"You are not here to live a mediocre to average life; you are here to live an amazing life, a miraculous life. If it weren't for your challenges, there would be no miracles. You must do that which seems impossible, for it is only in the impossible that miracles are had." - author unknown, but very respected

Sunday, August 27, 2017

DAY 6- San Diego- Newport Beach Temple and Driving home

I insisted that we take a detour out of the city to pass by the Newport Beach Temple.  We had missed it last time we were in CA, I didn't want to miss it again.  It was only a few minutes out of the way.  When we got there, we were hit with a road closure right in front of the temple so we had to park at a nearby park and walk over and then we were hit with a locked gate when we finally got there.  It was closed for cleaning.  Of course.  I stuck my camera in through the gate to get some pictures, and then we left :).  It was so beautiful!  And of course the Spirit is so strong!  I LOVE the look of this temple!  It's so different!  Very fitting for the area.  I was glad we got to see it.


So the drive home went by really fast!  I was surprised at how fast it felt.  The kdis did great!  We only stopped about a million times every time Jack's pee was "going come out!"  

I did take a LOT of the time to do a little questionnaire.  This is a tradition that I almost abandoned, but Bradley requested it, so then I got all excited that it was something he likes too :).  I found some new questions this time ( I had help with Molly and some of Jack's) and I didn't go in any particular order- I just took their answers as they came flying at me :) :

1. What are your strengths?
 Luke- basketball, running, eating.  
Erika- basketball, rollerblading, teaching.  
Noah- strong, fast, basketball.  
Brad- basketball, running, fishing.  
Kelly- giving advice, lacrosse, hair doing.  
Charity- happy, make friends easily, smart.  
Jack- I don't know (knows everything, humor sweet).  
Molly- happy, funny, good sleeper.  
Nate- make good kids, picked  good wife, telling people what to do.  
Me- sleeping, photography, calm.

2. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
Erika- Jungle.
Noah- Jungle.
Luke- Fast food restaurant.
Brad- by the ocean.
Charity- the ocean (yes, in it).
Kelly- mountains but close to stuff like stores and stuff.
Jack- I don't know.
Molly- with birds or in a fabric store.
Nate- wherever my sweet wife lives. (awwww!)
Me- by the beach in a Victorian house with a wrap around porch :) with Nate :).


3. What are your goals for this school year?
Brad- Get a 4.0
Luke- Get straight 3's.
Noah- Get straight 3's.
Kelly- To balance out lacrosse and AP classes.
Erika- make more friends
Charity- pass BOTH AP tests.
Molly- have fun with mommy.
Jack- learn to read.
Nate- help the PTA President.
Me- survive being PTA President.


4. Who do you talk to when you have a problem? How do they help?
Erika- Mom. Telling me the answer to my question.
Luke- Mom and Dad, telling or helping figure out an answer.
Brad- Mom and Dad. Help me figure it out.
Charity- Mom, support and encouragement.
Kelly- a lot of different people, cheer me up.
Jack- mom.
Molly- Daddy, gives her whatever she wants.
Nate- Christa, listening and giving me a different perspective.
Me- Nate.  Talks me off the cliff.


5. What do you like to do for fun?
Erika- Play with Noah or rollerblade.
Luke- eat.
Noah- play with Erika.
Molly- smash sandcastles.
Charity- sing.
Kelly- Blast music.
Brad- Play basketball and go fishing.
Jack- Play with Noah.
Nate- Go fishing.
Me- Blog about my cute family.


6. What are you worried about?
Brad- teachers for Junior High.
Luke- teacher for 6th grade.
Erika- doing goo din school.
Charity- not getting into college or not doing what's best for me.
Kelly- losing friends.
Noah- People not liking me in school.
Jack- I don't know.
Molly- where my B is!
Nate- wife and kids being safe.
Me- losing Nate.


7. What do you wish your parents knew about you?  What do you wish your friends or classmates knew about you?
Luke- what it is like at school. How I am at home.
Erika- how annoying the drinking fountain rule is.  I can actually teach Kate things.
Noah- How annoying the drinking fountain rule is.  How hard my life is.
Brad- how annoyin git will be to have Jase and his friends teasing me all year.  It's really annoying to just insult people unless you're playing.
Charity- that I really want a laptop wink wink.  That I"m not completely clueless.
Kelly- I can't think of anything.  When I'm joking.
Jack- When I'm going to die.  I don't know.
Molly- what she wants.  She is the princess.
Nate- how much I enjoy spending time with them.  I'm sentimental/friendship means a lot to me.
Me- How much I love them.  I'm usually joking.


