 28 other elders with him so it shouldn't be too hard.  I hope they are safe and protected.  Heavenly Father is in charge.  What happens happens for a reason.  It's taking some faith today.  But I'm excited for him to get out in the field.  I really think he will thrive out there.  I'm so proud of him!!  9-22-23

DATE NIGHT
We got to go out again this week- I'm counting all these as blessings because life gets pretty hectic, but at least we still have our date nights.  We went to Zupas and then decided to go home for games with the kids because Kelly was in town!!  I ran into Kathy Tonge at Zupas which was kinda fun.  She said she's going through a divorce because her husband is leaving her for his high school girlfriend.  So strange.  I felt bad for her, but it was good to see her and think about the things she reminds me of.  9-22-23

SOCCER GAMES
Molly and Noha's games overlapped and so I didn't get to see Molly play this week, but she did score!  So proud of her!  Noah's game was great but then it took a turn for the worse as the ref started yelling at him for things he didn't do.  "If there's a call to be made it's going to be on you!"  So rude.  Noah handled it so well.  I was really proud of him.  Then Erika's was really good too.  They basically killed the other team.  So proud of that girl!  She also scored a few times.  9-23-23

HOMECOMING NOAH AND LUKE
I had the privilege of being part of Noah's Homecoming night.  We took the food to Will's house, came back home to get Noah's stuff.  Went back up to Will's to get the boys and then drove around picking up the girls.  Then we went and took pictures in the Timothy's backyard.  This was a lot of fun.  I was happy Kelly was with me and made all the big decisions.  She's got a good eye.  I think they turned out pretty good.  Then we drove them back to Will's for dinner and then picked them up to go to the dance after.  I had a lot of fun listening to them talk in the car and hearing all the nerves but also all the sweet boys and how they wanted to take care of those girls.  REALLY cool!!  I think Noah has some awesome friends.  I got to take Luke to go get his corsage in Bountiful and then I got to hear about the night after- sounded really great.  I think he was happy with how it went.  Noah took Kallista Wright and Luke took Sarah Norton.  I was really proud of my boys!!  So much fun.  9-23-23

EMOJIS
Today was the first time Brad responded with emojis and it happened to be the first communication we had received from him since he shipped off to Oregon.  He had hearted my text that I sent right before he left of "We love you!".  So I texted back, "Yay!  You're alive!" and then he gave me the fingers showing an inch- like "Barely".  So then I was worried and asked a few more questions about how he was doing.  I got some shrugs and some tearing up eyes.  It was so hard to hear and not really hear!!  I sent him a little motivational thing that I had seen on facebook a few minutes before, and he loved that.  But it was another two days before we were able to hear about that day.  I ended up really struggling all day Sunday wishing I knew how he was and why he wasn't great.  It was kind of hard.  I started to think that this whole being able to communicate thing is a little tricky!  Because ultimately, he was able to pull through it and felt good the next day and if I hadn't responded or asked him anything, I wouldn't have even known he was having a hard time.  He would have gotten through it and it would have been one sentence in his email.  So I think I need to step back a little and recognize this.  It's going to be hard, but I think it is better.  9-24-23

LUNCH WITH EMILY
We FINALLY made it to lunch!  It was fun to be able to talk a little.  Even with Sadie there.  Then we got to go to the lifetime photo shoot that evening and talked a little there too.  Kinda nice.  It's been too long.  9-25-23

DOLORES
Sadie and I went and helped Dolores a little with unpacking her sewing room.  We're the thread girls.  We organize the threads.  It has been kind of fun and even Sadie has been pretty good for the most part.  The second day we went she whined a little and then ended up falling asleep in my arms while I chatted with Dolores.  It's so fun to talk to her!!  She has a lot of cool stories and I love to get to know her.  We didn't get a ton done, I'm hoping to go back over, but it's been a fun time for me.  9-25-23

ERIKA AND KATE LIFETIME PHOTO SHOOT
Erika and Kate got asked to do a basketball photoshoot.  This was fun.  Only took about a half hour.  They each get $50!!  Pretty awesome!  Emily and I just sat there talking the whole time.  Pretty chill.  9-25-23

