"You are not here to live a mediocre to average life; you are here to live an amazing life, a miraculous life. If it weren't for your challenges, there would be no miracles. You must do that which seems impossible, for it is only in the impossible that miracles are had." - author unknown, but very respected

Wednesday, March 6, 2024

FEBRUARY 2024

 DINNER DATE WITH LUKE- TUCANOS
We started a new tradition for the 18 year olds last year, so we carried it out for Luke on Wednesday night.  Took him to Tucanos, jus tLuke and Nate and I.  It was such a nice time, hearing about all the things going on in his life.  2-1-24


LUKE'S FAMILY PARTY
We had to kind of squeeze Luke's party in this year, kind of a bummer, but it's like that this time of year.  We had Nate's HUGE order night of like 35 orders of brisket burnt ends, right before, so we were cleaning up after that for the hour before.  Then the guests showed up- Grandpa Hatch with Heidi's kids (Heidi came a little later), Grandma Ruthie and Jen, Simon and the Taylors.  I had to leave to go get some pizza (we were going to serve brisket, but we had so many orders, we ran out- so Little Caesar's it was), when I came back, everyone was camped out in the living room.  Kinda strange, but whatever.  Some people moved downstairs later.  It was a fun party- everyone chatting.  I always want to play games, but nobody seems interested.  But I think Luke enjoyed it enough. I made him a "sushi cake" which was really just brownies with candy sushi on top.  It didn't quite turn out how I wanted, but it was good enough :).  Luke gave it a good reaction, that was nice of him.  We opened presents- he got mostly food and money :).  And then Nate and the older four kids all took off for the Rec Center!  Kind of a crazy night to have a party, but it worked!  I think Luke felt celebrated.  I can't believe he's 18 already!!  Bring on all the adult choices and responsibilities!  I know Luke is excited for all that.   But in all seriousness- he really is such an amazing young man.  I am really excited to see what he does with his life and the choices he makes.  He's such a good friend and sibling.  He gts his school work done without any nagging.  He's good at managing his time with really awesome healthy activities and sitting around on the couch playing games.  He's actually doing so well at staying productive I feel like.  I'm really proud of him and the person he is.  He doesn't let other people decide for him and he is very in charge of his own life.  I love that he has so much faith and such a strong testimony.  He's been so thoughtful about planning for his mission and getting ready to make all the big decisions ahead.  I'm just really so proud of him.  He's going to do to big things!!  Happy birthday Luke!!  2-2-24

LUKE'S ACTUAL BIRTHDAY
I don't feel like we did enough to celebrate Luke yet.  I hope he actually does his friend party next week.  He had a good day though!  I had to go down to the Olympic Oval for Noah's races, so I wasn't here when Luke woke up, but Nate made his egg croissants like he wanted for breakfast.  We went to Jack's basketball game- not Erika's because she had been throwing up the night before.  He got to have Nate's slaved over ribs for dinner as well.  The day was packed with cooking for Malisa's wedding and lazying around, but I think Luke had enough fun with his friends that night to make up for it.  It's so crazy that he is 18.  I know I keep saying that.  It's just too soon.  2-3-24

EMAIL FROM ELDER MAYNES- LOTS OF WORK
We've been working a lot and it's been so fun actually. I don't have a lot of time todas so I apologize but I love you all. This Sunday we had the most people show up the ward had ever had sooo we are pretty excited. We have basically ran to every lesson and it's been so fun. Let me know how youre doing and next week ill give yall some more info hopefully.
2-5-24

MAKING COOKIES WITH GRANDMA
Sadie and I FINALLY made it over to grandma Hatch's to make cookies.  This has been planned and rescheduled so much!  We finally made it over there on Monday though!  And it did not disappoint.  Sadie was very happy to be there, playing with grandma's toys, and she even liked making the actual cookies as well.  She's not a big cookie eater, so she didn't really do much of that, but she ate one.  She liked pouring on the sprinkles at the end.  We did have ot kind of rush out of there to go get the kids from school and Sadie totally konked out in the car in the first few minutes, but we had fun.  Thanks Grandma!  2-5-24

CALL FROM BRADLEY
While I was at Grandma's house, Brad made his phone call.  This was a good call.  He looked good.  Tired but good.  And it was fun to see him.  He seemed distracted mentally and it felt a little like he just needed to be doing other things, but he was sweet to talk to us and make time for us.  Nate, Kelly for a bit, Erika for a few seconds at the beginning (probably didn't want to get in trouble at school), grandma got to say hi, all joined in on the call.  The rest of the kids were at school, so that's been a bummer to not be able to talk to them.  Sadie said a little more than usual and wanted to look at him, so that was fun.  He did light up quite a bit when he was talking about Luke getting ready for his mission and how excited he is for Luke to be out in the field too.  Kinda cute.  So that was fun.  I am so happy that he is enjoying things right now and that he's able to work a lot and get so much done.  I think this new comp is a bit of a work horse and that might get challenging soon, but for now- I'm glad Bradley gets to work- he needed that.  2-5-24

FHE
Jack had the lesson so he just had us go around the room and ask a question.  Any question.  We had some cool talks about why you get baptized at age eight.  We planned a new study time for Sunday before church.  It was good.  Then for Molly's activity she was really wanting to go swimming.  It didn't quite work out to go as a whole family because Noah and Erika were needing some things at the store, but Nate took the younger three swimming, I took the older three shopping and then we met up at the rec center where Erika got in and swam and the boys and I sat and played on our phones basically.  It was a good night.  We stopped at the ol' Centerville Arctic Circle for Sadie's treat- shakes and ice cream cones on the way home.  We have awesome kids- they were all so grateful for what it all.  2-5-24

KELLY'S VIRTUAL APPOINTMENT- NEW DOCTOR IBRIHIM?
So we are starting with this new clinic for Kelly's egg retrieval.  She had her first virtual appointment and I was able to listen in.  Kinda funny, Kelly could see the doctor, hear the doctor and hear me, but she couldn't see me.  The doctor could only see and hear Kelly.  And I could hear, but not see the doctor and see and hear Kelly.  So strange, but it worked.  Kelly took care of most of it, I was just the little voice in the background, offering little bits and pieces of information.  So anyway.  This new doctor of course wants to do all the lab work again.  My first instinct was to be like, "We already did all that- just look at her old results, bla bla bla..." but the Spirit keeps chiming in with, "You want to do the labs again.  You want to start fresh.  This is the chance at a second opinion."  I had been wondering if we needed a second opinion on all of this, for quite a while, but talked myself out of it, so maybe this was Heavenly Father's way of making that happen.  Not sure why- I don't know how different it could be, but for whatever reason- this feels like a better solution.  We'll see.  She was a very nice doctor, she seemed to know what she was doing.  That was good.  I say it was a good productive appointment.  She wants to hurry Kelly along and have her in for retrieval by March!  So that's awesome.  2-6-24

DATE WITH SADIE- EVEN THOUGH THERE WAS NO BOUNCE HOUSE INVOLVED
I'm not sure where Sadie got the idea that our date had to have a bounce house, but I decided to make our outings today a date since I'm getting behind on my dates with the kids because it is so hard to get time alone with Sadie- that was sarcasm.  I just need to call what we do together our date and move on to the next kid :).  So anyway.  She had seen some rainbow popcorn on Gabby's Dollhouse and couldn't believe there was such thing.  I told her I know a place where they sell rainbow popcorn and we decided we needed to go get some today!  After getting her stuffies and most of her room cleaned up- that was her reward.  So we went over to Lisa's Passion for Popcorn, picked out some "rainbow popcorn" it was actually a pink, purple, blue, white mix, but it worked.  Then we headed over to Gailey Park for some fun on the playground and swings.  It was a little cold, but not too bad.  We were interrupted with Erika's need for some febreeze, but we had gotten a good half hour in.  So that was good.  I loved how much Sadie loved this outing.  And she was so happy about the popcorn even though I know she doesn't really like that kind of stuff.  It was so cute of her!!  She's a fun girl.  I told her, "Hey!  This could be our date!" When we got to the park- because we'd been doing so many things together, and she goes, "Yeah, except without a bounce house."  Not sure why that was a thing, but funny girl.  I told her bounce houses aren't very fun to go to with just me!  So she allowed us to call it a date.  2-6-24

ERIKA'S KJH GAME
Erika did so awesome at her game today!  I was SO impressed!!  The varsity girls had barely lost their game in a really close one.  But then JV came out and totally killed the other team!!  Erika was everywhere and at all the right times!  It was fun to see her confidence this week and that she was trying so hard.  I loved that the coach tried pulling out her starters and sending in a bunch of new girls and then like two minutes later- after the other team finally scored on us- she send the starters back out!  SO fun.  Erika played almost the whole game.  She did awesome.  I loved it.  She did score a few times and had at least five assists, so she owned at least half of the 21 points!  They won 21-5.  Great job Erika!  And she did it with cat pee all over her jersey!!  We had a fun time getting the febreeze to Erika before the game.  Dang cat.  2-6-24