8. If you could have one wish, what would it be?
Luke- wish for more wishes.
Brad- I could shape shift
Noah- all the powers in the world.
Erika- no wars.
Molly- a drink.
Charity- never fail a test.
Kelly- no worldly problems/natural disasters/hunger/wars.
Jack- I don't know.
Nate- Everything.
Me- that my kids all love their parents and want to share all the traditions we have forever :).

9. What do you feel ashamed of?
Luke- peeing my pants at school in 1st grade.
Brad- Not petting the sharks when I could have a long time ago.
Jack- I don't know.
Kelly- Setting a goal to not fall asleep on this drive home.
Charity- telling secrets.
Molly- crying on the boat tour.
Erika- not doing my job when I'm asked to.
Noah- not doing stuff that people ask me to do.
Nate- stealing quarters from Lynn for 25 cent day in 6th grade.
Me- swimming in the pool after the beach to get all the sand off!


10. Where do you feel safest?
Erika- home, actually the temple. 
Kelly- Home, temple or church.
Luke- Home.
Brad- Temple.
Jack- I don' tknow.
Noah- Home.
Charity- Home or temple.
Molly- Daddy's arms.
Nate- with Christa.
Me- Home with Nate and all my kids watching a fun movie :).


11. If you weren't afraid, what would you do?
Luke- jump off the high dive.
Erika- rock climbing.
Charity- skydiving.
Noah- anything.
Jack- I don't know.
Molly- walk on drain lids or learn to talk.
Brad- learn to do a back flip. 
Kelly- anything I wanted to.
Nate- publish a news article about corruption in the FAA.
Christa- sky dive.

12. What does failure mean to you?  Have you ever felt like a failure?  How did you cope?
Luke- Not succeeding.  When I didn't do my best.  By realizing it wasn't too bad and that I can try again.
Kelly- giving up.  Yes, at those first few lacrosse practices.  I kept going back.
Jack- I don't know. No.
Charity- Not trying your hardest.  Didn't pass AP test.  I cried.
Molly- Not getting what you want.  All the time.  Cry.
Erika- mess up and give up.  On my pretest everybody can tell what they did wrong.  Talking to myself in my head saying that it's just a pretest.
Noah- doing something wrong and don't try again.  When everyone starts bragging about themselves.  I think of all the things I'm good at too.  
Brad- giving up.  When I was playing basketball horribly.  Started practicing.
Nate- stop trying to be better.  When I struggled so much through the D sides.  Kept trying.
Me- Giving up.  Pretty much everyday as a mom.  I try to repent daily and pump myself up for the next day.

13. How can you tell that you are getting angry?  What are you thinking?
Noah- When I start getting super hot.  I wanna punch the person closest to me.
Erika- I get thirsty and hot.  But Noah.
Molly- I start screaming.  Not thinking.
Charity- I want to cry.  I want to get even.
Jack- I don't know.  I don't know.
Kelly- I get frustrated and super clenched.  Why they're making me mad.
Luke- When I feel like screaming.  That I want to scream.
Brad- when my face turns red.  I want to punch something.
Nate- I get quiet, sigh, heart-racing.  "How long can I go without saying something.
Me- Adrenaline rush.  Try to stay calm.


14. How are you different?
Luke- I'm athletic and smart.
Erika- I pick what I want and not just what everyone else picks. 
Bradley- I like all subjects and I'm good at them.
Charity- I'm good at bouncing back from trials and stuff.
Kelly- I don't talk about feelings as much as other people.  
Noah- 
Molly- She's a good sleeper!
Nate-
Me- I like a challenge and will choose to do things I know will be hard.


15.What's something that adults (parents, grandparents, teachers, etc.) say to you that's really stuck with you?  Do you think they're right?
Erika- Mrs. Burns said that it's better to not practice cursive now because if someone teaches you wrong you'll learn it the wrong way.  Yes.
Luke- Mom told me that I'm awesome and I am awesome.
Bradley- Everybody told me that I was good at basketball.  Yes, I hope.  
Kelly- They say not to worry.  Yes.
Jack- I don't know.
Charity- I'm outgoing or loud.  Yes.
Molly- She's cute.  Yes.
Noah-
Nate- My Dad said I was good with animals.  Yes.
Me- My mom told me I don't look good in purple.  I don't know.


16. What do you do when people don't seem to like you?
Luke- I ignore them, say too bad, nope, sorry.
Erika- Just walk away.
Molly- Not like Molly??
Charity- I tend to do stuff that makes them annoyed at me. 
Jack- I don't know.
Kelly- I shrug my shoulders and move on cuz who cares.
Noah- I try and put their words against them.
Bradley- I just shrug my shoulders and not care.
Nate- 
Me- I usually try to make it so they do.