ELDER MAYNES
We got to talk with Brad for the first time in Oregon today.  That was pretty exciting and much anticipated.  He wasn't sure how much time he would have, so we weren't either.  We decided to do a whole family call again.  Nobody likes it this way, I don't know why we do it but we wanted all the details.  May have been a selfish decision on mine and Nate's part.  Although, I did get to text him quite a bit all day and that was nice.  So he's doing okay!  A little green and had some rough days in the beginning there, but it sounds like he might get the hang of it.  The area he is in is interesting.  We'll see how that goes.  I'm happy for him to be out in the field and teaching!  Even his companion said he is doing great!  So proud of him.  We got to hear about all the mean people who yell at him.  He likes his companion and the guys in his apartment.  He loves the trees.  I loved hearing him trying to talk Charity into dating Ty.  He looked so tired.  I hope he has enough food.  I did send him some groceries and because he gave me the wrong address, they went to a different place, but it just so happened to be another apartment with missionaries!!  So they gave them to Bradley!  Pretty awesome.  9-26-23

"YOU CAN TAKE THE HOOD OUT OF E MAYNES, BUT YOU CAN'T TAKE E MAYNES OUT OF THE HOOD"- EMAIL FROM BRADLEY
This week was crazyyyy and it hasn't even been a full week. I'm sure nobody really wants to hear how the last few days of the MTC were and I did basically nothing haha. It was just a ton of packing and getting ready for my travel to Oregon. First day we caught a bus at 5:30 and then got on the front runner and then got on another front runner and then made it to the airport. Me and elder McNeil hangout for most of it and went and ate real food for the first time ahhhh. On the flight I sat in between this 70 year old Indian lady and some other woman. We ended up talking the ENTIRE time and I taught them about what a missionary is and why my purpose is here as a missionary. We shared some cool experiences we had in our lives and I taught them a little bit about the gospel. We're besties now. Also I wanna first apologize this will be a long email✋

I met my comp and he was so cool and it was surreal to me how good he was at Spanish and how well he could find and teach people so fast. I Def have a lot to learn from him before I head to Peru. Also he's 5' 6 again rip.🥲 We are in a Spanish speaking area and there's actually soooo many Hispanics here I was not expecting. They're all mostly in apartment complexes or trailer parks so we just hop between those which sycks because they're the scariest places.

Saturday: first full day in the field and I already am soooo dead holy. We got stuck at the mission home for 6 hours because our ride left so we just studied and talk with everyone there for a FAT minute while we waited for our ride. That night we ate dinner with the Campbell's and they are this adorable little couple that made us chicken and rice. Later that night we went knocking and came across Francisco! My comp turned to me middle of his talking and I froze for like 30 second because it was my first time ever knocking and had no clue what we were even supposed to say hahaha. It all worked out because he wants to meet with us again. 

Sunday: today was hard because the Spanish group in the ward is all Venezuelan so they speak sooooo fast and I don't understand any of it. They are all very nice and friendly. We met with Francisco again and taught him! It was my first lesson in Spanish so I just taught him about the apostasy and a little about the book of Mormon. It was amazing to see how genuinely he was involved and how much he was listening. We challenged him to read a chapter in the book of Mormon and pray about it's truthfulness.  I was peeing my pants the whole time it was scary. Later we went to this apartment complex and some sketchy dude came up behind me and put his fingers in the shape of a gun and put them to my back. He repeatedly said, "give me all your money." Lowkey was terrified but somehow I just turned around and stared at him and he then went on to bash us for a little bit before we left. Kinda scary because I didn't know what his intentions were but glad we were safe and it wasn't a real gun haha!

Monday: Today started off awful and I just wanted to get to Peru already. I don't remember what happened for the first half but I was just depresso and home sick. We then had this lesson with some Venezuelans we met drinking beer outside on their porch Sunday. The lesson was with Darwin, his wife Erika and Darwins family. We started teaching them about the gospel of Jesus christ and I ended up teaching around half of it! I don't remember what I said but I do remember God was guiding me and the gift of tongues is real! The spirit was so strong and you could really tell how engaged this family was into the lesson. They told us about an experience they had crossing the Venezuelan border and how he had all the documents In his satchel and as he was crossing the fell off and were gone. ALL of their information, money, and other documents were gone. His family kneeled down and prayed although they never had before. They made it to Panama and some guy had their satchel with everything in it! It was actually amazing and I'm happy they were able to share that experience with us. We taught them a little more and invited them to watch general conference with us. They said yes! If he doesn't have to work so hopefully he won't be working haha. I truly felt the spirit and know they did too. After My comp told me he's never seen a greenie talk as much and teach so much of a lesson in their first week. He told me he's very impressed with my Spanish and I know it's because God is guiding me in what to say and how to say it. Gift of tongues is real!