OOPS
Tonight when I was picking up Jack from basketball practice, I looked at my texts and had one from the pta dinner lady for KJH asking what time she should pick up her meat tomorrow.  What a blessing she asked, Nate and I had both forgotten about the order.  It was basically Nate doing them a huge favor and making meat at a VERY reduced price.  He only charged about a third what he should have.  So anyway.  Luckily, Costco was still open, I went and got the meat and buns while Nate did Erika's practice.  Then he came home before going to work and put it all in the smoker.  So crazy!!  Poor Nate!  I was glad I could help and glad that it went okay though.  So crazy!  2-6-24

KAYSVILLE PTA MEAT
Nate and I both completely forgot about this catering job.  It wasn't really making us much money, so kind of slipped our minds!  Luckily I realized it the night before and I was able to run to Costco and get the meat and buns so that Nate could come home after basketball practice and get the meat in the smoker before leaving for the mid.  Then he had to work on it Wednesday with no sleep.  Kind of unfortunate, but so glad we remembered and were able to pull it off for them.  Nate is very nice to do it at such a discount for them.  I don't know, but I think we may have created a monster.  They will never budget their money right for their dinners because they have Nate to fall back on.  Kinda lame, but whatever.  It does get Nate's food out there and works as advertising.  2-7-24

7TH GRADE OPEN HOUSE FOR JACK!!
This was kind of an exciting night for Jack!  He actually really enjoyed it!  More than most of our 7th graders!  They do a new thing now where they just have all the departments set up tables around the school so you can go and ask questions about each one.  Jack was very interested in several.  I loved that he just really wanted to hit them all.  Fun stuff.  He's really excited about learning, it's fun to see him so anxious and interested.  He and I are both shocked that he's old enough to go to Junior High already!!  Should be fun though :).  2-8-2024

OWEN'S TRAIN PARTY
Sadie got invited to Owen's train birthday party.  We had a lot of fun with Enzo, Moses and Owen and all of the fun things Lisa had planned.  Sadie is still just so shy and not super relaxed in these situations, but we will get there.  We had a great time though!  2-9-24

KELLY'S IN PERSON APPOINTMENT WITH THE NEW DOCTOR
Kelly was scheduled to go get her labs and some other tests done on Friday and I had rearranged some things to be able to be there.  I've had the address of this place on my white board ever since the insurance helper gave it to me, so I knew it was in Ogden and that's what I had planned for.  Well, unfortunately, Kelly was scheduled for the Pleasant Grove office.  Worked out great for her since she was in Orem for Devan, but of course, I was way too far away by the time we found out I had the wrong place.  She had to go on her own.  She forgot to ask about her IUD and did everything else pretty quickly!  I was so bugged.  I was available to help Nate with his orders, but that wasn't enough of a consolation prize for me.  She did fine though and carried on as usual.  2-9-24

DATE NIGHT
We were pretty sure we wouldn't be able to go out on Valentine's so we decided to do a pre Valentine's date.  We went to see the movie Argile, which was pretty funny and then got Betos after :).  Super fun.  Happy Valentine's to us :).  2-9-24

SHOWER CAKE
I was asked to make a naked cake for Halleigh (David's girlfriend) for her baby shower.  She had a topper, so I was literally just making the cake.  It was my first time making a naked cake.  I wish it hadn't been chocolate, but other than that, it went pretty well.  After a while, the chocolate turned the frosting brown, so I learned I need to stop before that happens.  But really, it went well.  I got to go deliver it to Kathy and Ernie's new house- so pretty!  And talk with them for a minute.  It was a nice little drive with Nate too, he was so nice to join me!  2-10-24

STEVE'S BIRTHDAY PARTY
This was a fun time- Charity and Hunter met up with us, Kelly was already down, we picked up Alyssa (Heidi and Porter weren't feeling great) and we all went to Grandpa and Steve's to celebrate Steve.  I made brownies and stacked them.  Kind of lame, but I really didn't have time for much else.  I think he was okay with it.  It was fun to see Stevea and Grandpa trying to stop the smoke detector when they burned something in the oven.  Fun times.  I want to take him out to lunch one of these days.  We'll see if that ever happens.  2-10-24

COME FOLLOW ME STUDY
We had our first Sunday Come Follow Me study.  Our morning ones are not very well attended and we thought in order to follow the Prophet maybe we needed to scale back a little.  So we are still doing our morning ones for those of us who are willing and we've added a more convenient, easier to attend one on Sunday's at 11:00.  I like it better this way, makes me feel like we are doing what we can.  Noah and I are still having a nice little study time every morning and that's been nice still.  It went well.  2-11-24

LUNCH WITH MARIANNE
We finally got to go to lunch.  This was a fun time at Everbowl.  She and I don't have a ton in common but I really do enjoy talking with her.  A nice little break from life.  2-12-24

BRAD'S PHONE CALL
We got to talk to Brad on Monday.  Just short calls lately.  Long enough to be able to get all the goods though.  Nate and Charity were able to get on with us this week.  It's been a bummer for the younger kids to not get to talk to him.  He sounds so much happier with this new comp.  It's been so awesome to hear about and see the joy in him.  He still hasn't moved from the closet, but they have an apartment they are getting ready to live in.  Kind of awesome.  He's doing so many big things these days!!  It's fun to  hear about it all.  2-12-24

BRAD'S LETTER- MEAT DONNS
So this week was crazy for the first half and then we got absolutely cooked the second half. On Sunday we made like 10 new friends and had the most people we've ever had at church. Then we had sooo many LIMs and it was awesome for the first half. We also this week got 2 of our buddies on date and then found a future bishop we just need to get him baptized first😄 anyways the second half of our week we couldn't really get any lessons and our planning was really lacking. We had a huge activity so we invited everyone to that and then it was hard to meet with them the day of or the day before. BUT the activity we had was supposed too be big. We showed up and when it was supposed to start there was 5 people... we were actually super annoyed because of how much effort we put into it haha. But then an hour and 15 after it's supposed to start everyone started showing up. We started at 8:30 and we had more people at the activity than we had at church our first week. It was actually such a powerful activity and ended up being so good even though we had to leave early to get home on time and to eat dinner. This one kid we have on date came to church and his mom didn't come, his grandma wanted to though... so this 9 year old kid took his blind grandma on a 2 mile trip to church and managed to make it on time for the sacrament. Dedication.

Funny thing happened this week when we were trying to get a lesson with this one family inactive. They said they didn't have time and obviously we knew we had to have this lesson so what did I do? Asked to use his bathroom of course. He said yes of course. We made it in. But then I went to go to the bathroom this grandma that lives in their house had to as well... welll she was prepared and already took her pants off before she got to the door and as I turn the corner it just got very uncomfortable very fast. So I sat down and said I could wait for a minute haha. Anyways we asked since we were already there if we could have a lesson and it was sooo powerful!! 

We also found a house for us this week. They just need to finish building it in 1-2 weeks. It's actually one of the nicest houses here in Moquegua and I'm so hyped because it's so much bigger than our little closet we have right now. 

My comp also got pretty sick and we aren't sure what it is but basically he could barely walk up the stairs this week so we were a bit slowed down from running to every lesson. But he's getting better. 

My comp also was trying to kick rocks through my legs as we all do when we are walking to appointments. He managed to slip as he kicked a rock and his feet flew out from under him. And then he just landed completely on his back and managed to crack our brand new phone president just gave us. And then he kinda just wrecked his body. 

There's also this restaurant called meat donns that is a guy that went to the US and learned how to make burgers and then came back here. Basically it's the best burgers ever and we are so addicted. So we have found every excuse to go there but it's sorta expensive so good thing we aren't paying for taxis because we run everywhere. Anyways they're basically the highlight of the week whenever we have them and so we had to celebrate when we found a house and went there. 

Our ward plan has been going pretty well. Everyone kind of woke up this week because at our mission coordination meeting we got 20 leaders there! They were all pretty hyped and ready to get working. Everyone has family that's not members so we've been trying to find all those familias that we can activate and then bring new members a long with them. 

Spiritual thought 
19 And now, my beloved brethren, after ye have gotten into this strait and narrow path, I would ask if all is done? Behold, I say unto you, Nay; for ye have not come thus far save it were by the word of Christ with unshaken faith in him, relying wholly upon the merits of him who is mighty to save. 
20 Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men. Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life

Now let me add a work to verse 20...

