"You are not here to live a mediocre to average life; you are here to live an amazing life, a miraculous life. If it weren't for your challenges, there would be no miracles. You must do that which seems impossible, for it is only in the impossible that miracles are had." - author unknown, but very respected

Monday, January 31, 2011

Future Memories

- Friday I was sick all day.  What is with me getting sick on the weekends so that Nate has to spend his only free time doing all the stuff I would do.  I hate it.  It's times like these that I think, "I might as well be pregnant!" But I realize that's kind of a strange thing to say.  I'd just rather my sickness be productive and have a beautiful outcome.  When I'm sick it's just me sick.  then try to recover.  Stinks.  Hopefully this week will be a good healthy one for our family.  We just finished week 3 of constant bugs.... seems like there was someone sick everyday.  I'm sure we had a day here and there, but right now I'm too negative to think about it all.

- Sunday morning, Nate made breakfast, bisquick pancakes, but he added something really clever, the little heath bar nuggets that have been sitting in the pantry for almost a year.  They were spectacular!  Erika ate a record breaking FIVE pancakes!!  And Luke, believe it or not, had TWO!!!  They were a winner with everyone else, but I'm not sure how much everyone else had, these were just too amazing to not mention :)

- During Dinner (this was our EARLY dinner before Nate left for work at 2:00) on Sunday, I decided there was too much fighting going on and I mentioned to the kids how when I was in fourth grade I went 3 whole weeks without fighting with my brothers or sister!  And I got fifteen dollars for it!!  (I also went without sugar those three weeks as well, and got fifteen dollars for that too.... very productive 3 weeks off track from school!)  They all got talking about how THEY all could go a YEAR without fighting!  Charity decided (and asked) that if she went without fighting for a whole year she would get a dog!  I consented.  Then Kelly said she would go a year without fighting so she could get a Kitty!  And then Brad of course joined in and HE wants a Bunny.  I said yes to all of them.  I thought it was funny that Luke didn't really seem interested in the wager.  Maybe he saw how unrealistic it was..... who knows.  But I thought it was cute and we spent the whole meal being nice to each other, say nice things, talking about church, it was spectacular!  I am pretty sure the first time anyone fought (that I noticed and pointed out to them) was Monday.  So a whole day!  Not too bad!!  We keep "starting over" on the year thing.... at this rate we'll never have to buy a dog or a cat.  Could work out to be a good idea for me :)  HA! Jk.  If Charity is reading this she's probably almost crying.... I will still let you get a dog somehow Charity!!  The no fighting thing would be your cheapest route, but just so you know, I do want you to get a dog someday.... didn't want to freak you out with this post.  Anyway.  It was a lovely moment for us, felt the Spirit very strongly through the whole evening.  Loved it.

- I worked out!!!!  I finally gave in and took Luke, Noah and Erika to the Day Care at the Gym so that I could work out.  It's been something that's been haunting me for a while.  I don't think I'll do it everyday, but I'm okay with an hour or so every other day now that I've taken that step.  I don't know what it was.... I hate leaving my kids and even worse, leaving them when it's for something like working out.  But it really has just come down to this.  I don't want to sacrifice sleep and I don't want to sacrifice time with Nate.  So I guess Luke, Noah and Erika will suffer until I can get things straightened out with my sleep schedule.  I hope that doesn't make me a horrible mom.  I am sure there are worse things I am doing.  I figure it's better for them to be happily watching a movie and playing with strangers and strange new toys while I work out than nagging me and making me frustrated that I can't get in a whole workout.  I don't know.  Whatever..... can ya tell I'm still trying to justify it!  I wish I could just not worry about stuff like that!  I miss my little ones.  They seriously couldn't care less, they hardly even wave when I drop them off and they're not that happy to see me when I pick them up, so it's debatable whether they even care..... But anyway!  I worked out!  3 miles!  Two days in a row!!!  I'm happy about it.

- In the car today (actually, as I was driving the last few drops of gas out of my car) trying to distract myself from the frustration of an empty tank, I asked Luke what he was going to be when he grew up.  He said, "Play games person".  And I said, "You want to play games when you grow up?" And he said, "Yeah, but not kid games, parent games!"  I asked, "Like what kind of parent games?"  And he said, "Like Tennis and that kind of stuff!"  Eventually we came to the conclusion that he wants to be a pro athlete!  How cool is he!!!!  He said Baseball, but I'm okay with him changing his sport :)  I just thought it was cute of him.  He really is the athletic type.  And if we can get him to do more than play the wii and watch tv, I think we could really have ourselves a good money maker here :)  HA! jk.  Just a cute little Lukey thing to say..... fun stuff.

- Noah had his 3 year well child visit.  He was SO shy!  He's measuring in the 25% all the way around, so that's kinda good :)  He's just small.  He got a little lecture from Dr. Judd about using the big boy potty and how diapers are for babies.  So I got all self-conscious and decided to start him on potty training as soon as we got home.  He did mostly imaginary poops and pees and a few accidents, but today, the next day, he has already gone twice!!  It's so great!!!  I'm not sure we're done, we have yet to poop, but I think he's got it for the most part!!!  I'm happy for him! (1-26-11)

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