Guys Portland Oregon is crazy. Im in uptown Portland so low-key in the hood and last night definitely heard some gunshots hahaha! There's graffiti everywhere you go and so many homeless people and trash everywhere. I'm pretty sure everytime I get out of the car someone wants to kill me and actually threatens us hahaha. But besides that the Hispanics are all so genuine!! They all love christ and are way more respectful than everyone else. Oh and the trees are super pretty here too so that's a plus. There is like a lot of people that just decide to walk around in their underwear which is confusing but other than that Portland is lit haha. It's not as bad as I was expecting so that's v exciting. Also the sun hasn't been out at all and it's been dumping this entire time. I doing the best with the 2 sweaters I have hahaha. Also we are actually starving lowkey so I've been eating all my snacks I brought for the plan and I'm pretty sure I've lost weight already and don't know how these guys gain so much weight here.

Spiritual thought: the power of the holy ghost is amazing and is the converting power. Nobody would listen to me if they couldn't feel the spirit because they could probably barely understand my gringo speaking haha. God is amazing and knows your circumstances so don't let anyone or anything diminish your faith and your title as a disciple of Jesus christ. Remember who you are and what you stand for!

I've actually taken like 0 photos because I didn't have a phone for half of it haha. But me and my comp got thus lasagna from a member and it was AMAZING
9-26-23

LUNCH DAY
Luke's friends, Austin, Sadie (not Caldwell), and Tate Hansen all showed up while we were eating our Chick-fil-a :).  Kinda funny.  They were fun to talk to though.  Luke was hilarious.  I love having them home during the day- so fun!  9-27-23

SADIE'S "TOE"
So during Bradley's phone call, Sadie came home (Molly had pushed her on the scooter thing and then Nate carried her in the front door) screaming.  She was really upset.  She had said she hurt her toe so I looked at it and it looked all red and puffy, so I thought she had stubbed it and with it being a little ingrown with the toenail, I thought that was it.  Didn't think much of it.  She fell asleep during the phone call.  She had a cough and the hurt toe so I let her sleep with me that night (Nate was working the mid).  Then all day Wednesday she had to be carried everywhere and wouldn't walk on her "hurt toe".  It seemed extreme but she's kinda like that so it was okay.  Then Wednesday night she woke up screaming a few times about the pain and then couldn't make it to the bathroom because she couldn't walk.  So Thursday, I decided to really investigate this toe- there's no way this is all because of an ingrown toenail.  Sure enough, the pain was not near her toenail.  It was just below her big toe.  That was the only place.  We tried walking with shoes, tried standing and she just couldn't.  She screamed like crazy every time I tried to get her to stand up on it.  So I scheduled a doctor appointment.  While we were sitting there waiting, I played around with her leg and foot again.  Found out pushing on the back of her knee makes her flinch pretty bad and she won't allow you to do it very long.  So we told the doctor about it all, he figured we better x-ray.  We went and got some pictures of her foot and knee and then found out everything was totally normal looking.  So who knows.  I love when they follow it up with "if it's still hurting in 1-2 days, bring her back in".  Ugh.  But of course, the next day, she's braving walking now.  Kind of annoying, but I'm glad she's okay and I'd rather not have a cast or boot.  9-28-23

VOLLEYBALL
Still doing great!! Won both games today!!  Less subs, but some of them like that better.  Good stuff.  9-28-23

HARVEST DANCE FOR NOAH
Noah got asked to Harvest dance already!!  His friend Molly wanted to ask him before he got snatched up by someone else!  I think it's so flattering to get asked so early on.  He seemed happy about it.  It wasn't the annoying girl he didn't want asking him.  Super cute!!  I'm excited and happy for Noah.  9-28-23

DATE NIGHT
We got to go see Nate Bargatze for our date night this week!!  We grabbed some yummy philly beef and swiss subs before heading to our awesome seats!  Nate spoiled me extra this week!  This was a very funny show!!  Even the openers were pretty good!  I LOVED that he said, "This is what they promise us..." Talking about a clean comic coming to Utah.  Pretty funny.  "This is our hollywood".  HAHAHA!!  Then he thanked us for making time to be there on our busy weekend (General conference) HA!  Funny guy.   He had a lot of funny material.  I loved him talking about reading.  I could totally relate.  He's funny.  I loved having the time with Nate and glad he could laugh about the annoying laugh next to me, with me, she had THE MOST ANNOYING LAUGH!!!  So funny.  9-29-23