Wherefore, ye must almost press forward with almost a steadfastness in Christ, having almost a perfect brightness of hope, and almost a love of God and of almost all men. Wherefore, if ye shall almost press forward, almost feasting upon the word of Christ, and almost endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall almost have eternal life

FHE
Erika taught a lovely lesson.  We played signs for Jack's game and had Berry Station for Molly's treat.  So fun.  2-12-24

LUNCH WITH ANNIE
I got to go to lunch with Annie this week.  Sadie came, we went to Chick-fil-a so that Sadie could play.  Which she did a little.  It was so nice to talk to Annie.  She's so awesome.  I hope she gets some answers on her medical issues soon.  She gave me that picture she drew of the girl with Jesus, for my mom.  So cool!  2-13-24

KELLY FINANCIAL APPOINTMENT
Right as we got in the car to go home from lunch with Annie, I got the call from Kelly for her financial appointment.  It was mostly good news.  I guess I am still worried that the insurance company has some loophole.  But we'll be hopeful.  It went well.  I was so glad we left when we did because I was able to be on that call.  2-13-24

COLUMBIA FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT
This was a fun  new thing at the school.  We all brought blankets and pillows to go watch Wonder at the Elementary school.  Just Jack, Molly, Sadie and I- the big kids were at basketball practice.  But it was actually kind of fun.  They sold popcorn and suckers and we all just sat there and watched.  I got to chat with Mrs. Beckstead for a little while- that was fun.  It was just a really good time.  Funny to think that I tried to do this for our school back when I was PTA president.  I wonder how they paid permission to play that movie.  That was the big hang up back then.  2-13-24

VALENTINE'S DAY!
We had a very mild Valentine's day this year.  It was late start, so everyone slept in.  I didn't do anything fun for the kids.  Unless you count the pink pancakes.  Kind of a bummer, but I guess we can't have it all.  I didn't do any class parties this year.  It was just kind of lame if I'm being honest.  I spent most of the day working on Nate's gift.  The date night idea dice were a little more work than I had anticipated, so it took me way longer.  But they did turn out really cute.  I gave him those and a Jazz shirt, jersey and hat.  So that was fun.  He gave me a necklace and some flowers!  Lots of fun.  We did manage to squeeze in another Valentines date.  We went to Slapfish and it was practically empty, so that was pretty awesome.  NOrmally we assume places will be packed on Valentines.  Not so this time!  We had a great time.  2-14-24

SIMPLOT
Kelly, Devan and I got to drive the high schoolers up to Idaho for Simplot!  This was a pretty fun trip!  I am not sure how we made Pocatello fun and exciting but we did!  The drive up was pretty uneventful.  We dropped the kids off at the arena, drove over to our Airbnb, checked in- which took rocket science.  I was pleasantly surprised with this place. It wasn't the lap of luxury, but it was good enough.  I would have loved to have been in the same hotel with the team though.  I think next time I go I will try harder to get in on that.  This place was fine though!  We brought our things in, relaxed for a bit and then headed out to go find the Soda Shak.  It was nowhere to be seen.  Over the next few days, we came up with a few different theories about where the soda shak might be- only a summer item, closed, who knew.  Either way, it was not where we had been lead and we even walked all the way through the Pine Ridge Mall to find it.  Which happens to be a very cool mall!  I would love to take the littles there some day!  After the disappointment of not getting drinks, we drove over to the arena to watch Luke and Noah do their hurdles.  We found grandma and Simon right away, sat by them and ate their nachos. We weren't sure if Luke was even going to be able to compete after hurting his ankle the day before, but I got the text that he was going to and we were all on the edge of our seat watching!  He did great with his circumstances.  The guy next to him had knocked over his hurdle and it was blocking Luke's so instead of just tipping over he tripped on it and landed in the splits!!  It was so crazy!  I was so worried for a second there.  He got right up, finished strong, and looked pretty good after!  I was so proud of him!!  Noah had a great run too!  He's been dissecting his form on each hurdle and decided he has some work to do there, but he also got a PR.  So pretty awesome!!  I'm proud of both of them!  They did great!  After hugging them and giving their run our stamp of approval, we left to go get some dinner at Olive Garden!  This was fun.  I loved talking with Kelly and Devan.  It was easy to carry on a conversation.  I probably talked too much, but they were patient :).  So much fun though.  We went to Walmart to get some snacks.  Then we headed back to the apartment and watched Couples Retreat for a little while, until Devan was uncomfortable, and then changed it to You, Me and Dupree.  Kind of a funny night for movies.  But that was fun.  I had to go take Noah and Blake back to the hotel pretty late in the night.  That was a fun little adventure.  We got up early the next day to go to the arena and watch the relays.  Grandma and Simon were there.  They had come up just for Simplot but stayed in Idaho Falls by the temple and so we saw them quite a bit, but not the entire time.  We got to watch Noah first, he did awesome, kind of lost his legs at the end of his lap of the 4X200, but did a great job for someone who doesn't normally run the 200.  Then we waited an hour to watch Luke in the 4X400.  He did awesome!  It's fun that they get that opportunity.  We went and gave them hugs and then took off for some Pocatello fun :).We went back to the apartment, relaxed, got dressed to go to the temple.  Then headed up to the Pocatello temple!  This was a highlight.  The drive there was interesting.  We weren't sure we were going to make it up the hill after having to stop behind a truck that got a little stuck.  We had a lady behind us stop and try to help us by talking me through it, but eventually (finally) moved her truck so we could back up and get a running start up the hill.  I was so glad we made it up.  Took us longer than we had planned and I was worried we'd be late, but we were able to get dressed and use the STINKY bathroom all in time to catch the end of the line heading into the endowment room.  Pretty lucky really!  It was a nice session, sitting by Kelly is always a pleasure to be with.  My mom and Simon were there as well and that was a fun thing too.  After the temple, we went to Walmart to get some food for lunch and my CeraVe face wash that they apparently don't carry in Pocatello Walmart.  So annoying.  Then we went back to the apartment to eat and relax a little.  We watched the first half of Prestige.  After that we headed out to get some drinks from somewhere and ended up finding the actual Soda shak!!  We were so happy about it!!  I got the Michael Scott :).  After that, it gets a little hazy on when and what things we did.  We had dinner at Mod Pizza which was actually really good.  And watched the rest of Prestige and then Safe Haven which was awesome.  We got to sleep in on Saturday.  Didn't get out of the house until about 10:30 to check out and then went to the Soda Shak with our $5 gift card this time.  I got the drink called "Third Wheel" which was super funny.  Then we parked at the mall so that I could do my hair (totally forgot to straighten it after letting it dry all morning before leaving) and Kelly and Devan walked through the mall a little.  I was pretty quick and then sat there playing on my phone for a little bit.  Then we met up with Grandma and Simon at the cemetery to say hi to my grandparents.  I just love thinking about my grandma and grandpa Mottishaw and grandma and grandpa Stowell.  It's so awesome that I had such amazing people to look up to and pattern my life after.  They were all very awesome.  It's fun to be there with my mom, I know she loves it as well.  Kelly and Devan were nice to humor us all.  We also stood by Steven and Jeffrey's grave for a bit as well and my mom talked about how When Grandma had Jeffrey she was alone, Grandpa was off at war, and Grandpa Stowell was the one there, to give him a name and a blessing.  She had only given him a first name at the moment, probably a little out of it having almost bled to death, but I guess it really bothered her forever that she didn't give him one.  She was such a sweetheart.  I wish I could be more like her in all her perfect ways.  She's just amazing.  After the graves we drove around alittle and did some window shopping at Hobby Lobby and Cafe Rio for lunch, then to a park for some pickle ball for Kelly and Devan and some napping in the car for me.  That back row is actually perfect for a good cat nap.  I loved it.  And needed it.  Something about this trip really wore me out.  They played for about an hour.  Then we made our way back to the arena to kind of wish it over quicker so we could go home :).  It was fun to watch the 3200 M girl- she lapped the girl in 2nd place!!  So amazing!  Broke some records.  Not sure which records, but some of them.  At some point they said fastest in the US, but Luke insists that's now what it was.  So anyway.  We finally got to see the Davis 4X4 that made it to the finals.  They didn't' do very well, but it was fun to watch the whole team cheer for each of them as they went around.  It was a very long day and everyone was very tired.  We were on the road pretty soon after that and had the quietest two hour drive I've ever had with a full van of kids.  We voted to not stop for food.  I had a great time on this trip.  Hopefully Kelly did as well!  Lots of fun!  2-15-24--2-17-24