17. What is your proudest accomplishment?
Luke- Decathlon.
Bradley- Winning TTM and Decathlon.
Erika- I passed this really really really important test.
Noah- I went on Cannibal.
Molly- Saying popcorn!
Charity- Passing my AP test.
Kelly- Getting better/being pretty good at Lacrosse.
Jack- I don't know.
Nate- My family.
Me- My kids.


19.  What do you like about your school?  What do you dislike?
Like:
Luke- Lots of people to become friends with.
Bradley- There's better lunch than Elementary school.
Kelly- I'm not in it right now.
Jack- I don't know.
Charity- The school spirit.
Erika- There's such nice teachers.
Noah- It's really easy to make new friends.
Dislike:
Bradley- I don't know much about it.
Luke- The mean people.
Erika- Taking two sips at drinking fountains.
Noah- Everyone's so stubborn.
Charity- That I don't know a ton of people yet.
Kelly- Cliques.
Jack- I don't know.


20.  What do you do when you're stressed out?
Luke- Punch a wall.
Bradley- Listen to music.
Erika- Go to my room.
Noah- Punch the person closest to me.
Molly- Cry.
Charity- I thrive on stress.  I work harder when I'm stressed.
Kelly- My back starts to hurt.
Jack- Punch my pillow.
Nate- Workout.
Me- Take a nap.


21. What's something nice you could say to yourself?
Noah- I'm the awesomest person in the world!
Erika- I can do hard things.
Charity- You are beautiful.
Jack- I don't know.
Kelly- You got this!
Luke- I like chips!
Bradley- You can do anything if you put your mind to it.
Nate- You are handsome.
Me- Keep trying.  Don't get discouraged.


22. What is your happiest memory?
Bradley- When I'm with my family.
Luke- Taking naps.
Erika- On our trips.
Noah- Oregon.
Charity- This trip.
Kelly- With my family or at Girls Camp.
Jack- Field trip.
Molly- Meeting my new siblings.
Nate- Wedding day- in shock from seeing how beautiful my new wife was.
Me- My wedding day. Driving away from the temple with my new husband.


24. What is your favorite book? 
Bradley- Michael Vey
Luke- Diary of a Wimpy Kid
Jack- I don't know
Kelly- Michael Vey
Charity- Book of Mormon
Molly- Kitty Book
Erika- Spider Wick
Noah- Spider Wick
Nate- Of Mice and Men
Me- Women and the Priesthood

Movie? 
Bradley- Moana
Luke- Big Hero 6
Jack- Moana
Kelly- Miracles From Heaven
Charity- A Dog's Purpose
Molly- Moana
Erika- Miracles From Heaven
Noah- Pete's Dragon
Nate Shawshank Redemption (edited version)

Song?
Bradley- Quarterback King
Luke- Brand New
Jack- Seize the Day
Kelly- Brand New or This Town
Charity- Thunder or This Town
Molly- "Na!" (Moana soundtrack, mostly Shiny)
Erika- Moana Soundtrack
\Noah- King of New York
Nate- How Great Thou Art
Me- I Need Thee Every Hour

 Food?
Bradley- Whatever Mom and Dad make
Luke- Ham and Cheese Sliders
Jack- I don't know
Kelly- Mangoes
Charity- Mashed Potatoes
Molly- Toast
Erika- Meatballs
Noah- Breakfast Burritos
Nate- Beef Stroganoff
Me- Anything I don't have to cook

 Color?
Bradley- Green
Luke- Orange
Jack- Red
Kelly- Yellow
Charity- Teal
Molly- She actually goes for pink things a lot.
Erika- Purple
Noah- Yellow
Nate- Green
Me- Purple, or light teal

 Animal?
Bradley- Fish
Luke- Cat
Jack- Tigers and Lions
Kelly- Cat
Charity- Dog
Molly- Dog
Erika-Cheetahs/Leopards
Noah- Lynx
Nate- Hawk
Me- Penguins


25. What are you grateful for?
Erika- Family
Luke- World
Bradley- Life
Kelly- Gospel
Noah- Life
Charity- Music
Jack- I don't know
Nate- Testimony
Molly- Family
Me- Heavenly Father


26. What do you like about yourself?
Luke- I'm kind.
Noah- I have a good imagination.
Erika- I'm super friendly
Charity- My smile.
Kelly- My height and hair.
Jack- I don't know.
Bradley- I'm kind and my height.
Nate- The color of my eyes.
Molly- My cute personality and how I can get anyone to do anything for me with it.
Me- My testimony.

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