CHARITY SINGING IN GRANDMA'S WARD
I got to my mom's church at 8:30 to practice on the chapel piano- best decision.  Got to run through it a bunch of times.  I left my music up on the piano so Charity and I weren't able to run through it when he got there at 8:58, so that was a bummer and then after the sacrament the music blew off of the piano when someone walked by it.  So when the first talk got over and we went up for Charity to sing, I had to bend over to get the music, put it on the piano and then like a guardian angel, this guy who had been sitting there, to give the second talk, he came up and magically stuck a piece of tape behind my music to secure it to the piano.  Very cool.  Charity did awesome!!  I messed up a bunch, but hopefully it didn't distract from her beautiful singing.  She's awesome.  I had to scoot out of there as soon as she was done, but it was a neat experience.  It was cool that grandma made that happen.  We need to have her sing in our ward.  2-18-24

BRADLEY'S PHONE CALL
Brad surprised us with a phone call on Sunday night!  We actually missed the first two attempts!  Luckily we were able to get his attention to try again.  It was so fun that he got to chat with each kid this time!!  Short, but very good!  Only downside was Nate basically missed it.  Only got on for a few minutes.  We even got Charity on there for a few minutes.  I loved hearing about the water balloon and the dog that his comp dodged.  He sounds really great!  I cannot believe he didn't get the backpack I sent him!!  So frustrating.  But he was really okay with it.  Next district conference I guess.  We loved how the phone got frozen while Brad was making a funny face.  2-18-24

BRAD''S EMAIL- CARNAVAL
Muy buenos días hermanos y hermanas

This week was pretty relaxing we had the first half and I don't remember much from the first half because genuinely not much happened. Minus that last P day I hurt my back and wasn't able to walk very well or stand up and sit down so that was a difficult few days. Obviously I'm better now though. We put our buddy Carlos on date for March and we're actually so excited for him because he clearly is progressing so well and just genuinely wants too change his life. This week we had zone conference so it made for an eventful couple days. 

Friday we had to leave mega early to go to Tacna which is a city super close to Chile so everything in Tacna is super cheap and people go there all the time to buy some nice cheap stuff. We got there and ended up being super early so we went to the church and played ping pong for hoursss. We also had our interviews and mine went sooo much better from last time because I was sorta depressed last transfer. But obviously everyone has to go through that phase so we're totally chilling now. We then got to sleep in this super nice hotel but it was just 80000 degrees at night so we were actually suffering. And we woke up and our door was open so someone definitely came in our room in the middle of the night which is sketchy. 

Saturday we had conference and we talked a lot about trusting in the spirit. We talked a lot about sharing ideas you have for your areas with everyone because that's how we're going to grow and improve as a mission. I think I actually have the best mission president out there gonna be honest. He's turning this mission into an absolute work force and we're growing so much. Along with that we're all super young so we're all just gonna grow with the mission having the same people that want to grind for the next 12-18 months. Anyways I got a cutie Lil package and that was freaking amazing. Minus my backpack came a day late so I have to wait til next transfer... conference definitely went late as usual so we left the church at 3 to go to the bus terminal so we can zoom back because we had a baptism at 7. We show up and miss the bus... so we end up having to wait til 4:30 to get on the next bus. Keep in mind these bus rides take 2-3 hours so on the way we had to just call everyone to make sure it would be okay when we got there. We were definitely freaking out and so the second the bus got there we booked it to the baptism. We got there at 7:45... but luckily for us we were right on time for Peruvians so we got there and it went amazing! We had a huge turn out and it was a really special moment for Gonzalo. 

Sunday- we got cooked at church. Basically nobody showed up until like 20 min after church started so none of them got to take the sacrament which is literally the reason we go to church. Kind of sad to be honest. We then decided to send papers to every class and have them write their name and numbers so that now we have the names and numbers of every active member. So we spent the day calling and visiting these people and actually ended up finding close to 10 more references that we get to teach this week. Super excited because we know there's actually so much more we just need to find them. While we were running up these stairs(we've made a rule that every set of stairs we find we have to sprint up them because we are getting fat) we heard a dog barking (we always hear them so it's normal to us) well then we look up and out of nowhere this dog comes sprinting at us with death in his eyes. He literally jumps at my comp and boom he side steps and the dog goes flying down the stairs. 

There's this thing going on this week called carnaval or whatever and basically people just chuck water balloons at people. Water balloons filled with whatever substance they can find. Luckily it's more chill here but still crazy. Anyways while we were on a bus to our appointment we see a guy wind up on the side of the road and absolutely chuck a waterballoon straight through the window and nails the bus driver in the face. He then serves and almost just kills us but it was actually the funniest thing ever. It's kinda scary because we're actually targets for these people so we gotta be extra careful this week. 

Spiritual thought: 

But behold, if ye will awake and arouse your faculties, even to an experiment upon my words, and exercise a particle of faith, yea, even if ye can no more than desire to believe, let this desire work in you, even until ye believe in a manner that ye can give place for a portion of my words.

Alright guys these are some difficult times we are living in. And sometimes we feel as if our faith is struggling. We feel as if we can't feel the spirit no matter how hard we try. There are times where we question every single part about what we believe in. These times are going to come if they haven't yet. But the thing that's most important is if we can have a desire to believe. If we have a desire to feel the spirit, a desire to understand. Obviously a desire isn't the ideal situation but it will carry you. It has carried me and I promise it will carry you and along with your desire you will begin step by step to understand more, believe more, and feel Christ's love he has for you. 
2-19-24

PRESIDENT'S DAY!
We didn't have school today!  It was such a fun surprise for Noah who didn't realize it until Sunday night :).  We didn't have anything fun planned so the morning was pretty lazy, then I went over to the church with Erika for her non official practice at our building.  I got ot play on my phone for an hour and half while they practiced.  Then we came back, gathered the littles for some Carls Jr for lunch.  Then while we were out Kelly, Luke and Noah went to play pickle ball.  We all met up after, watched some SPirit and then drove all the way up to Fly High for some trampoline fun!  Get Out Pass- thank you!!  Kelly and I sat and talked while Noah, Erika, Molly and Sadie played their hearts out!  It looked like they had a fun time!  I was glad.  Erika was really wanting something new to do.  So this was great!!  We need to plan a hockey game soon though!  Came home for some delicious dinner from Nate!!  Good times!  Happy day off from school!!  2-19-24

VENTS
Tuesday I had scheduled to have our dryer vent cleaned out again.  I was getting the error code every time I dried the laundry again and really wanted to experience those quicker dry times again.  The guy came and cleaned it, told me I needed a new vent cover on the outside of the house.  Then he said I could have a free quote on the air vents in the house and when  he took one look inside our vents was completely flabbergasted with how horrible they looked.  He totally talked me into getting them all cleaned out later that day and I talked him down about three hundred dollars!  So now we are all breathing cleaner air.  I am still working off the embarrassment of him going through our entire house and all the mess surrounding each vent cover.  Oh well.  2-20-24

ERIKA'S LAST JV GAME
I got one last game to watch Erika show her stuff.  She got to play a bunch on the Varsity game and then KILLED it in the JV game.  She did so awesome!!  Shot a really sweet three-pointer that Emily got a great video of!  So fun!!  She had a really awesome season.  The JV team only lost two games.  I just see those girls really knocking it out of the park next year.  I'm excited.  2-20-24

LUKE WISDOM TEETH
We went in for a consultation for Luke's wisdom teeth and found out that he only has one and it's not even fully developed yet, so he will not be doing the traditional get your wisdom teeth pulled fun before his mission!  I'm pretty relieved for him.  Everyone else is slightly disappointed that we will not have a fun video of Luke afterwards.  He seems relieved too.  2-21-24

KELLY DOCTOR APPOINTMENT
We had a quick little appointment today where they went over Kelly's lab results.  Seems her AMH is much lower than they thought before.  So it may take a few tries to get the 14 eggs they wanted to get.  If we can even get close to that number.  I am hopeful.  I know that Kelly will be a mom.  Whether it is for her own eggs or not and I am not going to worry about it.  I am going to pray for all of this to go smoothly, because it is going to be a pretty crazy process that I hope she can handle.  2-22-24

THREE GAMES IN A ROW
Luke and Noah had back to back rec games this week and then a church ball game after that!  We went to all three and cheered them on.  They did really good at their rec games.  I was SO impressed with the playing in those games!  The others on the team were actually trying and had so much energy!  So fun!!  Those were the last games of their season.  Then onto the first church ball game.  This was crazy!  15 boys showed up for the game.  They all played only a few minutes and with so many inexperienced out on the court at once, we just couldn't gain any ground!  So crazy!!  It was still fun to watch them all play though.  Good times.  2-22-24

LUNCH WITH STEVE
We met up at Big O tire so we could drop off Becky's car and I left with Steve to go to Costa Vida.  We had a nice time talking.  I wish we could do this more often.  I miss being buds.  But it was fun.  2-23-24

DATE NIGHT
We went to Monster Sushi tonight!  So yummy!  2-23-24

LAYTON TEMPLE OPEN HOUSE VOLUNTEERING
We all got to sign up to volunteer to work the open house at the Layton temple!!  It's gonna be so cool!!  I'm excited!  2-25-24

SADIE'S WELL CHECK AND KINDERGARTEN SHOTS
Everything was going really well until the doctor asked about her eating habits.  Then we had to have a pretty lengthy discussion about what she should be eating.  As if nobody knew.  Then she wanted the finger poke.  All heck broke loose.  Sadie did not love the finger poke.  She did much better with the shots, but all of it really threw off her groove.  She was a princess about it all again and it did take a few days to get over it.  Even a week later she was asking me if I remembered it.  She's been taking her vitamins, drinking more water, and even eating a few more things ever since.  Funny girl.  She's very average on the growth curve. And the doctor thinks her weekly leg pain is from cramping from lacking magnesium or water.  We'll see.  2-26-24

PHONE CALL
Got a fun phone call while I was at the mall with Sadie.  Apparently I have unhealthy boundaries with my kids and need to change that.  I disagree, but I guess I am also lying.  Lots of fun.  2-26-24

FIRST ROUND OF THE PLAYOFFS- ERIKA
Erika's coach asked her to dress and practice with Varsity this last week as they prepared for their playoff games.  She only got to play a few minutes in the one game because she got elbowed in the nose and had a bloody nose.  Did they call a foul?  No. But she did play awesome!!  I loved watching her.  She was so happy to play a little.  They won which was awesome, and kind of a miracle if you ask me, but then lost their next game against Farmington.  So sad, but also nice that practices and stuff are over.  2-27-24

JACK'S FINAL REHEARSAL FOR LION KING
Nate and I got to go watch Jack in his rehearsal.  This was a really fun opportunity.  We had really awesome seats over by his cave and were shocked at how well he did!!  I was so impressed with his acting and how many lines he had memorized.  It was so much fun to watch him in that role and on the stage- he really does seem fearless!!  I loved it!!  He seemed to really enjoy this one as well.  I think he's the only character who is in the whole show and stays the same.  Very cool!!  2-27-24

CONCESSIONS
This week was my week to really work on the concessions stuff for the play.  It was a lot more work than I had anticipated.  I decided to get the gummy bugs and package them as "Grub" and we still needed to figure out the popcorn popper and buy that stuff as well.  It was crazy really, but fine.  Kelly was my right hand man and once Erika got back from her game Thursday, she was also.  They both were SO helpful and good company.  We worked every night during the Mufasa cast and then watched Jack when his cast performed.  We had to keep going and buying more candy and food each night. And ordering more stuffy keychains.  Those were a BIG hit. Trying not to run out of the stuff everyone liked.  We did run out of roses the second night and Jen had to go get those and then the last night, before the second show, we ran out of popcorn!!  It was so sad!  Kelly tried to go get some at Bowmans, but they were even out!!  It was pretty devastating.  But we lived.  I think that got people to buy more of the other stuff that we were not really selling the whole weekend.  So it worked out.  I ended up making homemade cotton candy the last day, which was a crazy mess as well.  That sold really well too.  It was fun though!  I think I will sign up to do the concessions again next year, just because I know what works now.  We'll see.  I guess it depends on if Molly is in the play even.  But fun stuff.  2-29-24


 


Wednesday, February 7, 2024

JANUARY 2024

 PARTY WITH THE MAUGHANS

We met up with the Maughans at the church for a little fun and games.  Since we couldn't do New Year's Eve with them this year.  They brought pizza, we brought some wings, we all brought snacks and chips and drinks- pretty good buffet to nibble on while we played card games and then chair soccer for quite a while and some lightning and basketball.  It was a lot of fun.  It was fun that Rachel and Kelly were there for most of it.  Bummed when they had to leave.  But good fun.  Nate had to go work the mid, so we had to hurry and clean up and say goodbye to him.  Good times tho.  1-2-24

SLEEP MONITOR
I picked up my sleep monitor on Tuesday afternoon.  I was feeling all pumped to do it that night and of course it ended up being a complete disaster!!  There's a dumb canula to measure my breathing, that was the worst part- I hate those things.  Then an elastic around my chest and then one around my belly with a big box with recording stuff in it- super huge, not tight enough to stay in place, so I was adjusting those ALL night.  Then there was the dumb O2 monitor on my finger, the giant O2 monitor.  Stuck to my finger and then a giant box wrapped around my wrist for that.  SO OBNOXIOUS all the stuff I had to wear!!!  I wanted to kill something by the time I got it all on.  My O2 was a distraction all night.  I honestly didn't sleep hardly at all.  I think maybe 20 minutes at a time here and there, but overall, I was NOT asleep.  Then, to top things off, Sadie's legs were hurting in the night, so I had to get up with her and brought her in my bed to sleep.  That was the end.  I didn't even try to sleep after that.  It was so ridiculous.  I have no faith in whatever results they pull from that monitor.  If they tell me everything was fine, I am not going to believe it and if they tell me I have sleep apnea I'm going to laugh because I WASN'T ASLEEP!!!  So anyway.  Not my best night.  Been recovering ever since.  1-2-24

CAFE PERU
My mom invited us to lunch at a Peruvian restaurant in Salt Lake.  This was a really fun experience.  It was a small little place, but really clean, bright, I loved the big pictures on the walls of Peru.  The places we've all seen on our Google searches of Peru.  Machu Picchu, etc.  It was really cool.  The food was really good.  Mine seemed Chinese and it got me thinking about how Brad had said that they went to a Chinese restaurant his first day.  I guess there is a really heavy Asian influence there.  The lady serving us was SO sweet and so fun to talk about Brad and where he is and then she showed us some cool pictures on her phone.  Sweet lady.  It was really cool.  It was a little pricey, but we loved the experience of tasting a little of what Brad might be eating right now.  1-3-24

JACK'S FIRST YOUTH ACTiVITY
Jack got to go have his first activity with the Deacons.  They went and learned how to pass the sacrament.  I think he's starting to get a little nervous about that.  Hopefully he has some positive help and can feel comfortable.  1-3-24

CLASSIC FUN CENTER
We finally, very anticlimactically announced to some of the kids that we got them Get Out passes for Christmas.  For some reason, I forgot to give them on Christmas and then we just kept putting it off.  But we did today, and wanted to use them, so we (just Kelly, Erika, Molly, Sadie and I) went skating at Classic.  I did the whole Get Pass wrong, but they let us in anyway.  This was very exciting for Sadie.  She loved it!  She just brought her scooter and scooted around the whole time, but she keeps asking when she can go back to the ice skating rink.  Molly had a good time too- she is pretty good on roller blades.  Erika and Kelly were so fun with the younger girls and made this a really special fun night by skating with them a bunch.  I had had to donate my socks to Molly, so I wasn't able to skate, but I had a nice time watching everyone and enjoyed the chatting while they were taking their breaks.  Fun time.  1-3-24

BASKETBALL TRYOUTS
Erika had to have tryouts on the first day back to school from Christmas Break!  Holy moly.  She was really excited, but so nervous!  I knew she was going to do great!  She made the first cuts and had to go do some further tryouts the next day where they told them they were all on the team.  She had to wait the weekend to find out about varsity and JV.  She ended up making JV with the hope that she will be called on to play varsity once and a while.  I think once they see her with the girls who can play they will wish she was on the team.  But we're so proud of her!!  She's done so well at really progressing and growing this talent of hers!  So cool!  Here comes basketball season!!  1-4-24--1-5-24

FIRST BASKETBALL GAMES OF THE SEASON
Noah and Luke's team had an amazing come back on Thursday night.  I was pretty impressed that they were able to come back from being behind almost 10 points.  They won by like four. On Saturday, Jack's team played hard.  It was a bummer they didn't win, but Jack scored!!  And got a Fiiz.  
Erika's team would have had to forfeit, but they stole some players from the game before ours and we actually did amazing!  It was a really fun game.  I'm not sure how many games we will be able to not forteit with her team.  One girl is injured and another one has decided not to play.  So we'll see.  Hopefully there's someone to borrow every week. 1-4-24

DATE NIGHT
Nate's been on the carnivore diet this month so Tucanos was the perfect place to eat for our date night!  We had a nice time.  I love the cheese balls :).  We went and saw the new Wonka movie after.  1-5-24

SUNDAY SCHOOL
I taught our new class for the first time.  This was interesting!  It's a lot noisier and it takes longer to go around the room with things, but it was SO MUCH FUN to have everyone there!!  I hope they all come every week!  Good group of kids.  This was the 2006 and 2007 kids.  Hopefully my lesson on the introduction to the BOM was good enough.  1loved that Steve thought of an analogy for the keystone blocks that I hadn't.  1-7-24

ORDINATIONS
This was such a neat experience!  Did not disappoint!  We had Luke ordain Noah a Priest- this was really special and cool that Luke braved it out.  Noah was in tears!!!  So after Noah and he was able to wipe away his tears, he ordained Jack Deacon!  So special!!!  We were all in awe at how powerful the Spirit was in the room.  So sweet!!  Jack was so excited for this and I think he's going to really embrace his new position in the Church. 1-7-24

LUKE
Luke was a different kid today.  He was being so much fun with all the younger kids all day.  Even got them doing pushups during the game.  Then when I joked about him cleaning up the kitchen to bust his boredom, he replied that he was not to the age where you clean the kitchen when you're bored and I rebuttled back with something about it not being an age thing.  Then an hour or so later, I came back downstairs from putting Sadie in bed and there he was, sweeping the kitchen, the last step to his cleaning job!  He had cleaned the whole kitchen!  Awesome kid!  Almost made me cry.  1-7-24

BRAD'S PHONE CALL
I felt a little guilty being able to talk to Brad all by myself when he called this week.  I did pass the phone around, everyone HERE got a chance, but poor Nate missed out.  Steve was still here, finishing off dinner, so even Steve got to say hi.  We're not sure how to solve this problem.  Brad says he is only allowed one call.  I think this is a rule made by his trainer, not sure.  His P-day being on Monday has kind of thrown off the groove, but I think we'll get a new one.  Anyway- it was fun to talk to him, he sounded a little better from the week before.  I think he is getting the hang of things.  His comp is still hard, but they're adjusting I think.  He's teaching him English.  So that's funny.  I loved being able to see him smile as he joked with him.  The kids all loved being able to have a few minutes with him too.  He decided he's going to try to have a PMG study session with Luke and Noah on Monday mornings, we'll see how that goes.  With Luke's home release first period it will be a challenge to get him up.  But overall, it was a nice chat with Brad.  He loves the family who know some English and treat him really well.  He is fine with all the chicken and rice :).  He looks great.  Only two more weeks til transfers (according to Brad :) ).  1-7-24

BRAD'S EMAIL- I am more than halfway of the time it takes for a child to be born
This week was pretty awesome. Its still crazy to me how many different emotions i can experience throughout the day but how one always trumps the other haha. Probably because i just get more tired throughout the day so everything becomes a little more dramatic because I am dramatic person. This week we've been doing sooo much walking because I dont want to pay for a taxi so my calves and shins and quads have all decided to not function. Pretty sure my body is slowly dying and falling apart, kinda how it does in track when im finally getting the hang of things and then boom my ankle breaks or sum but this time is different because i'm serving the lord so i shouldnt have to worry. This week we experienced so many miracles and our shower water is slowly feeling less like an ice bath every day so thats also a huge miracle. 

Sunday was amazing, i have never really truly focused during the sacrament and focused on the words and the reason we have the sacrament. It was such an amazing experience and as we can focus on the why we need the sacrament and how important it is... I'm sure we'd all realize that text from that girl you're into can wait until after the sacrament. Today was pretty sweet bit crazy because Mollendo is a beach town so it was absolutely packkkked with people and lots of loud music/parties. We got a referral from a member and shes sooo elect. Then later tonight we got to have a feast with our pensionista and our zone. Lots and lots of fireworks and since most people dont have roofs they just light them in their houses and shoot them through the roof they dont⁰ have. 

Monday- p day, we played lors of soccer and then went and played some volleyball... it was kinda funny to watch... they dont have hand coordination here. We had dinner with a friend that is so elect but somehow hasnt been baptized but has been talking with missionaries for yearssss.

Tuesday- taught the referal and then sanded the members house for 2 hours and now my poor pants are kinda destroyed but i'm pretty sure i can fix them. 

Wednesday- District council today, my district leader is kinda a bully but its okay we survive. I am teaching english to th spanish elders and really have no clue how to do so. Im realizing how little english i actually know. We had divisiones today and it was actually so hype. We had a lesson with this dad and his little kids and it was so fun. They all seemed so interested and the next day I heard they were asking for me so im hoping i left a good impression haha

Thursday- not much happened but we had a lesson with 2 young boys but they both didn't really seem to interested sooo yeah

Friday- soooo good. We met with our friend fiorella and she accepted a baptismal invitation!! Its sad because the transfer is coming up so I might not even get to be there which is sad. But shes so ready and wants to change its amazing. Something big for her is she just wants peace and we promised her this will bring her so much peace. She also knows english, french, and german and is like fluent in all of them. Hopefully i stay but that also might mean i'm training because president told me I probably will which is terrifying because my spanish aint nowhere near ready...

Saturday- we did nothing i swear. We had a dinner with our friend omar and his family. They said they will come to church and they literally live across the street from it so they have no excuse not to. His 2 kids are absolute geniuses and are like famous or something. Super fun but probably not worth our time. Its been a slow week because everyone has been out partying. This week is the anniversary of Mollendo so theres been hige concerts and parties on the beach and everyone is gone from their homes haha. 

Sunday- i started fasting in the beginning of the day and apparently here they fast from lunch to lunch so i decided to do that too because why not, and now im dying because thats a really long time. But we had a lot of friends show up to church and set our friend jhon on date for the 20th so hopefully thatll go through. 

Spiritual thought: its not the situation but your actitude that determines the outcome...not sure if this is correct but im going; I don't have pics this week bit will have a Google photos link next week for you all. Sorry this is a short spiritual thought we are walking lots and don't have much time rn
1-8-24


FHE
I taught the lesson.  Can't remember it now.  Luke's game was watching the Jazz game, but Molly was sad we weren't actually playing a game, so she and I downloaded Wheel of Fortune on the Infinity and played that with Jack and Erika the whole time.  Cinnamon rolls for the treat!  1-8-24

REMOTE LEARNING DAY FOR LUKE AND NOAH
I really wish I had something really exciting to write about for this, but they didn't seem to want to do anything.  Noah had wanted to go to the mall and so did Sadie, so we did do that!  Luke was sleeping.  We checked out the Hey Dudes, didn't like any, bought some online instead, got some pretzel bites and then hung out in the little playground until Sadie was not happy and then dragged her out of there kicking and screaming.  So fun.  A few minutes after we got home, Nate showed up with pretzel bites and a bag from Dick's Sporting Goods, we had probably JUST missed him!  So funny.  We're finally making plans for Noah's friend party and birthday.  1-9-24

NOAH'S GLOW UP DAY!
Noah got his braces off!  Pretty exciting.  He looks great!  He says his teeth feel slimy.  Time to pretend like he's wearing his retainer.  1-10-24

PTA
I went to the PTA  meeting this week.  Kinda strange.  I just do not care about that stuff anymore.  And the President doesn't know who I am- HA!  Almost said things about me she may have regretted, but luckily the ladies who know me, stopped her.  1-10-24

YOUTH PARENT MEETING
I love when they let the youth run things.  They did a great job running things tonight.  I wish the adults would have just sat there.  But that's okay.  It's going to be a fun year!! 1-10-24

NOAH'S 16th BIRTHDAY
We stayed up all night perfecting his sign and it did not disappoint.  He was very happy with it in the morning :).  Kept talking about it.  The crepes fell flat when I learned we didn't have cool whip- I tried to push the ice cream idea, but it was not received well.  We'll save them for another day I guess.  The huge ol' stack.  We said good bye, then at 11:45 Sadie and I went and checked him out and took him to the DLD to get his drivers license.  We had a whole plan to get his license then go to lunch, but found out he hadn't taken the little online test thing yet.  So we got in the car, went and got food from Carls Jr. and Noah watched the videos and entertained us with his questions and test scores as we got food and ate in the car.  So memorable really.  We went back to the DLD, they gave him his temporary and he is officially official!  Good job Noah!!  Fun that we got to do it on his birthday!  I spent the rest of the day working on his brownies.  He wanted a hurdle cake with brownies so I did part of a track with some pretzel hurdles and then worked on a modeling chocolate Noah for about an hour and a half before deciding it wasn't going to work and moved on to cleaning up the kitchen and house.  It was a mad dash.  I was able to squeeze out a chocolate stick guy hurdler, which ended up looking really cool, but it was a mad dash!  I was kind of okay with it melting later.  But it did end up looking good.  Or sick in Noah's words.  We spoiled him with his family party: enchiladas, brownies and cookies and cream ice cream and lots of sick gifts Nate picked out!  Jazz Jersey, Jazz hat and a backpack for track.  The grandparents gave him lots of cash too. We were happy Charity and Hunter came to grace us with their presence :).  It's always a special occasion with the big kids come home. Kelly couldn't make it this time, but we still love her.  I think it was a good time.  We all piled into the car and went to his and Luke's game afterwards.  That was fun too.  Unfortunately they didn't win, but both boys played hard and Charity was there cheering them on!!  We love that!  1-11-24

TOYS AT SCHOOL
Molly stressed quite a bit as she tried to come up with a toy/game to take to school.  She couldn't bring electronics or anything with little pieces, so none of her Christmas gifts met the requirements.  She ended up settling on taking my fuzzies game and then they never even got it out.  Kind of disappointing for her, but I think she lived.  Jack also had a chance to bring whatever he wanted.  It was an anything goes day and I saw what some of the kids were taking- wearing pjs, a blanket, phones... Jack brought his Trader Joes knock off takis.  HA!  I asked him if he wanted to take something else, a toy or a phone and his response was, "I'm good." and reminded me that everyone else would be bringing things to do so he would just play with them.  Funny kid.  I like the minimalist style though, I'm good.  1-12-24

KIWICO
Molly got her first official box for her Kiwico subscription.  I was excited for her and she ended up painting and perfecting her little mini corkboard all afternoon.  It was the perfect outlet to her disappointing day at school.  Fun stuff.  1-12-24

NOAH'S FRIEND PARTY
Noah got to have his three friends (Zach, Blake and Nate) over for an hour-ish eating pizza and snacks before Nate took them all to a Jazz game!  This sounded like a lot of fun, I'm glad they had such a good time.  1-12-24

FRIDAY NIGHT- NO DATE
I didn't get my date this week, but I did get to hang out with all the cool kids.  Kelly had the idea of going over to the new little chocolate store and so we did that, got some chocolates while Sadie began the innocent begging for ice cream.  I think she could feel the ice cream shop close by so she had developed this undying NEED for it.  It was very innocent at first and she looked so adorable in her little sweats and boots standing directly in front of me, looking up with her sweet little face and saying, "Can Kelly take me to get some ice cream?"  So innocently.  It was only a matter of minutes before that innocent little request turned into a huge, knock down, blow out tantrum!  She went all out!!  Screaming, then kicking when I picked her up.  Kicked everything in her path as I put her in the car, including Molly's face.  Then she proceeded to scream at the top of her lungs as I loaded her into the car and tried to keep my cool while wrestling her into her car seat.  If anyone walked by at the moment, we definitely looked like I was kidnapping someone.  So sad.  She was very angry.  She screamed for another few seconds as we started to drive off, but then calmed herself down quite a bit- enough to say she was sorry.  Kinda cute.  The calming influence of being strapped into your seat.  She is usually pretty quick to repent in most cases, this seemed really fast.  We were able to talk about it a little and then moved on.  She did not get her ice cream.  I didn't mention that earlier on in the innocent asking I had considered getting courtesy cones, but that idea vanished with the first yell as we walked the wrong direction from the ice cream place.  This girl really just knows her location/directions too well.  That's her problem.  Too bad.  We will have to go there again sometime.  Not when I'm freezing cold though!!  And the chocolate shop was ADORABLE!!  Very fun to try it out and the chocolates were yummy!  We came home to play Tacos vs. Burritos with Kelly, Erika, Molly and I and then Kelly went and got Devan for the Jazz game watching the rest of the evening.  Kelly was nice enough to equip the kids with her laptop and Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.  The one we watched when the big kids were little.  We're excited to go see the new one with them.  Anyway.  Good times overall.  1-12-24

JACK FIRST TIME AT THE TEMPLE
Nate and I got to take Jack to the temple for his first time this Saturday.  We miraculously were able to get an appointment that day because Jack wasn't wanting to go the day before.  It was such a blessing.  When we got there, the temple was totally packed.  We had to wait a little while, but it was find with all of us.  Jack was perfectly fine waiting.  When we got in they let me do the family names Erika printed off for me, and so we all got to be in the font together and spend that time together.  I was so happy about that.  Jack felt so special.  It was fun to talk to him and hear his thoughts about it all.  Very cool kid.  Nervous, but totally on board with the new adventure.  I loved being there with him.  We stopped at Taco Bell on our way home for some tacos :).  1-13-24

JACK'S FIRST TIME PASSING THE SACRAMENT
Jack was so cute to invite Kelly and Charity to our ward for his first time passing.  I love that they made that a priority for him.  They brought their guys with them, which was fun too.  It's cool to have a full row again.  Jack did a great job- looked like a pro out there!  I was so proud of him.  1-14-24

FAMILY MEETING
Weather was such that I was glad Kelly and Devan headed back to Ephraim at a better hour, but we did miss them at the family meeting.  Charity and Hunter were there with us which was fun.  We all had a good time.  1-14-24


MARTIN LUTHER KING JR
I cannot for the life of me remember what we did this day.  Must have just lazied aaround because I have no pictures and no recollection of anything.  Maybe I'll ask around.  This brain.  1-15-24

CALL FROM BRADLEY
We did get to talk to Brad this day.  That was a huge relief.  He still sounds like he's needing a change and some kind of reset, but he tries to be positive.  Only one more week.  Everyone got a chance to talk to him for a minute or two.  1-15-24

HALLIE
Poor little Hallie joined the angels today.  This was such a sad day.  Erika came out from her room, sobbing, worried about Hallie.  She was not acting like herself and was just laying in her box.  We  started researching a lot of her symptoms and found some ideas, like a heating pad and keeping her warm. We did our best to make her comfortable.  I couldn't shake the feeling that she had a tumor, she had several bulges and a hard lump in her belly.  Some clear liquid had come out of the one by her tail.  She was not doing well.  We asked everyone to pray for her, but ultimately, we seemed like we were making some progress, so I took Erika to school.  She had missed most of first period, but trusted me with Hallie.  When I got back from taking Erika, I was holding Hallie and trying to get her some water and she had looked up at me like she was more awake and looked like she was going to start acting normal and then minutes later, she was gone.  She passed away in my arms, on the heating pad.  It was so sad.  I tried rubbing her and reviving her the best that I knew how, but she was gone.  It broke my heart.  I knew I was going to have to tell Erika.  I didn't want to wait so I went and checked her out and brought her home to break the news.  It was so devastating.  She cried for quite a while.  She did end up going back and she had her very first basketball game right after school, so we knew she needed to shake the sadness off, but it really was so hard.  Poor girl.  We will miss Hallie.  We kept talking about the fun we had with her, how cute she was, her long little legs when she would run across the front lawn- so cute!!  She was a sweet pet and more importantly, Erika loved her, so it was a very sad day.  But we know she is in a safe place, probably a better place.  Hopefully, Erika gets to see her again someday.  1-16-24

ERIKA'S FIRST KJH BASKETBALL GAME OF THE SEASON
I was so glad we went early to this game!  Erika got to play on the varsity game quite a bit!!  She did awesome!!  The JV game was even more exciting- Erika shot an amazing three pointer!  It was so cool!!  We had a big cheering section for Erika, the boys came, and Jack, Molly and Sadie.  Grandma Hatch and Simon were there.  It was so much fun!  It's going to be a great season!!  1-16-24

NATE'S FOOT
Somehow Nate hurt his foot.  He has no idea how.  I keep telling him to go have it seen, but he doesn't want to.  He had to miss Young mens and Noah reffed the yw basketball for him, hopefully he is right and it heals on its own.  1-17-24--1-20-24

LUNCH WITH PAPPY
We had our usual at Olive Garden Thursday.  It was another good lunch.  Sadie did awesome.  I am so glad we are doing this regularly.  1-18-24

BASKETBALL
Our basketball season is in full swing with Luke and Noah on a rec team with Nate, Noah on a rec team with his friends, Erika on a rec team, KJH and our young women basketball games, and then Jack on a rec team!  We spend a LOT of time watching basketball.  Kinda nuts really.  But we've got a lot of good teams this year!!  So much fun!!  1-18-24

CLEANING OUT THE CAR
I had this crazy urge to clean out the car.  It had gotten really bad and I knew it was going to require a trip to the vacuums.  It wasn't the most convenient day to do it, Nate's foot was still hurting and he had meals to prepare, but I could not shake this need.  So I took the van and cleaned it out.  Took me a good hour.  I wasn't sure why it needed to be cleaned out until the next day.  1-29-24

DATE NIGHT
We went to Tucanos for our date night.  So yummy.  Fit right in with Nate's carnivore diet.  1-19-24

FAMILY BAPTISMS
We were able to take Luke, Noah, Erika and Jack to the temple to do baptisms this Saturday.  This was a really neat trip as well.  It was Noah's firsts time baptizing.  It was super cool that there were tons of people there without baptizers, so the boys ended up doing a LOT of baptizing!  Then Noah got to baptize Luke and Jack also.  Pretty cool stuff!  I got to be the witness with Nate for a lot of it.  So fun!!  So cool!  I love that we did this.  We need to do it more often.  1-20-24

PICTURES AND DRIVING FOR THE JANUARY JAMMIE JAM
I was planning on taking pictures for Noah's dance group, Saturday, but then they surprised me with the opportunity to drive them all night as well :).  Nate had changed his mind about driving everyone before his six months.  So I got to!  And what a blessing I had already vacuumed out the car the day before!  The car looked great!  We went up to their sledding spot, up on the mountain and by the time we got there the sun was all but set.  We got a couple with a sliver of light still shining, but the rest it was pitch dark!   So crazy.  They actually turned out okay though!  I was surprised.  I think they all had fun.  Luke got to hang out with Raegan that night.  They both didn't go to the dance.  1-20-24

SUNDAY SCHOOL
This was our second Sunday with our new class.  New people in our class.  It went pretty well, I thought.  Nate was in there, observing.  The kids all participated and contributed questions and experiences.  It was nice!!  I was so happy with how it went.  Minus that I was afraid I offended the new girl.  I don't know though.  1-21-24

LUKE'S PATRIARCHAL BLESSING
This was so neat!!  I really loved hearing Luke's blessing and being there to hear all that Heavenly Father wants for him and how much He loves Luke.  I loved that Patriarch Huls pointed out that one of the purposes of a Patriarchal blessing is to hear Heavenly Father's love for you.  So cool!  It strengthens my testimony of the Priesthood so much to hear things that most people wouldn't know about Luke.  I am excited to see what Luke does with all of his gifts and blessings and the life he chooses.  Especially his wife- she sounds amazing!!  Can't wait!!  1-21-24

LUNCH WITH MOM- NOT
Sadie and I tried to meet up with grandma at Everbowl to have lunch, but as soon as we had ordered, we got a call from Jack, that he was sick at school.  I needed to go pick him up, so we hurried out of there and headed home.  Sure enough, Jack threw up when we got home.  Poor little guy!!  Not feeling great.  Lunch was good, but not how we had planned.  Luckily Jack was not sick for too long.  We just kept him home one more day for good measure.  1-22-24

CALL FROM BRADLEY
We didn't get much time this week.  But we are all very anxious to hear about transfers tomorrow!  Brad is hopeful!  1-22-24

QUICK EMAIL- ELDER BRADLEY MAYNES
Hey guys I love you all and want to hear how you're doing. This week was pretty crazy but I don't have much time so I will give you guys a good email next week. We got this family that has been being taught by missionaries for 2 years but hasnt gone to church in those 2 years to finally come to church so that was sick. We have transfers this week too so ill ley you all know what happens. Have a good weekkkk  1-22-24

HEIDI TO THE ER
I got a text from Heidi needing a ride to the ER and someone to watch Alyssa.  I went and picked her and Alyssa up, drove Heidi up to Davis hospital, dropped her off and then came home to play.  Sadie and Alyssa played so well together all day.  After I dropped off the food for the teachers, I went and picked up Heidi.

TEACHER DINNER
I got Coasta Vida this time, for the teachers.  It didn't feel creative, but I couldn't think of anything else.  Julia was worried that the salad wasn't going to go far enough.  Then she offered food to everyone else in the building.  Kinda nuts.  It went well though.  Thankfully Nate was able to go clean it up for me.  1-24-24

PARENT TEACHER CONFERENCES
So I did the unthinkable and scheduled Molly's on Wednesday instead of Thursday like I'd thought.  So we missed hers.  Luckily Mrs. Lindsey let us come Thursday before Jack's.  Molly is doing great!!  SO high on all of her testing and such a great reader and friend to her classmates.  Mrs. Lindsey just loves Molly- it's super cute.  Fun to hear all about all that she is doing.  
Then we had Jack's.  He is doing well also!  I've been really impressed with his improvement and that he is doing so well socially.  He is setting some goals to work on typing and getting his assignments turned in.  But overall- doing great!!  
They both got to pick out a book from the book fair!  Fun stuff.  1-25-24

LUKE SICK
It was Luke's turn to get sick I guess.  He had it from Thursday to Friday.  Kind of a bummer.  Still hung out with his friends that night though.  1-25-24--1-26-24

DATE NIGHT
We went to Red Robin and then to see the movie Boys in the Boat.  Both were great!  Nate went on and on about his food that night- really loved it!  I think he got the surf and turf.  It was really yummy.  And not too long of a wait.  The movie was great as well!  I love the feel good underdog takes all movies.  So cool.  The kids need to see this one.  1-26-24

SADIE SICK
Sadie came up to our room in the night and I let her lay down next to me.  Minutes later, she was throwing up all over the place!  All over me, our bed, our floor, the bathroom.  It was crazy.  We got most of it cleaned up and she seemed done for the night, so I went and laid in her bed with her to get her back to sleep.  Well we did not really get back to sleep.  She proceeded to throw up about every 15 minutes ALL. NIGHT. LONG.  Didn't let up.  She was only throwing up stomach bile after like the third time, so I don't know how she kept going.  It was so sad!  She made it to the bathroom most of the times, which was good, but so crazy!  I was exhausted the next day.  We bummed around quite a bit.  Had to miss our cookie making date with Grandma. 1-28-24--1-29-24

ELDER MAYNES' EMAIL- GRINGO POWER
Okok I apologize the past 2 weeks have been wilddd. And I also haven't been writing emails or Journaling because my mind has been so preoccupied on this new area we have. We had transfers and it was freaking amazing. My new comp is Elder Hoff and we both just wanna work this area so hard. We got sent to Moquegua to open an area that's been closed for over 5 years. The ward used to actually be 2 wards but after covid they closed the chapel they had and now they have to travel a little bit further to go to church so now 90% are inactive. There's almost 1000 members in the ward and we had under 100 show up to church and this ward has just been dying and hasn't had any solid leadership to help them. So me and my comp have developed a plan to get this ward moving and we strongly believe this area can become the highest baptizing and biggest ward in the mission we just have to work really hard. This Sunday we both gave talks and basically hyped up the ward so much and got them all excited for this new change. We talked about how we cant grow this ward and can't find the people that will listen, without them. Missionary work is changing from knocking doors and contacting in the street all day, to member work. The members all know people that will listen we just need their trust and their efforts. We then are meeting with every leader and teaching them how to teach members to find referrals and how to get the missionaries teaching them. Then we are going to cut the area into different areas and then assign the "power members" or the members willing to work that live in those areas to visit those families and get ministering going. Because the ministering they have right now is so hard because this place is HUGE hills and so much walking so they cant get over there. And then they teach them how to refer their family members and friends because most of these inactive families have been inactive for yearsss and all know people who are super elect they just need someone to reach out to them. We also are wanting to get a meeting with all the leaders and we will set baptism and inactive member goals with each different organization, and it's going to be a goal they make and they feel they can reach. We basically have decided try to set this area up as if it's a mission and run it like a mission. If every member and every organization can make goals and work individually but also at the same time together to grow the ward, everyone is going to start seeing growth and at the same time want to work harder when they see the fruits of their labors. I don't really know how to explain this very well but we are actually getting this going so well and have been working sooo hard. We've been trying to look outside the box and it's actually working so good right now. Like it's all we've been able to talk about because every meeting we have with leaders and members they get so on board and want to work with us. Basically we have another big meeting Wednesday with all the leaders to get this plan in place and to like actually start it. Anyways this was probably confusing for yall buttt we got these 2 people on date this week and they're actually super elect and then we also have another friend that came to church and he bore his testimony in elders quorum and it was actually so hype. But basically this transfer is going to be a lot of work and I'm so stoked. This week we have been focusing a lot on the sacrament because if we can understand the importance of the sacrament we would be running to church to take it. It truly is a blessing so I would like yall to study and ponder what the sacrament means to you. 

I also forgot to add me and my comp are basically without purse or script. We don't have a house and so we are trying to find members that will let us use a room in their house to live this transfer. And a place to eat or a pensionista. Right now we are living in a tiny little closet room in these other elders apartment. But it's way out of our area so it's a pain to walk a couple miles into our area every day. But also at the same time this is so exciting because we are like in the olden days. Anyways pray that we will find a house and food because we don't like our closet. We are doing very good otherwise though. 

1-29-24

PHONE CALL FROM BRADLEY
We got to talk to Bradley today!  Super short, but it was so good to talk to him.  He is working so hard!  He doesn't have a place to live, he's in a "closet" of some other elders, but he's so happy!  Seems to be really excited about reactivating this ward he's with.  So good!  We loved seeing him happy!  1-29-24

FHE
Jack taught us about Nephi and Lehi tonight.  Great job!  We had Oreos for my treat and watched the Jazz game for the activity.  1-29-24

JACK PHYSICAL
Jack needed his 7th grade shots so we went for a well check.  Went pretty good.  It's cool that he is exactly average on everything.  Didn't shed a tear for the shots!  Good job Jack!  1-31-24